Post: #1

So the other night im at this party and i make out with this girl a couple of times. My buddy had told me previously that she likes bigger guys like my self. I text her to day and we chat about the night (i don't bring up that we made out ) I casually threw out in the conversation that we should hang out some time and she was down. Now my question is how do i play the next move. I was thinking something low key like coffee or something but i don't want to scare the cat away. Also Im trying to figure out if the make out session meant something or was it just something in passing. Anyway some advice would be nice!

Post: #2

Forget coffee. Go for alcoholic drinks.

Tell her to meet you at 9:30pm, show up 15 min late, get a few drinks going, switch venues, then parlay back to your place and...

Post: #3

Stop over-thinking it. You made out with a girl and she agreed to hang out with you... and now you're afraid to scare her away with the wrong date idea? Come on dude you gotta get over it.

Post: #4

she seems like a slut so maybe you can go different route to show her 'I am not one of those guys trying to get in your pants'
how about coffee date for an hour and you call it a day first

Post: #5

'Scare the cat' is what Roosh said about meeting stranger-chicks during the day.
Don't worry about that - doesn't apply after kissing. I'd worry more about getting stuck in the friend zone, not scaring her.

Take her out for drinks - alcoholic drinks.

I'd meet her 8-9pm show up 5/10 mins late, take her to a bar/pub switch venues a couple times, bring her back to my place and see how far I can get.

Also, yeah, don't over think it. And no coffee dude!