On a side note, dance floor game does wonders over there. they love discos (clubs) and go ape shit for you if you are in the groove.

(05-11-2015 02:30 AM)420allday Wrote:  

(05-11-2015 01:59 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  Show us your tits, maybe you can upgrade.

Suck on my penirz maybe you can up-gay

Wtf does this even mean?

The Philippines sound like so much much. Will probably be heading out there sometime later this year. I'm definitely looking forward to it thats for sure.

Hey fellas, moving to Manila for a year contract in July. Looking to play the field, have some fun but have a ring on my finger. I know, I know. But it just sounds too tempting and this site has given me the yellow fever.

Any advice for Philly for a guy trying to keep it on the down low?

Are you bringing sand to the beach? If yes, be warned that once you see what's available on the ground and how sweet, hot, warm, friendly, sexy and fun they are, thoughts of jettisoning her will get more and more insistent...

Other than that, you'll have the time of your life and will be kicking yourself in the nuts for having put a ring on it and for bringing her with you.

(05-14-2015 06:28 AM)manilabound Wrote:  Hey fellas, moving to Manila for a year contract in July. Looking to play the field, have some fun but have a ring on my finger. I know, I know. But it just sounds too tempting and this site has given me the yellow fever.

Any advice for Philly for a guy trying to keep it on the down low?

A friend in Thailand tells me that he sees western guys all the time being dragged around by their wives...a ball in each hand. It's the same for Philippines, perhaps even more so.

Assuming you're in shape, every girl will be eye-raping you in the malls, gas stations, bus terminals. The wife will know. She will see the veil being slowly lifted from your eyes and immediately feel threatened (and rightly so). Remember Neo's expression when he is freed from the Matrix to see thousands of cocooned slaves imprisoned in gelatinous pods?

Never bring the wife anywhere near SEA. Doing so is like bringing along a canister of radioactive goo.

ScottFreeucius say, bringing wife to Philippines like packing lunch with you to bring to buffet restaurant. Plenty delicious food to choose, but sadly, obligated to eat smelly old American taco.

I would say the opposite.

Bring your wife. Let her see what's up.

She'll reevaluate her SMV in a blink.

She'll realise that at any moment you can ditch her for younger, hotter and more pleasant to be with girl.

She'll either learn her place and role or she won't.

If she doesn't, you know what to do.

(05-14-2015 08:44 PM)Scott Free Wrote:  ScottFreeucius say, bringing wife to Philippines like packing lunch with you to bring to buffet restaurant. Plenty delicious food to choose, but sadly, obligated to eat smelly old American taco.

had a girl in Davao ask me if it was ok to meet in my room. I thought it was weird. She seemed so direct about wanting to meet in my room and it was a long time ago.

So only now I thought of something. I wonder if maybe it is because she is in a relationship with a pinoy already and wants to hide interaction with a foreigner in private. Cant think of anything else.

Anyone think there is a number of pinays that are already in a relationship with pinoy but going on filipino cupid because of the potential reward of marrying and moving to Canada or US?

I went to northern Mindanao and they told me everyone they knew got married early. I wonder how can there be so many girls online if marriage is so prevalent in western Mindanao.

(05-15-2015 03:39 AM)cmrectro Wrote:  had a girl in Davao ask me if it was ok to meet in my room. I thought it was weird. She seemed so direct about wanting to meet in my room and it was a long time ago.

So only now I thought of something. I wonder if maybe it is because she is in a relationship with a pinoy already and wants to hide interaction with a foreigner in private. Cant think of anything else.

Anyone think there is a number of pinays that are already in a relationship with pinoy but going on filipino cupid because of the potential reward of marrying and moving to Canada or US?

I went to northern Mindanao and they told me everyone they knew got married early. I wonder how can there be so many girls online if marriage is so prevalent in western Mindanao.

I guess being a catholic country, there would be a number of shotgun marriages and people generally marrying young. You're thoughts about her meeting up in your room are probably right and she may not want a reputation from people if she met up in public with a foreigner.

(05-15-2015 04:13 AM)manilabound Wrote:  

(05-15-2015 03:39 AM)cmrectro Wrote:  had a girl in Davao ask me if it was ok to meet in my room. I thought it was weird. She seemed so direct about wanting to meet in my room and it was a long time ago.

