Post: #26

I missed out on the 80s (I'm Simon's age) because I was too busy being a nice guy and also had a LTR that ultimately resulted in marriage.

However, after my divorce in 2001, I've done pretty well. South Florida is a fun place even now.

Post: #27

(01-23-2012 09:21 PM)Private Man Wrote:  I missed out on the 80s (I'm Simon's age) because I was too busy being a nice guy and also had a LTR that ultimately resulted in marriage.

However, after my divorce in 2001, I've done pretty well. South Florida is a fun place even now.

Where are you at in South Florida?

Post: #28

I estimate I'm in the 330s somewhere, but only in the last 10 years or so did I up my standards, I have nailed every bus station skank, but I have also banged the most beautiful, debutante, bus station skanks ; )

Post: #29

Too bad Blowjobs don't count.

I've had a lot of problems with Catholic chicks.. Anyone have advice on getting past all of their sex anxieties? Lot of LMR tonight. And it wasn't just a front. This girl was just not DTF. Her pussy was just not consistently wet like it should be.

I got tired of dealing with her LMR, so I settled with blowing in her mouth. Where do you guys draw the line with regards to effort? Is there a point that you reach where if she's not putting out, you're attempts begin to become DLVs?

Post: #30

(01-24-2012 07:31 PM)Fisto Wrote:  I estimate I'm in the 330s somewhere, but only in the last 10 years or so did I up my standards, I have nailed every bus station skank, but I have also banged the most beautiful, debutante, bus station skanks ; )

How old are you?

Post: #31

(01-29-2012 04:30 AM)pitt Wrote:  

(01-24-2012 07:31 PM)Fisto Wrote:  I estimate I'm in the 330s somewhere, but only in the last 10 years or so did I up my standards, I have nailed every bus station skank, but I have also banged the most beautiful, debutante, bus station skanks ; )

How old are you?

I'll be 34 soon.

Post: #32

(01-29-2012 04:19 AM)soup Wrote:  Too bad Blowjobs don't count.

I've had a lot of problems with Catholic chicks.. Anyone have advice on getting past all of their sex anxieties? Lot of LMR tonight. And it wasn't just a front. This girl was just not DTF. Her pussy was just not consistently wet like it should be.

I got tired of dealing with her LMR, so I settled with blowing in her mouth. Where do you guys draw the line with regards to effort? Is there a point that you reach where if she's not putting out, you're attempts begin to become DLVs?

Got her back here tonight and bang ensued. That's 3 new notches for Jan 2012. did get a bruised penis head though :{

Post: #33

P4P should count as triple

Post: #34

(02-19-2012 04:20 PM)DirkJohanson Wrote:  P4P should count as triple

P4P should count as minus 3. If a lizard pays you (indirectly) and she is a 6 or higher, it should count as plus 2.

Post: #35

(02-19-2012 06:20 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(02-19-2012 04:20 PM)DirkJohanson Wrote:  P4P should count as triple

P4P should count as minus 3. If a lizard pays you (indirectly) and she is a 6 or higher, it should count as plus 2.

P4p counts if you bang a stripper for less than what she asked for a private dance. I think if we want to keep track of this we should start a new thread and it should be called...What's your notch count this month...We can collect them like those tickets at Chuckie Cheese and start giving out cock sauce and condoms as prizes.

Post: #36

(01-29-2012 04:19 AM)soup Wrote:  Too bad Blowjobs don't count.

I've had a lot of problems with Catholic chicks.. Anyone have advice on getting past all of their sex anxieties? Lot of LMR tonight. And it wasn't just a front. This girl was just not DTF. Her pussy was just not consistently wet like it should be.

I got tired of dealing with her LMR, so I settled with blowing in her mouth. Where do you guys draw the line with regards to effort? Is there a point that you reach where if she's not putting out, you're attempts begin to become DLVs?

I think we all prefer instant hot and heavy chemistry. Most would put in some long term effort if there were a reasonable expectation of consummate reward. And a dry pussy is a hint that the reward won't be as great as if there were an instant hot and heavy chemistry.

You may put in a month of effort only to gain tepid sex. Or it may take months of tepid sex just to awaken her sexuality up to the level of moderate sex.

Is that worth it? Sure could be, if she doesn't get too much in the way of you seeing other girls in your agenda. The danger - even more than mediocre sex - is that she eventually eclipses your other options, without being better than your other options.

Post: #37

Age needs to be considered as a qualifier for this poll. Someone over forty with 100 notches might be considered average, but if you are under thirty and have over 100, then you are in a different league.

Post: #38

(02-20-2012 10:34 AM)jdelisi Wrote:  Age needs to be considered as a qualifier for this poll. Someone over forty with 100 notches might be considered average, but if you are under thirty and have over 100, then you are in a different league.

Good point about average per year being a better measure of notch count, but some people take years off of a player lifestyle at a time with bouts of serial monogamy. I think it's not so common for anyone to sustain a player lifestyle for decades. I've never heard of it actually - has anyone here? I think it's more common to at least alternate with bouts of monogamy, if not actually eventually stick with one girl.

