Post: #26

Wizard!

We are now fake gayness brothers

Post: #27

Actually someone already mentioned such a business opportunity. Especially wealthy men who want to get rid of their gold diggers, wives or ex-wives would pay good money for that. Some wives may even forfeit millions just to be free for the supposedly rich super-alpha. Then that guy ends it and she is left with much less money to burn.

Post: #28

This is ridiculous.

Even if a bitch is head over heels, or has mental problems, is schizoid, or otherwise acting like 99% of women, the following phrase can end it nice and neat:

"I'm just not attracted to you anymore."

Post: #29

(06-04-2015 04:43 AM)Veloce Wrote:  This is ridiculous.

Even if a bitch is head over heels, or has mental problems, is schizoid, or otherwise acting like 99% of women, the following phrase can end it nice and neat:

"I'm just not attracted to you anymore."

I don't know man, if she has issues, she could harm herself, or even you. Lots of these stalking chicks have issues.

Post: #30

I also don't think she'll believe he's gay especially if he's been fucking her good. She'll wonder and maybe even hire someone herself. Hope your friend isn't a horn dog.

Post: #31

(06-04-2015 04:43 AM)Veloce Wrote:  This is ridiculous.

Even if a bitch is head over heels, or has mental problems, is schizoid, or otherwise acting like 99% of women, the following phrase can end it nice and neat:

"I'm just not attracted to you anymore."

You sound like you don't have experience here.

Post: #32

These crazy bitches don't respond to words. Saying "im not attracted to you" will just have them laugh at you and say "that's not true, i know you love me"

They are delusional, these broads.

No, our friend is gonna have to "act". Words won't cut it.

Disappear, block her number, move house and don't tell her new address. Sounds drastic but crazy bitches be crazy.

Post: #33

I just think there is a lot of "mental instability" inflation here. She just likes the dude a lot, which makes most girls crazy. Years ago I dated a depressed self-defeatist single mother (don't ask). I broke things off with her because she was a miserable person and was trying to drag me down - she went nuclear burnt my clothes I left at her house said mad passive/aggressive shit that alluded to me on FB whatever - that's what overly hooked socially maladjusted girls do. She got over soon enough and that's that. She didn't come to my house and try to stab me, off herself, or go after my family or whatever.

How many girls out here are committing suicide because guys break up with them? Is there a statistic we can reference? Telling her he's done with her will be fine.

Post: #34

He could use one of these options that I've personally used.

-You're moving for business. This takes a few days build up though. Talk about a potential promotion you might get.
-You've decided to become a monk.
-You have family emergencies that you need to take care of in another state. Talk about some weird ass illness that some relative has.
-You have found religion. Any other religion but hers. Talk about it vehemently.
-Start smoking around her. If you don't smoke, just inhale it into your mouth. Blow it in her face.
-Talk about wanting to experience more women in a group setting. She'll either go for it or be offended.
-Talk about stuff that she doesn't understand constantly. Physics, logic, math, politics, work pretty well.

Post: #35

There are some interesting ideas on this thread but how well does the OP's friend know this girl.

Joking here, but it would be funny if the suggestion he takes backfires and she becomes even more committed and crazy about him.

Pick wisely, no mulligans.

Post: #36

(06-04-2015 11:01 AM)captain_shane Wrote:  -Start smoking around her. If you don't smoke, just inhale it into your mouth. Blow it in her face.

(06-04-2015 01:37 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  Joking here, but it would be funny if the suggestion he takes backfires and she becomes even more committed and crazy about him.

You think?

Post: #37

(06-04-2015 05:29 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

(06-04-2015 04:43 AM)Veloce Wrote:  This is ridiculous.

Even if a bitch is head over heels, or has mental problems, is schizoid, or otherwise acting like 99% of women, the following phrase can end it nice and neat:

"I'm just not attracted to you anymore."

You sound like you don't have experience here.

I've dealt with two major crazies that I've fucked, and several more that I never fucked. One of the crazies that I never fucked stalked me, threatened me, and contacted my LTR over the course of a year. This is pretty recent.

This is frame control 101. If a girl starts exhibiting crazy, you tell her you're not attracted to her. When she starts to argue, rationalize, or haggle, "Well you clearly liked me enough to fuck me" you simply agree and say you felt physical attraction but zero emotional attraction. You take it as far as you have to even if it turns into, "You are way too unstable for me and I can't have you in my life. Fuck off and delete my number."

Okay so what if she contacts your wife/LTR?

Anyone that plays the game knows that eventually shit falls through the cracks. Girls leave comments on your instagram, or somehow find your facebook profile even though you just updated your privacy settings, or you get texts in the middle of the night and you forgot to turn off the sound like an idiot. Or she hires an investigator to find out everything about your LTR and contacts her, like what happened to me. Been there, done that. Anyone with experience should know some level of damage control.