So only now I thought of something. I wonder if maybe it is because she is in a relationship with a pinoy already and wants to hide interaction with a foreigner in private. Cant think of anything else.

Anyone think there is a number of pinays that are already in a relationship with pinoy but going on filipino cupid because of the potential reward of marrying and moving to Canada or US?

I went to northern Mindanao and they told me everyone they knew got married early. I wonder how can there be so many girls online if marriage is so prevalent in western Mindanao.

I guess being a catholic country, there would be a number of shotgun marriages and people generally marrying young. You're thoughts about her meeting up in your room are probably right and she may not want a reputation from people if she met up in public with a foreigner.

huh! It took me what, like 4 months to figure out myself why a girl did that. lol I should have been like, MEET ME IN ABREEZA or GAISANO OR DON'T MEET ME AT ALL! Having a girl offended for refusing her own request to make first meet in the seclusion of your bedroom, happens, well only in the Philippines!!!!!! If it happened in the USA, I would be scared as to why and refusebecause this stuff just does not happen .. outside the PH that is.

I can only imagine for sure that yes, there has to be lots of women here that go on filipino cupid or another way to meet a foreigner while married to pinoy. In addition to simply the more expected failed relationships, the opportunity I mentioned about them going from a slum in Cebu to a mansion in Vancouver, makes cheating on their partner to leave to the west with a foreiner all but irresistible. This must be why I heard that yes, Cebu does have a REALLY high rate of marriage, and early at that, but their are still heaps of girl bombarding me with interests from Cebu. There must be a large quantity of non singles pouring on top of the hoards of truly single. I made 2 accounts and saw first hand how also, they do the same thing you do which is why they really bother you too much about "how many chatmates you have?" because they are doing the same thing. They message me to my account like as if I am there special someone and then 30 second later I get an interest from them on my fake account and after wondering why she is late replying me, she was busy sending mail to my fake account. Those that say that Philippines is good for sex and only other countries good for finding a wife, are totally right. The morals of this country seem to be in the basement with poverty plus westernization working together to make them anything other than traditional.

I met a girl that said she got drunk last night and was hung over. I asked how and where? ... with her family!!!!! They got her drunk and kept them up all night drinking. Heck even in north america many parents would not even dare do this.And weird of all this was in part of the country you would think was the most conservative, in western Mindanao near ARMM. but nope they lost their traditions alright! I got girls coming from the poorest neighborhoods in Mindanao coming over to the hotel on first meet with their mother knowing well and them having sex and talking about ti to their family! They seem more liberated in some province places in super rural Philippines than in country areas in north america where you never broadcast to whoever about having sex, especially with someone who was just a stranger that afternoon! Factoring in what I shared about that time in the internet cafe in Cotabato city and what they talked about in the open, it is quite clear that openness about sex is defiantly high in this country. Wow the Philippines is unique without a doubt!

^ Interesting.

As much as I loved the pinays I met - their sweetness, modesty, and femininity that cannot easily be matched in America, I did sense an opportunistic streak in a lot of them. They are hungry, and have had a hefty dose of suffering. When they see something they want, there's not much that can stop them from pursuing it. Just keep your head about you, so you don't get taken advantage of.

(05-15-2015 06:37 AM)cmrectro Wrote:  Those that say that Philippines is good for sex and only other countries good for finding a wife, are totally right.

I just had this conversation with another member and that's the consensus we reached.

There are good ones here - but they're mostly rich - and only a handful of forum members here are banging rich girls.

Good luck to you all that wife a poor girl and give her a western passport.

There's always someone better than you - and if you've got a girl who likes to climb ladders, she'll never stop upgrading until she can't.

The hell if I'm going bring a girl to the USA just so she can leech off of me and then upgrade.

This was written by a beta but I hear the same story over and over:

http://philippinefailblog.com/if-you-wan...-filipina/

It's common for American military guys to take Pinay brides and I hear the same sob stories over and over. These girls will fuck you back even harder if you let them. I haven't heard the story starting with, "My Korean/Japanese wife wants me to support her family of thirty or she'll leave me and take my house and my kids - blah blah. She's been banging every guy out in town, etc."

I bang Pinays with a plan to marry an East Asian. But you won't see an East Asian datasheet here with a guy saying he's plowing them out at the same rate as Pinays.

