Post: #1

Damn it guys. How the hell do I get rejected from 4 different girls all within a few days!! This seriously sucks balls. A fifth one might be added to the rejected list. This is just awesome.

What I don't get is everything seemed fine and suddenly they all about suddenly lost interest. What the hell?

Post: #2

I am guessing you got rejected after you got their number and tried to set up a meeting correct?

Break it down some more and I bet we can pinpoint where you went wrong.

And yeah. If I went 0 for 5 I would be reaching for a sharp knife in my kitchen drawer. (Don't do this little grasshopper).

- MPM
The Guide to Getting More out of Life
http://www.thegmanifesto.com

Post: #3

i have dropped the ball on approaches the past few weeks. so i salute you and your failure. it will serve you well. run it down for us

Post: #4

are these day 2 rejections? or number close rejections?

as for recovering, you have barely tasted failure. i once had eight (8!) day 2s in a row over a four week period that did not make it to a day3. i learned a lot about comfort game during that trying time.

Post: #5

yeah we need more info to understand your predicament better.

Post: #6

(08-03-2009 10:09 PM)Roissy Wrote:  are these day 2 rejections? or number close rejections?

as for recovering, you have barely tasted failure. i once had eight (8!) day 2s in a row over a four week period that did not make it to a day3. i learned a lot about comfort game during that trying time.

I am in this mode right now, I think I am on like four in a row, day two, and even worse, day three rejections. I have my regulars, but I really want to move on. Elaborate on "comfort" game so that I have some guidance to bust out of this vicious cycle / downturn.

Post: #7

Downturns are just probability.
Keep going and it will break.

Post: #8

Update guys it's officially bumped up to six

So here's the story:
I actually don't have a horrible problem with girls. But I always end up in relationships. Which isint bad but very time consuming and wallet draining. Right now Im enjoying the freedom of being single.

It starts with this girl at my college. First time I came up to her I actually woke her up and we had some fun rapport going. She hesitated leaving and missed half of her class sitting there with me. I porposfully didn't get her number. I knew I would run into her again. The second time she came up to me and we flirted. This time I got her #, she happily gave it to me. We hung out couple days later. And I started liking her a lot.

Learning from my mistakes before I didn't want to be hung on one girl I started talking to all the hot girls in my class (I'm attracted to the girl next door type, but i'd still bang a hot bimbo) I tried not to enter friend zone with the other girls but maybe I did? Well all 4 of the hot girls shot me down the second I said "we should hang out" it didn't bug me much because they were a lot more of help to me than I was to them with school (slacker by choice)

What got to me was after being shot down by these 4 the girl I was originally interested in just suddenly stopped texting back and answering my call. Given it only was 1 text and 1 call a day apart. Damn it.

Guess it was a good learning experience. It just sucks I had to be genuinely interested in one of the girls.

Post: #9

Quote:It just sucks I had to be genuinely interested in one of the girls.

This should never occur before sex. Setting yourself up for disappointment.

Also, college girls are extremely flakey. Part of the game with them

Post: #10

"I actually don't have a horrible problem with girls. But I always end up in relationships."

This is like saying, I am a great fighter, but I always end up getting my ass kicked.

- MPM
The Guide to Getting More out of Life
http://www.thegmanifesto.com

Post: #11

Also, college girls are extremely flakey. Part of the game with them
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Hey roosh could you elaborate a bit more on this? Thanks man

Post: #12

Not much more to elaborate. College girls, by their young nature, are flakey. And you need to be working on many simultaneously.

Post: #13

Out of the 6 girls 5 of them were from school. My college isint huge so i've picked 5 or 6 to be a good number at a time.

With the girls I never really chased them. You know if I ran into them, great. But otherwise no clingy shit.

Post: #14

The best way to go with college game is to find some parties, invite some girls, and bang em "if you play your cards right." If you can't find parties, then that means you need to work on building your social circle, which is the most efficient way of getting lays in college. Cold openings work, and I've done that many times, particularly while I'm eating lunch, I go and sit with a cutie, and just start talking to her. From there once you get her to a party or some social event, there really isn't much more to do than just start the regular sexual escalation (kino, kino, kino).

Post: #15

Yeah man Im @ a community college till next sem so parties are a little harder to come by. I have made a decent amount of friends but the majority of students @ community colleges are a bit antisocial the minute they step out of class.

It's as if everyone there have no social skills. It's always work/school/boyfriend repeat.

Can't wait to transfer the hell out

Post: #16

Maybe they know each other and you're getting a reputation of a player. Something the first girls might not have liked at all, if she's a different type.

Post: #17

(08-09-2009 10:06 AM)Hangover Wrote:  Maybe they know each other and you're getting a reputation of a player. Something the first girls might not have liked at all, if she's a different type.

You might be right, dang man. But wow that must mean I was talked about a lot?

Post: #18

"Yeah man Im @ a community college till next sem so parties are a little harder to come by"

Round up your crew and throw your own parties.

Could turn into a good little side hustle.

- MPM
The Guide to Getting More out of Life
http://www.thegmanifesto.com

Post: #19

College girls know they have the power of choice and play it up as much as they can. Don't allow yourself in being an option for them if you understand that.

Post: #20

(08-09-2009 08:31 AM)Fuzzface Wrote:  Yeah man Im @ a community college till next sem so parties are a little harder to come by. I have made a decent amount of friends but the majority of students @ community colleges are a bit antisocial the minute they step out of class.

It's as if everyone there have no social skills. It's always work/school/boyfriend repeat.

Can't wait to transfer the hell out

Yeah, I know what you mean. I've taken CC courses throughout my life, and each class had maybe 2-4 normal people, and the rest were either weird or old ;P.

I still remember though that I could get numbers from girls in my classes. You can usually meet up and do a "study session" and escalate from there.

Post: #21

Actually I made her an option, thats why I was talking to the other 5 girls also. So I wouldnt be so hung on her. I was pretty busy at the time so we hung out/talked only when I was free.

Now that I think about it ive ALWAYS initiated calling and texting. I think she texted first once to see if I wanted to hang out but I blew her off when she found me at school because I had a lot going on that day.

Kereouac, my college isint horrible actually. They are a lot of younger with an occasional grandma thrown in. Ofcourse the weirdos are there, but thats everywhere man.

Post: #22

Number has bumped up to 7

Wow, this is awesome. Im actually glad these rejections were piled one on top of another because it has helped me tremendiously about NOT GIVING A SHIT.

Ironically im hoping I get rejected a few more times by girls who im VERY attracted to and ill REALLY become numb. Not giving a shit is just awesome.

Roosh, you are fucking awesome man.

Post: #23

(08-13-2009 10:41 PM)Fuzzface Wrote:  Number has bumped up to 7

Wow, this is awesome. Im actually glad these rejections were piled one on top of another because it has helped me tremendiously about NOT GIVING A SHIT.

Ironically im hoping I get rejected a few more times by girls who im VERY attracted to and ill REALLY become numb. Not giving a shit is just awesome.

Roosh, you are fucking awesome man.

^^ Yeah awesome is my favorite word. Shut up.