Maybe I've just gotten lucky, but the following strategy has worked for me:

1) Emphasize your own value
2) Demonize women

Do so by saying something like the following to your LTR: "Baby, you know I'm above-average in terms of value (with a grin) and it's hard to find a good man these days. Bitches be crazy these days, it's not the weirdest thing in the world if some psycho bitch crosses my path and latches onto me and starts making up all kinds of bullshit. We live in a society that doesn't punish women for doing this."

You can deny or explain everything.

"How'd she get your number?"
You can look up anyone's number online
"How'd you meet her? How does she know you?"
We have a mutual friend. Get one of your homies to step in for you.

To me this shit is just part of the game and is part of general maintenance. It shouldn't be a big goddamn deal to deal with issues like this, and shouldn't require hiring people, gaining weight, or other elaborate schemes to un-pick up a girl.

If your side piece goes psycho and offs herself, fuck her. I had one ex attempt suicide (not because of me, because of another guy) and it was just a cry for attention. Don't give a moment's notice to the prospect of a bitch hurting herself.

And as for you, just lock your doors and document all of your interactions. Pretend every text and phone call is admissable evidence.

Post: #38

I see a lot of words.

No, you do not know what you are talking about.

Post: #39

Oh okay, enlighten us professor

Post: #40

(06-04-2015 04:43 AM)Veloce Wrote:  This is ridiculous.

Even if a bitch is head over heels, or has mental problems, is schizoid, or otherwise acting like 99% of women, the following phrase can end it nice and neat:

"I'm just not attracted to you anymore."

I was thinking of a variant of this, something like,
"I've always been attracted to younger women and up to now you've had that look, but I just need someone younger. It's just my built in preference. I can't change it."

I've always been surprised how easily carousel riders jump off.

We mean no more to them than a nice sofa does to a man.

Post: #41

I can't believe this married guy gave her his real name and phone number and probably other information.

That was very foolish.

Post: #42

I've run into this problem too often. I've had a crazy ex come to my office screaming to see me (my employees still joke about that one). Tons of thinly veiled threats/extortion. Many times I've thought to myself "why doesn't this bitch torture someone else?". I've never hired any guy to game an ex because I don't think that would work. Sure, they'll bang the new guy but they'll still stalk you. Just break off all contact and get a PPO if needed and let the police handle it.

Post: #43

This just became my favourite thread this week on RVF (other than the new information regarding mattress girl).

Post: #44

Gentlemen, as always riveting conversation. So spoke to dude about the situation, he's convinced that getting the goods on her is the only way out - that or powering his way through the breakup. I will advise him to get a restraining order up front if she all kindza nutzo.

He's very clear that he doesn't want to hurt her if he can avoid it. Slightly incongruent but anyway.

Meanwhile I'm working on my own self assured self destruction - sooner or later this shit is going to catch up to me...hes got me thinking hard about my extracurricular activities...

Post: #45

(06-05-2015 08:12 AM)ThrustMaster Wrote:  Gentlemen, as always riveting conversation. So spoke to dude about the situation, he's convinced that getting the goods on her is the only way out - that or powering his way through the breakup. I will advise him to get a restraining order up front if she all kindza nutzo.

He's very clear that he doesn't want to hurt her if he can avoid it. Slightly incongruent but anyway.

Meanwhile I'm working on my own self assured self destruction - sooner or later this shit is going to catch up to me...hes got me thinking hard about my extracurricular activities...

He can do whatever he wants, but as someone that has been in this situation before, I can tell you what will happen.

Finding an alibi to break things off with a chick is a terrible idea. Why? Because women are better liars than men, and they're also much better at emotional blackmail. Whatever "goods" or "dirt" he gathers on her will not be enough to justifiably break things off in her mind. She won't see anything she did as "wrong", and at no point will she think, "Well, he caught me, I fucked up and now the relationship is over." That is a HIGHLY unlikely scenario.

Next scenario is the "un-pick up", little adjustments designed to push her away. But this can backfire. Treat a girl like shit, you say? If there's anything we should all know, it's that treating a girl like shit will probably make her MORE attracted to you, not less.

Wanting to break things off with a girl but not hurt her...there's only one way I know how to do that, and that's with slow-but-sure radio silence. If he was in contact with her once a week, he needs to slow it down to once every 10 days, then every 2 weeks, and so on. One of two things will happen, she'll either take the hint, or she'll increase her clinginess.

The most important thing with side pieces is establishing ground rules early on. The 3-to-5 rule is especially key. See a girl at least 3 times so she doesn't feel like a cheap slut and come after you, but cut it off after the 5th time because "there's no chemistry" or some other excuse.