Gentlemen, things that are easy to get are not valuable.

(05-15-2015 05:21 PM)Dagnasty Wrote:  http://philippinefailblog.com/if-you-wan...-filipina/

Quote:"This brings me to my story. It is the story of my latest girlfriend or should I say ex girlfriend. After a few hits and misses I decided to meet with a girl who I had known through chatting as a friend on facebook for around a year. She had been very supportive through a breakup I had a few months earlier and I had also helped her through a breakup she had a few more prior to that.

Anyway, July 2014 I met her and there was chemistry right away. She looked fantastic and had a personality and sense of humour that matched mine. I had planned just to meet her for a day or two but things developed fast and I spent the full 2 weeks over there with her.She was awesome in every way possible.

In Sep 2014 I decided to fly over for a week and surprise her for her birthday. I got to meet her family, dropped around 20k peso for her birthday celebrations (lechon baboy, booze etc) and things went great again. She was a keeper I was thinking. I organised a passport and tourist visa for her to come visit me in Australia which was granted in November."

I'm really shocked that this didn't turn out well for him. He did everything right.

(05-15-2015 05:21 PM)Dagnasty Wrote:  I haven't heard the story starting with, "My Korean/Japanese wife wants me to support her family of thirty or she'll leave me and take my house and my kids - blah blah. She's been banging every guy out in town, etc."

With the Japanese it's apparently more of a slow death. Massive reduction in sex after marriage, expectation that you will be sole provider in an expensive country, no rights to see your children after divorce etc. Choose your poison.

When I am chatting them, I am very location specific. in the case of Bacolod where I want to search, I ask them Where in the Philippines are you now? they might answer "I am from Bacolod" but then you find out later they are in Manila. Or I ask, "Are you in Bacolod?" (They know I want to focus on Bacolod) and they say, "Yeh I am from Bacolod" And this bothers the hell outta me. After drilling them with questions it take so long just to get an answer outta them after which I find out they are not in Bacolod! where in the Philippines are they!!!!! Anyone else who is dealing with province/visayas Mindanao notice them complicating it when you are asking where they are? The annoyance is about chatting ones living in province and have a location form their indicated on the profile, and not telling you they are in Manila!

The last one was from Dipolog and she knew I wanted someone from there. I asked her in a clear statement "what city are you in now?" and she replies "im from small city of Dipolog hehe" ...... made no mention of Manila, until I kept questioning her and she told me she is in Manila not Dipolog. Why do they do this? grrrrr

Now I will copy and paste this to ask them: "WHAT CITY IN THE PHILIPPINES ARE YOU IN RIGHT NOW, TODAY??" If they all reply with the same I am FROM..... I will pull my hair out lol

(05-15-2015 05:21 PM)Dagnasty Wrote:  http://philippinefailblog.com/if-you-wan...-filipina/

It's common for American military guys to take Pinay brides and I hear the same sob stories over and over. These girls will fuck you back even harder if you let them. I haven't heard the story starting with, "My Korean/Japanese wife wants me to support her family of thirty or she'll leave me and take my house and my kids - blah blah. She's been banging every guy out in town, etc."

I bang Pinays with a plan to marry an East Asian. But you won't see an East Asian datasheet here with a guy saying he's plowing them out at the same rate as Pinays.

Gentlemen, things that are easy to get are not valuable.

Seriously, if any of you guys are even thinking of anything serious in the Phils you should check out that blog. I have flipped through it for a few mins and the shit that these guys are saying isn't surprising but still sad to see in writing.

I love reading those stories. It cracks me up and I have zero sympathy.

You see these guys everywhere, and it's blindingly obvious that the girl is in the relationship for the money, and nothing more. Why are they surprised when the girl takes off for some other dick? I could make millions betting on these relationships if anyone was stupid enough to take the bets.

Don't read that blog and be worried, unless you fit the description of the guys it is happening to. If you're an old fat fuck and the only positive quality you posses is money, then expect to get fleeced. Same goes if you're a young dude with extreme beta tendencies and oneitis.

If you're a red pill guy with his game on tight then you don't have to worry because you're high value enough to keep a girl loyal, in most cases. And if she strays, then you're ready to cut her off and grab up a different chick before the sun goes down. And she sure as shit doesn't have access to your assets, so the only damage done is some temporary emotional damage, which we've all experienced in the past. You just have to brush yourself off and treat it as a reminder to not get too emotionally (and sure as fuck not financially) invested in any one girl.