And what is the lifetime average for men? Isn't it something like 8, or 12, or something quite low? The vast majority of men - the vast, vast majority, have no experience of either playing around, or non-monogamy. Am I wrong about that?

Post: #39

notch count =5 since losing virginity in february i am 19

Post: #40

(01-21-2012 05:43 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  First of all, off course fucking a girl up the ass counts as a nothch. I dont see how sticking your dick in her ass is not a notch. Its even a special one i think.

Second anyone who has less then a hundred 100 notches and cant remember all of them within an hour of thinking about it, has something wrong with his brain.

How hard is it to think about girls year by year since your first time. I mean the memories of girls are connected to other memories aren't they ?

Re-read this post when you're 55 after a few hundred more bottles of [fill in your preference] and I guarantee you will form a wry smile.

Post: #41

Something like 54:

2010 - 11 total
2011 - 21 total
2012 - 22 so far

in the past three years since I started reading up on the game. There was a whole bunch before that but I didn't keep track. My total is probably somewhere between 70-90.

Post: #42

(01-20-2012 01:29 PM)SimonRierdon Wrote:  Actually, if you were in the right place (Atlanta, Ft. Lauderdale, San Diego etc.) it was so damned easy to get laid in the eighties that me and my buds had a name for it, "Overlaid" [. . .] this was before AIDS [. . .]

(01-21-2012 09:18 PM)SimonRierdon Wrote:  1979 to 1990.

Simon Rierdon: Based on your statement about your approximate age, you're roughly the same age I am; and while I realize that the following is a harsh judgment, I have to say it anyway: A person would have to be a bit dense, and not have been paying attention to the news back then, to think that the period 1979 to 1990 was "before AIDS". AIDS was discovered and announced to the world in 1981, and while in the United States the disease was initially mostly restricted to gays, it was known pretty much from the start that there were other places, particularly sub-Saharan Africa and Haiti, where the disease had made significant inroads into the heterosexual community, and that a breakthrough into the American heterosexual community could come at any time. It was also immediately obvious that a lot of transmission of the disease had occurred in the several years prior to 1981. And it was only four years later, in 1985, that heterosexuals in the United States really started worrying about AIDS, based on increasing reports of heterosexual cases there.

I'm glad to hear you came down with nothing worse than a couple of cases of crabs during the period 1979-1990, but it sounds as if yours was a case of "ignorance is bliss". I turned down a lot of sexual opportunities during that time period because of my concern about AIDS (and also about herpes, which used to be a scarier disease than it is now). That may have been foolish of me, or it may not have, for various reasons that I won't take the time to discuss here.

Post: #43

bump

I wish I could revote, Movin' on up!

Post: #44

20-40, I'm actually lost right now on my count and will go through the numbers I've done throughout this year, it's been my most productive.

Post: #45

In my 20s - been to a series of LTRs for the past several years and starting to roaming again.

Post: #46

(01-20-2012 01:29 PM)SimonRierdon Wrote:  

(01-19-2012 01:50 PM)chyamor Wrote:  One thing that has to be taken into account is, its much easier to get laid now than back in the 80s, 90s, early 2000's.
Back when I was in HS/College there wasn't online dating, texting, facebook etc. Im curious to see what the result would be if you subtracted online girls and poll walk ups/bars lays only

Actually, if you were in the right place (Atlanta, Ft. Lauderdale, San Diego etc.) it was so damned easy to get laid in the eighties that me and my buds had a name for it, "Overlaid". I was in my twenties at the time, had an awesome job, a room mate that was as good a wing as I was for him and if you had the bucks to go to the right places, it was a failure if you DIDN'T score. My room mate and I would go to different venues at times and I couldn't tell you how many times he would bring two girls home and when I got home to the apartment I would find a girl in my bed and I had to explain to the two girls who I brought home what was going on. Plus, this was before AIDS, cocaine was cheap and available in every upscale club and if you were in the right city, the girls outnumbered the guys. There were times in Atlanta during that period where if you were in the right club, all you had to do was post up at the bar and within ten minutes you would have girls hitting all over you. My dad used to come visit me when I lived in Atlanta just to get laid. I was the most proud of him that I have ever been in my life when he picked up a mid-twenties chocolate, hazel-eyed stewardess thirty years his junior during one visit to see me. That's another story that I just might have to write a post about.

You just gave me a great idea.

Im hitting on all women over 40 when i hit ATL. I bet these women miss the 80s, they need a young player to remind them of these years.

Post: #47

In 1995 I got out of the military and made a list of all the girls I had sex with whose names that I could remember. I was at 183. Those were the girls that I remembered. It helped a lot that I had photos with their names written on the back. I went into the Army 3 days after my 18th birthday, and anybody that's ever served will tell you that there are a lot of sluts around bases.

Post: #48

First girl was when I was 18, and started to really get into game around 22-23 yrs old. I stopped keeping count around notch #60. I'd say it's now in the 80-100 range.