Post: #1

even though i know women are players ( HOES )
i always get played subconsciously, usually around the fourth date.

i heard the phrase "go out and fuck other girls"

but what do you do when you start dating a girl and after a while you haven't had success meeting new girls
and she is calling you up for a new date but you don't want to catch feelings or get an exclusive feeling

i usually drink alcohol before dates just to numb my emotions,

how do you prevent yourself from getting played?

what are the tricks you use to not get played?

Post: #2

(11-09-2011 08:17 PM)StraightMackin Wrote:  i always get played subconsciously, usually around the fourth date.

At the absolute most, it's three dates before sex, but being real, it's 1-2.

Quote:i heard the phrase "go out and fuck other girls"

but what do you do when you start dating a girl and after a while you haven't had success meeting new girls
and she is calling you up for a new date but you don't want to catch feelings or get an exclusive feeling

Honesty cochise. 'I'm having fun, but I'm not looking for anything heavy right now, is it so bad to just have fun and see where it goes?'

Or hell, even lie if you have to, 'I got out of something recently so I'm not looking to get into something right now.'

I feel bad at times for girls, no one is ever truly honest with them, so be it. Women respect a man who stands his ground and knows what he wants tens of times more than a guy who gives and a guy who has no idea what he wants.

Quote:i usually drink alcohol before dates just to numb my emotions.

You need to shake that, both because it's a bad habit and because knowing how to manipulate the emotional nature of woman is key to the quest.

Quote:how do you prevent yourself from getting played?

what are the tricks you use to not get played?

There are no tricks. I ask a girl out, get her number and set plans and we go out. We go for drinks (not coffee, what am I, less than 21? Not dinner either, what am I, a chode?), we chat, I put my hands on her and within an hour I plant one on her. They usually roll with it and I try to get them back to my place, and if that doesn't happen I set another date.

Making your intentions known, not in an overt 'I want to fuck you' way, not by saying, but by doing.

Lead the situation; women want to be led and want to do what they're told.

Post: #3

(11-09-2011 08:17 PM)StraightMackin Wrote:  how do you prevent yourself from getting played?

what are the tricks you use to not get played?

Here's a bit of a quirky solution:

Post: #4

You can't be played if you control the interaction. You should be playing her just use your head. Read a book on pimpin