Post: #1

You get no reply to a text message asking a girl to meet up (and she's the one who asked for your number).

What is the perfect alpha response?

Do you ignore her rudeness and move on because life's too busy and there are other girls to meet or do you send her a cheery message saying consequently her number's now deleted? Or perhaps some other valedictory payoff?

Post: #2

(07-09-2009 06:03 AM)adrian_D Wrote:  You get no reply to a text message asking a girl to meet up (and she's the one who asked for your number).

What is the perfect alpha response?

Do you ignore her rudeness and move on because life's too busy and there are other girls to meet or do you send her a cheery message saying consequently her number's now deleted? Or perhaps some other valedictory payoff?

Need more context here: have you just met and she gave you her number, have you dated before, etc.

One thing right off the bat - alpha does not engage in petty vindictive behaviors sending payoff messages, etc. What is it going to achieve - she'll laugh at it and think even less of you.

Post: #3

Thanks for your response. Not much context really. Meet girl in bar. Girl asks for my number. After few chatty text messages, suggest meeting up. Ziltch. Nix. It's one thing when you ask for their number and get no response but when they ask for your number and then get no reply, it's bad form.

Post: #4

ignore

Post: #5

"Do you ignore her rudeness and move on because life's too busy and there are other girls to meet"

Yeah, or just re-engage down the road. You never know what happened. Not worth thinking about, possiblities are limitless why she ignored.

"or do you send her a cheery message saying consequently her number's now deleted?"

Definitely not.

- MPM
http://www.thegmanifesto.com

Post: #6

Ignore it, it will happen many many times if you keep pursuing girls. Initially it is a degree of a blow to the ego, but it comes to affect you less and less as it happens.

Post: #7

send her couple of informatic text for two or maximum three days...then cut,and quit.and forget.

high chances dat she will come back after couple of days.

talking with my own experience which worked 100% for me.

Post: #8

As it happened, she actually replied a couple of days later (on the day I was off on a summer break) saying she had a new job so consequently could not meet up and wishing me a good vacation. Thought it a bit weak and so can't be arsed to keep the contact going.

On a further note, would like to say how much I value all the comments made. For those of you with more experience, your advice is really appreciated.