But keep the stories coming. They are great fun.

lol I have another observation to make. The ones that are pretty much beautiful put on their profile "not beautiful" and the ones that are ugly put on their profile "pretty" or "beautiful".

I've only been here in Manila for 3 weeks, but I'm slowly getting a feel for how things work here with regards to the girls. A few points:

- Yes. It's easy to get laid in Manila. No big news there. If you want to rack up some notches in the 5-7 range this is your place. I've barely gamed here and I'm at 10 notches so far. 2 of them (both below 20 years) were some of the best bodies I've banged in years. One had firm double D tits with a juicy ass. Amazing.

- Guys visiting for a week thinking they are smashing "quality" girls from Filipino Cupid aren't scratching the surface of who these chicks really are. Which is fine. You are just coming for the bangs, but I think some of the reports and hype around here do a disservice to others planning on longer stays who might get duped into LTRs with highly damaged goods.

- That chick who you thought was "sweet" is taking it up the ass from multiple guys per month. The one who cooked your breakfast without prompting may have multiple sponsors and boyfriends supporting her. I'm going with Dagnasty on this one. Pump and dump these online chicks unless you are given a VERY strong reason not to. Why? Simply put, sites like Filipino Cupid are full of poor girls who put on a good show. They speak passable English. They know the same music and TV shows. It's easy to get sucked in to thinking they are "quality" when they are just poor girls trying to lock down a sucker. You can't blame them for trying, but my empathy stops there.

- Related to the above point, there is another type of playgirl here. This is the girl who may not be banging lots of guys but she is an epic time waster and attention whore. She claims to be a virgin who is waiting for sex until marriage. She will want to bring her friends or relatives on dates. A more naive guy might think this chick is simply "traditional" while she is anything but. You are getting played for free meals, money and having blue balls while these girls are busy banging their filipino boyfriends. They will push and push to get you into them while they continue to withhold sex. It's a common scam so beware. Yes, I know you guys are thinking "that could never happen to me I've got game" but never say never. I thought the same and I was wrong. If you have a bit of a Madonna complex (I admittedly do like my less experienced chicks) then this goes double because these ones target guys like you.

- As embarrassing as it is to write, I fell for a chick with "good girl game". Cut me some slack - she was 19 and had a banging body, but still I got played hardcore. This supposed "virgin" and her push-pull routine got me chasing and wanting her. Eventually I banged it, but not without a great deal of wasted time and money. As it turned out, she had a filipino boyfriend already. She was swearing her undying love to me every day which made me think she was just massively into me. This was until I saw her Facebook account where she was saying exactly the same to her filipino. I'm no newcomer to "the game". If this can happen to me it could happen to anyone.

- Again, screen VERY VERY hard if you ever even consider doing an LTR here. Get friends to add her to Facebook and hit on her. Or even better, keep a spare fake account handy so you can test a potential prospect. You may be disappointed to see how quickly she will jump onto this next potential cock. I have a very pertinent example for you guys which I'll try to upload sometime soon.

- Nightgame isn't worth it in Manila for the most part. Online is so easy that there is no real need to go to clubs. I went out at night and didn't like it at all. From what I can see, it's either hookers galore or high society posing and not much in between. Others have reported decent venues but I really don't see the need to drain your finances and stay up all night when you can pull with ease through other channels.

- Daygame is where it's at. I haven't done enough so far but I'm working on it now. This is where you have the highest chance of meeting some more normal girls. I'll say this though...don't expect any overt IOIs here in Manila. Girls are shy and don't even make eye contact. It's not like the provinces where crowds of girls will be screaming and giggling at every corner. Expect to get blown out too. Not pointing any fingers here, but some posters have made it sound like they were never rejected in daygame here. Simply not true. If you approach the cuter chicks you will sometimes get completely blown out like anywhere else in the world. I'll add that if a girl at least has a job here then it shows some kind of discipline and increases the chances that she is somewhat honest. Target the girls working in shopping malls. There are tons of hot chicks in the Glorietta and Greenbelt malls. I'm leaning towards Glorietta for approaching because of Greenbelt's P4P reputation. It's unfortunate that sexpats are starting to ruin it for us here too - don't take higher class girls for dates in Greenbelt.

