Post: #1

So I've been seeing this girl and 5 dates in I get the bang on new year's. Before I banged her that night she was trying to committ me into the relationship by flirting with one of my mates and I'm talking flirting like her grinding on him, him biting her really obvious shit. Anyway, I bang her that night and she asks me what are we. I kept it simple by saying "we're seeing each other" and just closed ended responses. Anyway, i text her a few days later asking if she wants to meet up and she replies "Friend is coming over to see the new dog". I say "blast that infernal dog. notify me later this week" and end it there. Now a few days have passed and I've texted her to meet up on a monday cause i had work and indoor saturday, sunday. She replies "I'm away down the coast from tomorrow till next weekend. Sorry ive been working more than i thought and had lots of birthdays this week. Lost track of time". I didn;t reply yet. What should i text back and what position am i in at the moment. I've also been a bit cold when im with her cause sh'es said to me "you're not the same when you're with me tan you are with your friends". i think thats because I've been trying to play it alpha with her.

Your input would be great, cheers.

Post: #2

Take my words with a pinch of salt, I will be interested to hear how someone more experienced answers.

First off, you already got the bang so what's the issue? If she is flaking on you, making bs excuses instead of meeting up, then put her down for a week or so, texting the word gay seems quite popular, like I said I'm new and getting a feel for things. You obviously werent what she was expecting (more than just a bang).

Post: #3

This chick is fucked up in the head. I'd drop her.

I know you don't want to drop her, so since she's being a bitch, the best move would be to do nothing and let her re initiate. If she doesn't, who cares? You still got the notch, she moves on with her slutty life. You'll always remember that you worked hard for 5 dates for one measly lay and ask yourself going forward: "Is it worth waiting for her to put out?"

Post: #4

I would do one of 2 things - dont text or call her at all and let her come crawling back to you. you already fucked her so who cares if she doesn't?

OR text her mechanico's classic line "bring that dirty pussy over here"

but i'll say it again so you can get it in your head - YOU ALREADY FUCKED HER.

Post: #5

Sometimes I wish chicks would dissappear on me after the first bang. Really sometimes its painful to get rid of them so you are lucky that way.

Like Houston said you already banged her. Give yourself a high five for the bang and move onto next one.

Post: #6

"Shes trying to pin me down in a relationship", and you, I assume, are not. So why then you treat her as if you where trying to woo her into a relationship? Why 5 dates? (And Im going to guess you took her to dinner and a movie...)

Now she is blowing you off because she wants relationships and you want sex. Unless you want to exchange your time for sex, id say let her go. But be warned in the future. You need to step up your game.

Post: #7

(01-10-2012 06:18 AM)houston Wrote:  I would do one of 2 things - dont text or call her at all and let her come crawling back to you. you already fucked her so who cares if she doesn't?

OR text her mechanico's classic line "bring that dirty pussy over here"

but i'll say it again so you can get it in your head - YOU ALREADY FUCKED HER.

I agree with what Houston says, you either ignore her completely or use el mechanico's line

Post: #8

(01-10-2012 06:18 AM)houston Wrote:  OR text her mechanico's classic line "bring that dirty pussy over here"

Is this ever a good thing to do? Seriously, I'm considering it.

Post: #9

(02-15-2012 12:30 PM)esperar Wrote:  

(01-10-2012 06:18 AM)houston Wrote:  OR text her mechanico's classic line "bring that dirty pussy over here"

Is this ever a good thing to do? Seriously, I'm considering it.

Its a great line on girl you've already fucked. 95% of guys won't ever say it because they're scared. She'll probably laugh and tell you how nasty you are.

Post: #10

I've yet to bang her, anything I can use?

Post: #11

(02-16-2012 09:02 AM)esperar Wrote:  I've yet to bang her, anything I can use?

Whatever you do, don't use that line before you bedded her and see what see is like between the sheets. Some girls who appear wild are very conservative in bed.

I would never use it in this way, maybe 'bring your pussy over' here if you already had sex with her and you know she's into those kind of lines but "dirty pussy"? I wouldn't bet on it.

If she in a grumpy mood, a line like ; bring your DIRTY pussy over here might backfire on you.