Post: #1

I go back to my hometown for the weekend, one of my buddies calls me up "dude wanna go to the bar" Me: "I'm kind of studying, but sure why not I've never been to that place. My attitude is perfect I'm in the zone for picking up bar sluts and hopefully not getting stabbed (the bouncers were wearing knife vests). I walk in chat with the door girl show my ID. Within 20 steps of being in I look around and in my peripheral vision comes screaming girls (screaming due to joy of course). Both are from eastern europe. In one corner with big tits and a nice ass/body, coupled with a tomboyish attitude and feminine style is the russian, the other has more elegant beauty and big lips; both a good 8 on my scale. They run up and wet themselves in excitement, they hug me and kiss my cheeks, stop short of sucking my dick. At this point I look around and note that every female and male alike were staring mouth agape (BIG DHV). Regardless I am not impressed it ruins my mindset and they can tell. I keep the conversation short and find my buddies. We find a seat and my buddy keeps telling me the girl at our 5oclock was staring at us (8+6). They were also sitting next to the girls from earlier who were engaged with some orbiters who spent the night glaring at me.

Heres my question. As the player you are do you go and run game right beside a girl you haven't banged, but have been on a few dates with? Tell the girl staring shes rude because shes been checking you out and didn't say hi and game on? aka strategy 1 don't give a fuck.

OR.

Do you win over the girl and her friends with heartfelt romantic gestures (read: game her, ignore the hot girl checking you out and aim to bang her that night) Strategy 2: take the random encounter as an insta date for a girl you are beginning to game as to avoid cataclysmic jealousy.

OR

Strategy 3: your suggestion for handling random encounters with girls you have run good game on, but have yet to bang.

Post: #2

(12-18-2011 11:25 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  I go back to my hometown for the weekend, one of my buddies calls me up "dude wanna go to the bar" Me: "I'm kind of studying, but sure why not I've never been to that place. My attitude is perfect I'm in the zone for picking up bar sluts and hopefully not getting stabbed (the bouncers were wearing knife vests). I walk in chat with the door girl show my ID. Within 20 steps of being in I look around and in my peripheral vision comes screaming girls (screaming due to joy of course). Both are from eastern europe. In one corner with big tits and a nice ass/body, coupled with a tomboyish attitude and feminine style is the russian, the other has more elegant beauty and big lips; both a good 8 on my scale. They run up and wet themselves in excitement, they hug me and kiss my cheeks, stop short of sucking my dick. At this point I look around and note that every female and male alike were staring mouth agape (BIG DHV). Regardless I am not impressed it ruins my mindset and they can tell. I keep the conversation short and find my buddies. We find a seat and my buddy keeps telling me the girl at our 5oclock was staring at us (8+6). They were also sitting next to the girls from earlier who were engaged with some orbiters who spent the night glaring at me.

Heres my question. As the player you are do you go and run game right beside a girl you haven't banged, but have been on a few dates with? Tell the girl staring shes rude because shes been checking you out and didn't say hi and game on? aka strategy 1 don't give a fuck.

OR.

Do you win over the girl and her friends with heartfelt romantic gestures (read: game her, ignore the hot girl checking you out and aim to bang her that night) Strategy 2: take the random encounter as an insta date for a girl you are beginning to game as to avoid cataclysmic jealousy.

OR

Strategy 3: your suggestion for handling random encounters with girls you have run good game on, but have yet to bang.

I dont' get the fact pattern here.

If it were me, i'd fuck the big tits euro chick cause that's what I like.

But say you've already been there done that and want some new pussy, but new pussy is sitting next to bitches that you've already hollered @ and didn't hit?

Assuming that they're going to cock block by either hating on you in front of new pussy, or compete with her...

Strategy - separate new pussy from old pussy

Options
1) pull new pussy out, "hey lemme show you something"
2) push old pussy out - make them leave the area
3) bring in the troops - have your buddies occupy the old bitches
4) Run game right in front of them and ignore everything they do
5) wait for new pussy to get up and hit the bathroom and talk to her on the way out.

All of these are adequate solutions, 5 is the easiest to do, but hardest to control.

#4 is what the fearless do
#3 depends on how good or bad your buddies are
#2 If you can blow a chick out, good for you
#1 might be hard to do if your target is with her friends and afraid of losing her seat @ the bar

I'm just not sure what is you want though
- bang the new chick
- bang the chicks you've dated but haven't closed

Post: #3

You should still be a social person. Enjoy their enthusiasm and just wait it out. Emotions last a max of 3-5 minutes. You want to smile, say "How are you?", respond to them, but not kino past a few air kisses and hugs when saying hello. After they calm down from the screeching stage but still happy to see you, you have a few choices:

1) If you've got some friends there waiting to meet you:
"Hey, let me introduce you to my friends". Walk them over to your buddies. Feed them to your social circle and make your guy friends really happy.

2) If you're solo:
Ask them where they're sitting, and go there with them. You want to place them back where they came from, which will anchor them when you next move away after they've calmed down.

From there, it's easy to lose them by first being introduced and then getting lost in talking to their friends in their circle, or by waiting for when the conversation falters and saying "Oh, I've got to talk to Mike." same as you would at a cocktail party and quickly move away from the circle she's in across the room to near any random guy and order your drink.

Basically you're looking at a 3-10 minute investment of your time that keeps your social mood you spent so much time getting still in place. I think it's faster to deal with fans than leaving and changing venue. But that's me.