Post: #1

So I sent Roosh an email on this but I thought I'd post this question to the forum as well:

Your game is coming along well. You're pretty happy with your progress,
how far you've come, how much you've bettered yourself, etc.

Then, one night you reconnect with the girl who sent you into the
pickup world in the first place - the one-itis.

You were always on good terms with the girl and realize you got
rejected by her b/c you were a giant pussy when you needed to step up
in the past.

When you meet her again you make sure you're avoiding the mistakes
you've made before and she's reacting well to the 'new' you. There's a definite
connection, IOI's.

You then begin to realize why you fell for this girl in the first
place. Even now that your game is tighter, she's still girlfriend material
and shit - she's probably the coolest chick (not a dumb slut) that has
come into your life in a long time.

And then you think, "But she's my one-itis and now I care too much."

Do you pursue or run far, far away? And if you pursue, do you do it direct or
indirect b/c she's well aware of how you felt for her in the past?

Post: #2

(07-01-2009 01:19 PM)EZ Travels Wrote:  So I sent Roosh an email on this but I thought I'd post this question to the forum as well:

Your game is coming along well. You're pretty happy with your progress,
how far you've come, how much you've bettered yourself, etc.

Then, one night you reconnect with the girl who sent you into the
pickup world in the first place - the one-itis.

You were always on good terms with the girl and realize you got
rejected by her b/c you were a giant pussy when you needed to step up
in the past.

When you meet her again you make sure you're avoiding the mistakes
you've made before and she's reacting well to the 'new' you. There's a definite
connection, IOI's.

You then begin to realize why you fell for this girl in the first
place. Even now that your game is tighter, she's still girlfriend material
and shit - she's probably the coolest chick (not a dumb slut) that has
come into your life in a long time.

And then you think, "But she's my one-itis and now I care too much."

Do you pursue or run far, far away? And if you pursue, do you do it direct or
indirect b/c she's well aware of how you felt for her in the past?

once a girl has a solid opinion about yourself.....its very difficult to change her mind even though you come up with rock confident game,the reason you want to persue her because she IS your oneitis.

trust me,your all skills and games and all whatever you learned will be failed once you started to develop oneitis again with this girl....whatever you do...you wont get the pussy.

best of luck anyway.

Post: #3

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When you meet her again you make sure you're avoiding the mistakes
you've made before and she's reacting well to the 'new' you. There's a definite
connection, IOI's.


[/quote]

oh yeah,its a clear sign that she is still your oneitis,because you are caring to avoid mistakes....why would you even care ?,who gives a shit if she is reacting well or not.

move on buddy.

Post: #4

Just game her like you would any other chick.

Sounds to me like you are still being reactive and worrying about screwing it up.

Post: #5

The fastest way to regress back to your old self is to game a chick from the past. You're already showing hints of it in the way you describe her (third to last paragraph).

Think long term, of developing your game so you can get girls like her consistently. The correct thing to do is pass.

Post: #6

[quote='charmer' pid='5214' dateline='1246536449'
once a girl has a solid opinion about yourself.....its very difficult to change her mind even though you come up with rock confident game[/quote]

yet another reason men are better (and will always be better) than females.

when a mousy girl blooms into an hb, a guy can change his mind

Post: #7

Thanks guys, exactly what I needed to hear.