Post: #1

I realize that as the man I should be sexually escalating - but damn... when the woman is laying there like a dead fish I'm gonna get a little bit annoyed and lose interest.....

After 40 minutes of slapping her ass, fingering her, rubbing her breasts, biting her neck, I gave up. Her back was to me the entire time.. after I quit, she said "you can keep going"... I replied, "it seemed like you weren't interested... I'm tired now"... I rolled over & went to sleep.

I don't think I'm asking too much to be 'aroused' a little bit either am I? lol...

thoughts?

Post: #2

Some girls are just dead fish. I'm surprised you were able to go 40 minutes. Was she doing anything at all?

Post: #3

(07-20-2009 12:42 PM)kerouac Wrote:  Some girls are just dead fish. I'm surprised you were able to go 40 minutes. Was she doing anything at all?

She was doing nothing at all.. just laying there... when I quit, she said she was enjoying what I was doing.. but oh well... I needed reciprocal action if she wanted me to take it further.

What really frustrates me is, she is _very_ sexually experimental - has done a lot and wants to do a lot - but these nights she just does the 'dead fish' thing is annoying as hell (which is actually more often than not - she puts her back up to me and 'waits')... I've commented to her about it as well, but rarely does she reciprocate 'early on' - which quite often even leaves me 'hanging' (I get bored/tired) and the both of us end up unsatisfied.

She is the only woman I've been with that has done this.... all others demonstrated they are sexually 'hungry', and at every stage of my escalation, they have met with eager anticipation and response. This one though.. is frustrating. What's also annoying is she reaches deeper orgasms with me than she has had in her past - so I'm pretty certain my 'skills' aren't to blame, lol.

Post: #4

Most girls are not like this, thankfully.

Tell her you want to rape her and see if that gets her excited.

Post: #5

Your problem here is that you are not yet having sex. A girl can, although preferably not, be a dead fish in the sack, but that just means I am going to bang her on her back. I can slam into that all night.

I was seeing a girl a while back who wouldn't make the transition to the bang and was very much like this girl here, so I dropped her and just moved on.

Post: #6

Let us know who this girl is.

So we can make sure to avoid her.

- MPM
The Guide to Getting More out of Life
http://www.thegmanifesto.com

Post: #7

(07-20-2009 11:54 AM)mcr Wrote:  I realize that as the man I should be sexually escalating - but damn... when the woman is laying there like a dead fish I'm gonna get a little bit annoyed and lose interest.....

After 40 minutes of slapping her ass, fingering her, rubbing her breasts, biting her neck, I gave up. Her back was to me the entire time.. after I quit, she said "you can keep going"... I replied, "it seemed like you weren't interested... I'm tired now"... I rolled over & went to sleep.

I don't think I'm asking too much to be 'aroused' a little bit either am I? lol...

thoughts?

why on earth did you keep on doing this for FORTY minutes?! heck, after only half of that you should be well in to fucking her

for goodness sake next time just leap on top of her and spread her legs apart

Post: #8

sex is based on mutual interest,she perhaps not getting the arousal which she demands,she isnt enjoying you,hence,you not enjoying her.

Post: #9

Is there anything wrong with just sticking it in and carving a notch onto the bed post?

Post: #10

eh - its bitches like this
that invented
masturbation