To sum up, I can honestly agree with Global Entry's earlier sentiment that these chicks are gaming us as much as we are to them. I consider myself fairly experienced with Asian girls, but the poorer Filipinas have brought with them a level of drama and bullshit that I've not come across before. And I've dealt with a LOT of tricks and mind games until now! Filipinas take the cake. If you go beyond 1 date with them then SCREEN for crying out loud. You don't know what drama you are getting yourself into. Foreigners are regularly murdered here for very little so watch out. If you want to avoid this then aim for the higher social classes as more experienced guys like Yard Dog and Dagnasty do.

That was a lot of words. Just wanted to get my thoughts down. I'll leave it at that for now.

^^^ Totally true about the unreal drama and fake loyalty from these girls. I visited the Philippines back in October last year for 16 days, unfortunately before finding this board. Basically what happened was that I had used my personal Facebook account for a few of the girls - big mistake as noted on here.

So the most drama I had the "pleasure" of experiencing was the first girl I hooked up with in Manila starting to harass the fourth girl I smashed and who I chose to be the girl I traveled around some of the provinces with. This happened even if I hadn't added the first girl on my Facebook account because of some red flags (just wanted my golden touchdown). Apparently what happened was that I had some other girl from FC on my Facebook who knew this girl and showed her the pictures that my main girl started posting on her Facebook wall of us together and tagged me in. This resulted in MONTHS of harassment from girl 1 to girl 4, which was rather annoying as I happened to like girl 4 and still keep in touch with her.

My second story is about the second girl I banged in Manila. Luckily no drama from this one, but after we already had smashed she told me she was engaged to an American who lived in the US and they were about to get married in early 2015. WTF!?!? In addition she was using some third white guy as an emotional tampon on the side as well (friendzoned guy was my gut feeling). These experiences seem to be a perfect fit with this thread that I unfortunately read only after returning back home, damn.

(05-16-2015 02:26 PM)dreambig Wrote:  I've only been here in Manila for 3 weeks, but I'm slowly getting a feel for how things work here with regards to the girls. A few points:

- Yes. It's easy to get laid in Manila. No big news there. If you want to rack up some notches in the 5-7 range this is your place. I've barely gamed here and I'm at 10 notches so far. 2 of them (both below 20 years) were some of the best bodies I've banged in years. One had firm double D tits with a juicy ass. Amazing.

- Guys visiting for a week thinking they are smashing "quality" girls from Filipino Cupid aren't scratching the surface of who these chicks really are. Which is fine. You are just coming for the bangs, but I think some of the reports and hype around here do a disservice to others planning on longer stays who might get duped into LTRs with highly damaged goods.

- That chick who you thought was "sweet" is taking it up the ass from multiple guys per month. The one who cooked your breakfast without prompting may have multiple sponsors and boyfriends supporting her. I'm going with Dagnasty on this one. Pump and dump these online chicks unless you are given a VERY strong reason not to. Why? Simply put, sites like Filipino Cupid are full of poor girls who put on a good show. They speak passable English. They know the same music and TV shows. It's easy to get sucked in to thinking they are "quality" when they are just poor girls trying to lock down a sucker. You can't blame them for trying, but my empathy stops there.

- Related to the above point, there is another type of playgirl here. This is the girl who may not be banging lots of guys but she is an epic time waster and attention whore. She claims to be a virgin who is waiting for sex until marriage. She will want to bring her friends or relatives on dates. A more naive guy might think this chick is simply "traditional" while she is anything but. You are getting played for free meals, money and having blue balls while these girls are busy banging their filipino boyfriends. They will push and push to get you into them while they continue to withhold sex. It's a common scam so beware. Yes, I know you guys are thinking "that could never happen to me I've got game" but never say never. I thought the same and I was wrong. If you have a bit of a Madonna complex (I admittedly do like my less experienced chicks) then this goes double because these ones target guys like you.

- As embarrassing as it is to write, I fell for a chick with "good girl game". Cut me some slack - she was 19 and had a banging body, but still I got played hardcore. This supposed "virgin" and her push-pull routine got me chasing and wanting her. Eventually I banged it, but not without a great deal of wasted time and money. As it turned out, she had a filipino boyfriend already. She was swearing her undying love to me every day which made me think she was just massively into me. This was until I saw her Facebook account where she was saying exactly the same to her filipino. I'm no newcomer to "the game". If this can happen to me it could happen to anyone.