Post: #46

(06-05-2015 06:49 AM)Gringuito Wrote:  I've run into this problem too often. I've had a crazy ex come to my office screaming to see me (my employees still joke about that one). Tons of thinly veiled threats/extortion. Many times I've thought to myself "why doesn't this bitch torture someone else?". I've never hired any guy to game an ex because I don't think that would work. Sure, they'll bang the new guy but they'll still stalk you. Just break off all contact and get a PPO if needed and let the police handle it.

If you are attractive enough for long-term provisioning and excitement at the same time, then a woman can get very crazy.

I've seen this once with a 48 year old woman who started pursuing a 38yo artist/businessman. She came uninvited to his office, business meetings, company retreats just to see him.

A guy I know once came home to see his wife having coffee with his mistress from Romania. The girl traveled all the way to Austria and tried to blow up his marriage. She succeeded, but of course the guy fucked dozens more all around Europe. The Romanian girl got nothing out of it, but he seemed such a great catch to her, that there was no holding her back.

It is one of those idiocies of life and female nature. When you are successful and highly attractive to women, then they will run barefoot over broken glass and kick your wife in the face just to get to you. But if you have little going for you, are too broke, too Beta-ish, then they will ignore you or divorce your ass as quickly as possible.

Post: #47

(06-05-2015 08:35 AM)Veloce Wrote:  Finding an alibi to break things off with a chick is a terrible idea. Why? Because women are better liars than men, and they're also much better at emotional blackmail. Whatever "goods" or "dirt" he gathers on her will not be enough to justifiably break things off in her mind. She won't see anything she did as "wrong", and at no point will she think, "Well, he caught me, I fucked up and now the relationship is over." That is a HIGHLY unlikely scenario.

This. Women are based on "feels" and logic does not work on them. Remember, the AF she is banging doesn't count because he isn't long term material (i.e. BB).

(06-05-2015 08:35 AM)Veloce Wrote:  Next scenario is the "un-pick up", little adjustments designed to push her away. But this can backfire. Treat a girl like shit, you say? If there's anything we should all know, it's that treating a girl like shit will probably make her MORE attracted to you, not less.

If you treat her like shit she will be more attracted. If you act weak she may think you are a better provider.

(06-05-2015 08:35 AM)Veloce Wrote:  Wanting to break things off with a girl but not hurt her...there's only one way I know how to do that, and that's with slow-but-sure radio silence. If he was in contact with her once a week, he needs to slow it down to once every 10 days, then every 2 weeks, and so on. One of two things will happen, she'll either take the hint, or she'll increase her clinginess.

Whether it's slow-but-sure or faster, radio silence is the way to go. If they are going to stalk you it'll happen anyway. You're friend is looking for an easy way out. He already screwed up with his side piece. He needs to accept consequences, break contact, and hope that it doesn't ruin his marriage.

Post: #48

This is making a mountain out of a molehill. The OP is needlessly complicated. There are many ways he can rid his hands of a psycho unstable bitch safely. The safest method is making her walk away instead of an unnecessary convoluted plan that takes time and money and probably won't even work; even if you have dirt on a women do you think this makes a difference these days? You're setting yourself up for even more problems.

He can feign financial problems, start taking her to cheap places, start suggesting they split the dinner bills, eventually making her pay the bills, ask to move in with her, ask her for money. This will be probably be enough to make her run. Ask her to begin washing his clothes, ask her to cook meals for him, if there's anything that will make these bitches recoil in disgust it will be the thought of completing these duties for their man.

If he wants to bring out the big guns then he can feign being diagnosed with a non terminal illness and tell her over dinner how much he loves her and that he knows how much she loves him and that he'll know that she will take care of him throughout his illness being the good woman that she is. Hell if he has to he should shit himself midway though dinner in a restaurant and call her from the toilets for help. She will sprint from that relationship faster than Usain Bolt from the blocks in a 100m.

Post: #49

(06-05-2015 09:16 AM)Vamonos Pest Wrote:  Hell if he has to he should shit himself midway though dinner in a restaurant and call her from the toilets for help. She will sprint from that relationship faster than Usain Bolt from the blocks in a 100m.

Genius!!!!

Post: #50

(06-03-2015 07:58 PM)MrXY Wrote:  Come on guys, this is too easy.

He's in SF, the chick is probably a liberal Democrat.

He should just tell her he's finallly "found himself" and has to "live his truth" that he is gay.

The rules of political correctness will require that she has to be accepting and help him celebrate his new, far superior life. She will probably be angry and disgusted but will have to suppress this because it is socially a major faux pas. What is she going to do, harass him because he's gay? The horror! The cognitive dissonance will make her slink away quietly

Dude, this is 2015, being gay is not at all the in thing anymore.

He needs to tell her the truth - he is actually a woman, and wants her to become a man.