Post: #26

(01-25-2012 01:18 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(01-25-2012 11:34 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  24 dates? I wouldn't wait! hahahahahahahaha... OMG. If a man after 5 dates (one per week = +- one month) does not show any responses about sex or he does not talk about sex, I would think that he is a weirdo.
Men who agree to wait are rare, but wait for too long create big expectations from something who maybe won't go nowhere.

You're going to Montreal right?

I would love to, and I look for sponsers to help pay my trip (kidding). Watch the best jazz concerts + meet you all would be greaT!!!

Post: #27

(01-25-2012 05:39 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

(01-25-2012 01:18 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(01-25-2012 11:34 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  24 dates? I wouldn't wait! hahahahahahahaha... OMG. If a man after 5 dates (one per week = +- one month) does not show any responses about sex or he does not talk about sex, I would think that he is a weirdo.
Men who agree to wait are rare, but wait for too long create big expectations from something who maybe won't go nowhere.

You're going to Montreal right?

I would love to, and I look for sponsers to help pay my trip (kidding). Watch the best jazz concerts + meet you all would be greaT!!!

Just shoot me a pm and lay out some story about a sick relative or you need books for school or something..I'll probably fall for it

Post: #28

As to the original topic:

Currently, my policy is if a girl hasn't put out by the first date, I stop trying to bang her. She can call me up afterwards if she wants to hang again.

Post: #29

(01-25-2012 05:47 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(01-25-2012 05:39 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

(01-25-2012 01:18 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(01-25-2012 11:34 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  24 dates? I wouldn't wait! hahahahahahahaha... OMG. If a man after 5 dates (one per week = +- one month) does not show any responses about sex or he does not talk about sex, I would think that he is a weirdo.
Men who agree to wait are rare, but wait for too long create big expectations from something who maybe won't go nowhere.

You're going to Montreal right?

I would love to, and I look for sponsers to help pay my trip (kidding). Watch the best jazz concerts + meet you all would be greaT!!!

Just shoot me a pm and lay out some story about a sick relative or you need books for school or something..I'll probably fall for it

And if my brother el mech tells me it's worth it, i'll blindly follow him and donate to the 'mrs chocolate' fund (in his name, of course).

Post: #30

LOL... you guys are so funny.

My police is: Keep the guy interested, and let it flow.
Bang in the first date? Never happened.
As I told before, 24 dates are way of the top. But no one accepts a date if, if doesn't think about have sex eventually with that person, does not matter if in the first or the 50th date. I now that there will be some balance in there. Not 30 minutes of conversation nor 6 months of procrastination.

Post: #31

For me I stick to the Three-date rule for most cases.
If the girl is a 9 or 10 that I really want to bang then I can strech it to 5 dates max.

After that if she doesn't give in I move on.

*Chocolate: You ,me and Amour should start a "vaquinha" to go to Montreal lol

Post: #32

Let's start a "bring Brazilians to Montreal" fund. ahahhahahaha.

Post: #33

(01-26-2012 10:23 PM)Mr.GM Wrote:  *Chocolate: You ,me and Amour should start a "vaquinha" to go to Montreal lol

This is off-topic, but does "fazer uma vaquinha" mean to pool money together for something? "Hacer una vaca" exists in Spanish but I thought it was Chilean slang.

Post: #34

your exactly right, that's what "fazer uma vaquinha" means. Funny, i didn't know it existed in spanish as well.

Post: #35

(01-25-2012 05:55 PM)Samseau Wrote:  As to the original topic:

Currently, my policy is if a girl hasn't put out by the first date, I stop trying to bang her. She can call me up afterwards if she wants to hang again.

I'm similar to this as well. I'm not known to be patient when it comes to getting the bang. Of course there are some exceptions, obviously if you can tell a girl wants to bang you but is on her period or hasn't trimmed the hedges or something and unwilling to do it with a new guy because of that, I won't push too hard and have no problem waiting a few days because I'm still getting action somewhere else in the meantime.

However if by the third meeting I ain't getting any action it's time to cut my losses, she's obviously wasting my time.

I broke this rule ONCE last year, I was talking to a cute 19 yr. old middle eastern chick who came from a wealthy family. She was really into me, and she insisted on paying for everything when we went out. She gave me some oral on the third date but was still hesitant to let me hit it. I think she was trying to put me into the boyfriend zone and wanted to seem like a challenge.

Anyway, I decided to cut my losses and stopped calling her or replying to her text messages. After a few days I responded to one of her messages and she came over and let me wear that thing out.


So, I guess in some instances it can be worth the wait but most of the time, especially if their past 25yrs old I can't be bothered.

Post: #36

Just thought I'd throw in this Patrice O'neal tid bit about waiting periods between 20 yo's versus 40 yo's. Sit back and have a laugh, or nod in agreement.

The vid will automatically start at 1:12:15.

The bit goes for about 3 minutes, until 1:15:45.

Enjoy