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when you get a number, how do you know you aren't getting it as a friend?
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when you get a number, how do you know you aren't getting it as a friend?
Number closed a pretty attractive chick I met at the airport. Spoke for like 45 minutes or so before getting the number. As far as IOI's she touched my arm a few times and continued the conversation when I let it die down. Eventually I asked for the number saying "...we should def continue this conversation..." When you do number close with a lizard, how do you know bitch isn't just giving you a digits as a friend?
12-29-2011 10:09 PM
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RE: when you get a number, how do you know you aren't getting it as a friend?
Hit her up and ask her to hang out in an obvious dating context (one on one, after normal dinner hours, somewhere that serves alcohol). Shoot down any suggestions to meet up with her friends, take her to dinner, etc. If she won't agree to meet up on your terms then she's not interested or she sees you as a beta provider.
12-29-2011 10:17 PM
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RE: when you get a number, how do you know you aren't getting it as a friend?
I'm no expert, but in 45 minutes of talking, I would have already let her know my intentions via some witty sexual innuendo. I let girls know pretty quickly that I am not talking with them to be their buddy.
12-29-2011 10:18 PM
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RE: when you get a number, how do you know you aren't getting it as a friend?
Chicks are silly, but they aren't dumb with regards to why men ask for their phone numbers and try to get dates. They just need to decide, or be convinced, of where the interaction should go. If she engaged you for 45 minutes and gave up the number, she's interested in you. Strike while the iron is hot, because they have the attention span of small children. Push for the date and try to take it where you want it to go.

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12-29-2011 11:09 PM
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RE: when you get a number, how do you know you aren't getting it as a friend?
This belongs in the Newbie forum.

Girls don't give out their numbers "as friends" unless they have a boyfriend. If however you pursue her but don't escalate soon enough she will eventually friend zone you so strike while the iron is hot.
12-30-2011 06:52 AM
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RE: when you get a number, how do you know you aren't getting it as a friend?
Women love to put you in the friend zone if they aren't interested sexually. But at the same time keep flirting with you to keep you chasing after them. Learn to recognize when they get in that mode. They only way you get through the bullshit is to put them on the spot. Go for the kiss. You'll know what the deal is afterwards.

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12-30-2011 08:03 AM
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RE: when you get a number, how do you know you aren't getting it as a friend?
I ask for the number after it has been established that I have the intention to take her clothes off.
12-31-2011 06:33 AM
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RE: when you get a number, how do you know you aren't getting it as a friend?
(12-30-2011 06:52 AM)P Dog Wrote:  This belongs in the Newbie forum.

Girls don't give out their numbers "as friends" unless they have a boyfriend. If however you pursue her but don't escalate soon enough she will eventually friend zone you so strike while the iron is hot.

^ you could not be anymore right, agreed pretty much bros

anyways I have waited too long at sometimes, my suggestion is make moves, hugs and then kisses, make em quick!
12-31-2011 10:10 PM
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RE: when you get a number, how do you know you aren't getting it as a friend?
Yea man pretty much what the other guys are saying that a lizard knows what she is doing when she gives her number out to a guy she talked to for 45 min. As far as the friend thing goes text her and feel her out you'll know pretty quick if she is trying to friend you.
01-01-2012 04:30 AM
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