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Quote:He's been accused of being a playboy, but Indian actor Sunder Ramu claims he is just trying to make a difference - by dating a different woman every day for a whole year and asking them to pay.
But he isn't looking for love or a relationship, nor is he looking for a one-night stand - despite what his critics claim.
Angered by gender inequality in India - a country where casual dating can be considered somewhat of a taboo - and horrified by recent gang rapes, Sunder is trying to empower women.

Sunder insists he is not looking for romance, although admits he is attracted to some of the women he dates more than others. It's unsurprising as many are young, beautiful and successful.
'I fall in love almost every day,' he said. 'I fall in love with married women, I fall in love with older women, with women of different races.'
He takes photographs of each of his dates, the food they eat and the places they visit. Sunder even writes 'reviews' on each woman and publishes it on his Facebook page.
On the fourth day of his challenge, which began in January this year, he dated psychology graduate, singer, songwriter and actor, Andrea Jeremiah.
He wrote: 'Very passionate about her arts and a very compassionate girl. Great sense of humour and quite a foodie, with particular weakness for chocolate based food.'

Sunder, who lives in Chennai in eastern India, told MailOnline: 'Every single day I meet a new person.
'I ask some people out, they ask me out on Facebook, they message me on Twitter, some are friends of friends.
'While we are eating we can sit and share stories. People are coming and sharing such amazing moments.
'I think it's nice for them to have someone to listen to them. I think it's working on so many levels.
'I let the girl pick the place - there is no rule about what kind of place. They even order the food, I'm eating new things every day.'
Sunder's oldest date was Alamelu, who at 105, hadn't left her home for 13 years. He drove nine hours to her village and took her to pray at a temple and watch the sunset.

'Our conversation ranged from the manners of British gentlemen in her youth to the effects of cell phones on relationships, and from politics in the state to her undying Titanic love for her man Thirumeni, who passed away 22 years ago,' Sunder wrote.
His 67th dinner date was with Chandra, a road sweeper and garbage collector who apologised for not wearing 'anything fancy'.
Relatives, a mother and her cancer-survivor daughter, and a fruit seller are among the women he has dated in the past five months.
Writing in a blog post about her evening with Sunder, Yamini Bhaskar, date 87, said: 'It is his way of empowering the women he meets, because they choose everything for the date.

'Now I am not sure how this will work if every random guy starts doing this, because we live in a world that cannot be trusted and Sunder hopes to show that not all men are after something, and sometimes you can just have a decent meal with a stranger and walk away unharmed.'
Sunder added: 'I've started making a small difference somewhere.
'I genuinely wasn't trying to be a hero, but common people can make a difference too - you don't need to be in power to be empowered.

At least he is making these girls pay for his dinner dates

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My god, that's brilliant.

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I thought this thread was going to be about how the India version of Playboy mag was including dudes in its latest issue.

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I don't think he's having sex with them.

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This isn't that bad really, considering that there is actual gender inequality in India. Props to him.

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"I don't think he's having sex with them."

He's not having sex with the 105 year old, no.
But you don't think that sandwiched between the mothers battling cancer and the senior citizens he's mostly banging hot girls in their early 20s?

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No, I do not think he is having sex with any of them.

Edit: Maybe a few. It's all a numbers game after all. Also having a new girl pay for dinner with you every day definitely is an experience.

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Let me translate that - struggling actor uses idiotic feminist action to get every day a date while claiming he is for "empowerment" of women. It costs him nothing, but gets him plenty of publicity and he likely tries to fuck the hot ones.

At least he got a few hot dates out of it and let them pay.
Who knows - some might actually bang him - women who invest their money usually are more tempted to fuck.

Also he does seem to have some Game and has signs of Alpha behavior.









The idea is not so bad.

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india is probably even more broken socially than Japan, where the teenagers like video game dating simulations more than they like going on dates.

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Interesting idea, i thought that was cool of him to hangout with the grandma, regardless of game. (I guess that's the softspot I have for my Nani)

I really do hope he's banging some of them though.

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(05-01-2015 01:56 PM)eradicator Wrote:  india is probably even more broken socially than Japan, where the teenagers like video game dating simulations more than they like going on dates.

Last year, I flew straight from Tokyo to New Delhi and I told the driver who came to pick me up that I just left one of the cleanest countries in the world and came to one of the dirtiest.

I could see myself staying in Japan for a while, India, no fucking way!

The only thing India beats vs. Japan is the food and living costs.

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@ Walter, the thing I liked most about India is that the people were really warm and genuinely friendly. Indian people have a certain charm to them that others lack- they speak from the heart and really want to get to know you.

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(05-01-2015 02:57 PM)Cunnilinguist Wrote:  @ Walter, the thing I liked most about India is that the people were really warm and genuinely friendly. Indian people have a certain charm to them that others lack- they speak from the heart and really want to get to know you.

Indians are known for their hospitality. As a British-Indian, I have to be very careful because a lot of people in India see me as a walking ATM. Store owners will increase their prices when they see me walk in.

Some of the women he met are definite WBs:

Andrea Jeremiah


Catherine Tresa



Pallavi Shah



Kavya Shetty


I don't think he banged any of them. Why isn't his arm around her? From the way her arm is positioned it looks like she took the selfie, so both of his hands are free. I think that these women only met him to be part of his story.

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This man has hacked macking.

There are few like him. Off the top of my head I remember how we reacted to this seemingly nerdy kid surrounded with girls all the time (who later said he was bi)

We are witnessing rare, elite, "never done before but why didnt I think of this" game.

Lets break this down - one date a day for a year. 365 guaranteed dates with different women, in a row. How many of us can say that? Yes, he will date a single mother, a 105 year old woman, etc, but this just makes him more likable, and that takes 1 day the most. He is donating money to charity. This makes him more likable.

He has a fullproof plan of getting rid of clingy women, AND go after new ones. How many of us can be on a date and tell her that there will be a new woman tomorrow, and the day after that, and that she only has tonight, tell it to her face - AND HAVE HER BE TOTALLY COOL WITH THAT.

And not even that - BUT ITS ALL FOR FREE. Usually people PAY for that kind of good publicity.

My mind is blown. This is amazing.








I remember predicting this a long time ago, but I think it's somewhat poetic, given the nature of this forum, that the pinnacle of game would be reached by an Indian man

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(05-01-2015 01:56 PM)eradicator Wrote:  india is probably even more broken socially than Japan, where the teenagers like video game dating simulations more than they like going on dates.

This is why when I travel I am embarrassed to say I am American anymore. Too many of us try and talk through our ass without knowing anything much. These countries are no more 'broken socially' than our culture where dick pics are an acceptable mode of communication.

(05-01-2015 02:57 PM)Cunnilinguist Wrote:  @ Walter, the thing I liked most about India is that the people were really warm and genuinely friendly. Indian people have a certain charm to them that others lack- they speak from the heart and really want to get to know you.

Agreed. Meh , all this is mute anyway. Give it 50 years and the Asians and Indians will be running the world.