Post: #1

Does anyone have advice on this or some basics? I'm starting to get a few things going simultaneously, and I want to avoid hurting anybody's feelings if possible. I'd like to have all of them and am also addicted to the hunt.

Should I let them know upfront or at all? I think I saw something about this online but can't remember where, so please post any pertinent links.

Post: #2

(11-13-2011 10:07 PM)soup Wrote:  Does anyone have advice on this or some basics? I'm starting to get a few things going simultaneously, and I want to avoid hurting anybody's feelings if possible. I'd like to have all of them and am also addicted to the hunt.

Should I let them know upfront or at all? I think I saw something about this online but can't remember where, so please post any pertinent links.

There's this concept in my head...what is it...OH, that's right:

Don't tell them.

If one asks you about others, respond like, "Baby you wear me out, how could I have the energy for someone else?"

"What kind of man do you think I am?"

"I can't believe you ask me that -- how could I make love to you the way I do if there were someone else?" (This assumes, of course, you are fucking her like a porn star and you make her cum multiple times).

Notice how the responses never SAY you're with someone else.

In other words, express outrage (in a sarcastic teasy way) to trigger their hamster to think you're exclusive. Get their imaginations rolling. Don't ever EVER admit to having another woman -- or two, or three. Ever.

Post: #3

Why would you want a girl to think you are exclusive? Girls always work harder and suppress negative behaviors when they know you aren't.

I always leave the question unanswered. Recently I posted a picture of me with a hot girlfriend on facebook, something which in the past I've gone out of my way to avoid; that same day girls I hadn't heard from in weeks and months suddenly were sending me messages.

You are going to hurt feelings. And if you are exclusive, and you married that one girl, her feelings are still going to get hurt. That is just the way things are.

Post: #4

I normally tell them after I've fucked them, but I'm at uni so it's kinda assumed that everyone's fucking around here.

Post: #5

I've got a situation coming up where they are both going to be in the same room at this event. So, I made I'm at least trying to make it clear no PDA.

Post: #6

ya i had that awkward moment at my birthday party when i realized all but 2 of the females there i had fucked. one was my LTR ex who didnt know about any of them. good times all around.

in that situation game them all, they will see that the other girls are super into you and wonder why she'll ramp up the jealousy and try to get you even more. just find a time to leave with one of them without the others knowing, guaranteed bang for any of them

Post: #7

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Does anyone have advice on this or some basics? I'm starting to get a few things going simultaneously, and I want to avoid hurting anybody's feelings if possible. I'd like to have all of them and am also addicted to the hunt.

Should I let them know upfront or at all? I think I saw something about this online but can't remember where, so please post any pertinent links.
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Not a chance dude. Being a player means acting like a secret agent. KEEP THAT SHIT LOCKED DOWN. Your moves, where you go, what you do, who you hang out with, how you feel about her, what your intentions are, technology, etc. As much as possible, limit the information you give up.

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ya i had that awkward moment at my birthday party when i realized all but 2 of the females there i had fucked. one was my LTR ex who didnt know about any of them. good times all around.

in that situation game them all, they will see that the other girls are super into you and wonder why she'll ramp up the jealousy and try to get you even more. just find a time to leave with one of them without the others knowing, guaranteed bang for any of them
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Things got a little awkward a few weeks back when my roommate (who I fucked a few weeks before that) was around while my fuck buddy (who thinks she's my girlfriend now apparently) was also present. Never escalated though.

Post: #8

Im finally getting a harem going, and its naturally taking care of itself because they live an hour away and at home, so they come to me when I see them, this means I run little chance of just bumping into them. I think keeping your women logistically far away can be used as a headache prevention tool

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Post: #9

good strategy.

if you cant get them from different locations try different cliques/lifestyles so there is less of a chance of running into them. if all your girls are regulars at the same bar you're going to have more logistics to take care of