- Again, screen VERY VERY hard if you ever even consider doing an LTR here. Get friends to add her to Facebook and hit on her. Or even better, keep a spare fake account handy so you can test a potential prospect. You may be disappointed to see how quickly she will jump onto this next potential cock. I have a very pertinent example for you guys which I'll try to upload sometime soon.

- Nightgame isn't worth it in Manila for the most part. Online is so easy that there is no real need to go to clubs. I went out at night and didn't like it at all. From what I can see, it's either hookers galore or high society posing and not much in between. Others have reported decent venues but I really don't see the need to drain your finances and stay up all night when you can pull with ease through other channels.

- Daygame is where it's at. I haven't done enough so far but I'm working on it now. This is where you have the highest chance of meeting some more normal girls. I'll say this though...don't expect any overt IOIs here in Manila. Girls are shy and don't even make eye contact. It's not like the provinces where crowds of girls will be screaming and giggling at every corner. Expect to get blown out too. Not pointing any fingers here, but some posters have made it sound like they were never rejected in daygame here. Simply not true. If you approach the cuter chicks you will sometimes get completely blown out like anywhere else in the world. I'll add that if a girl at least has a job here then it shows some kind of discipline and increases the chances that she is somewhat honest. Target the girls working in shopping malls. There are tons of hot chicks in the Glorietta and Greenbelt malls. I'm leaning towards Glorietta for approaching because of Greenbelt's P4P reputation. It's unfortunate that sexpats are starting to ruin it for us here too - don't take higher class girls for dates in Greenbelt.

To sum up, I can honestly agree with Global Entry's earlier sentiment that these chicks are gaming us as much as we are to them. I consider myself fairly experienced with Asian girls, but the poorer Filipinas have brought with them a level of drama and bullshit that I've not come across before. And I've dealt with a LOT of tricks and mind games until now! Filipinas take the cake. If you go beyond 1 date with them then SCREEN for crying out loud. You don't know what drama you are getting yourself into. Foreigners are regularly murdered here for very little so watch out. If you want to avoid this then aim for the higher social classes as more experienced guys like Yard Dog and Dagnasty do.

That was a lot of words. Just wanted to get my thoughts down. I'll leave it at that for now.

Great comments. You sum up everything very well.
If guys, who would like to bang average quality and notch addict, Manila is paradise for you. On the other hand, you will be her at least 10th foreign bf to bang on rotation.
Almost all of them several stories, you should get bored so quickly and want to put your dick to her mounth to take a break (it is best solution)
I highly recommend you to focus on other cities like Iloilo, Dumaguete, Tagum or Cagayan De Oro before those places become popular and flooded by tourists.

I've found all of the above to be true with Cherry Blossom girls. The number of single moms there is insane. Half the time I browsed over the last year, looking for some sweet Pinay I could trust, I always got the feeling 85% were hiding their kids with mom/dad or just outright lying on their profile. Little things they'd say via Skype sounded suspicious. In fact I'd say if she is on the dating sites, then she is gaming multiple guys unless she is hideous.

And I've talked with one that resembled a baboon just to see if ugliness was only skin deep. Well, the joke was on me: A Zamboanga chick who not only was a 3 in looks, but threw bitch-fests like Mardi Gras beads. I was like, "Damn girl, what do YOU bring to the table that gives you the right to make demands?"

Never mind that visiting her area would be like walking into Mordor for a 6'2 white guy who suits up half the time.

This video of a Thai has been my own experience with the financial end. I got hit up constantly for money. Sick grandma. Sick brother. Brother in an accident. Brother hit the family cow. Need new cow, send 20k pesos!

Never send money! Not even for a camsex session.

Whoa whoa whoa foreigners "regularly murdered there"?

That's not quite really the case, is it? Regularly?

(05-16-2015 06:37 PM)Jetlagged Wrote:  Whoa whoa whoa foreigners "regularly murdered there"?

That's not quite really the case, is it? Regularly?

From what I've heard, yes, it is the case. If by regularly you mean multiple times every year - difficult to get exact figures.

Foreigners die all the time all over SEA, often in suspicious circumstances. Be careful out there.