Post: #1

Night dates have a reasonable script. You got out to have a drink, maybe bounce to another place, and ultimately back to your place for a "drink".

But what about a day date? Suppose you go ziplining, or ice skating, or to the zoo during the afternoon. Alcohol is not entirely appropriate during the day, and at some point you need to get dinner. How do you transition? Or is the solution just avoiding this awkward schedule?

Post: #2

I usually do coffee or lunch -> cupcake store -> park to make out, all walking distance. I hit up the same stores too, they must think I'm wild bringing a new girl in every other week.

Post: #3

I use the day date mainly as a way to build comfort and set up the bang on date# 2, which is always a night date or an invitation to my place to watch a movie and have drinks. I usually hit 2 venues within a span of 2 hours (Dont want to waste too much time! since I usually try to have an evening or night date setup with another girl that same day) and by then a strong connection for the next meeing is established. Also, I always go for the kiss at the end of the day date to screen out the conservative girls or those who arent digging me. If however she shows her cards early and there is strong chemistry, I push for the bang that same day.

Post: #4

My day bangs typically go like this:

Lunch (after 1pm at a lonely spot where we can build trust/comfort/attraction) ->> Cafe. Pick a lonely spot with a love-couch to start Kino (DO NOT PICK STARBUCKS!! ONLY SMALL INDIE CAFE's near Universities!!), -->> and Venue 3 would be my apt/hotel after making-out in Venue 2.

This is the GENERAL script, it all depends on how attracted the girl is to you by the time you are in Venue 2, if she is not attracted, or refusing to make-out, then move to Venue 3 (more intimate lounge/lonely bar) and try to make-out, sexually touch again..if you are still not making out and touching her sexually....she is not interested in you for sex...so make a choice to move-on.


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Post: #5

I like this thread. I'm always kind of clueless on what to do and where to go if a girl wants to chill during the day.

Post: #6

A lot of this is specific to where you live. Here you can hit the beaches and cruise on a trolly from one little city/village to the next all year round. You could go to the horse races to the dogtrack and then hit the casino all within 15 miles. There's all kind of tour boats and all you have to do is drive for 10 minutes and you will see a district closed off and beer trucks for some art fest or even last sunday they closed off our downtown for a central american music festival.

When you move around and she's having a good time at one point you re-group and make a transition to night.

We have a lot of americans here and should start separate threads filled with day date ideas for our cities.

Post: #7

I personally love day dates... I don't need booze to seal the deal at all.

The general formula is this. Pick a fun activity that doesn't cost much. Then bring her back to your place for a movie/tv show/music/drink/whatever.

The activites are the tricky part. Good candates include hiking, rock climbing, horseback riding, sailing, surfing, etc. Pick an activity you are good at so she can feel impressed by your skill.

I've experimented with kissing or not on the date, and, for me, my general conclusion is not to escalate beyond light kino until she's back at your place. The exclusion to this is if she kisses you.

Since guys don't do these kinds of dates with girls often, a stronger bond and increased rate of closing occurs from these kind of "action dates". It's also more fun, for me, than getting shitfaced.