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I feel like I shouldn't communicate with a girl in a language I'm not fluent in
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I feel like I shouldn't communicate with a girl in a language I'm not fluent in
E.g. I'm in a country where I'm not so good at the local language, and I try to game girls in that language--I feel like I already lose the upper hand and show some intrinsic weakness. She would be in control of the conversation by default.

Maybe do the first opening lines in the local language, since you'll usually have that figured out, but then switch to English. If she doesn't speak English, you're most likely not going to fuck anyway, so might as well narrow your choices down to English speakers.
11-06-2011 09:10 PM
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RE: I feel like I shouldn't communicate with a girl in a language I'm not fluent in

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11-06-2011 09:51 PM
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RE: I feel like I shouldn't communicate with a girl in a language I'm not fluent in
On the bright side, you get a lot more leeway when you're not a native speaker of her language and the occasional fuckup can be funny and endearing. Often you'll get bonus points just for trying to communicate in her language because it demonstrates an interest in her culture.

Not practicing a language you're learning is also the best way to guarantee that you'll never get better at it.
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11-06-2011 09:59 PM
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RE: I feel like I shouldn't communicate with a girl in a language I'm not fluent in
When you have INTENSE desire for pussy, all other worries and insecurities will seem of lesser importance.

Overcomming language barriers only seem so threatening because your horniness is still not on a critical level.

EXTREME horniness will make you do things you never thought you could before.

If you crave for pussy bad enough, you'll be learning that language in no time out of sheer trial and error.

Throw yourself into the fire.

You see, all I know is ball, and good, and...
11-06-2011 10:16 PM
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RE: I feel like I shouldn't communicate with a girl in a language I'm not fluent in
Not saying you shouldn't get better at the language. Saying that it is essentially futile to communicate if you're not fluent. Roosh, are there any instances you've had where you picked up a girl using incomplete language? I recall in Dead Bat that the girls you hooked up with were all English speakers.
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11-06-2011 10:23 PM
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11-06-2011 10:57 PM
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RE: I feel like I shouldn't communicate with a girl in a language I'm not fluent in
By the way this question is mighty trollish and you've already exhibited troll tendencies (/thread-7608-p...id109994).

Obviously if there is no way to communicate with the girl then you're not going to bang her, but you don't both have to be 100% fluent in the same language to make it happen.

This also seems like a hypothetical question, as you've done before in your neg thread, where you're asking something that either you haven't tried or are not doing. Are you going to a country soon where this is an issue? If that's the case in the future post specific concerns about that country's language. This forum mainly deals in real-life situations, not hypotheticals that you randomly brainstorm.

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11-06-2011 11:02 PM
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RE: I feel like I shouldn't communicate with a girl in a language I'm not fluent in
You don't have to be fluent in a girl's language to bang a girl. And in fact, talking to a girl in her language is one of the best ways to improve your language skills.
11-06-2011 11:29 PM
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RE: I feel like I shouldn't communicate with a girl in a language I'm not fluent in
(11-06-2011 11:02 PM)Roosh Wrote:  By the way this question is mighty trollish and you've already exhibited troll tendencies (/thread-7608-p...id109994).

Obviously if there is no way to communicate with the girl then you're not going to bang her, but you don't both have to be 100% fluent in the same language to make it happen.

This also seems like a hypothetical question, as you've done before in your neg thread, where you're asking something that either you haven't tried or are not doing. Are you going to a country soon where this is an issue? If that's the case in the future post specific concerns about that country's language. This forum mainly deals in real-life situations, not hypotheticals that you randomly brainstorm.

My "neg thread" opens with the following:

"I've tried this opener on two girls, both 8/10's. One responded very well."
/thread-7566.html

Yes, I am traveling to France. Didn't think you guys cared about the details.
11-06-2011 11:40 PM
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RE: I feel like I shouldn't communicate with a girl in a language I'm not fluent in
Check out the French threads for guys who have gamed there. English should be common with young girls in the cities, but you're correct that basic tourist French will not help get laid. You need to be conversational for it to start having a major impact.

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11-07-2011 12:52 PM
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