Post: #1

Lately, girls have been bringing up sex when I'm talking to them and I am not fucking them. I don't think I'm responding correctly.

The following happened in the same night at a party I was at last weekend.

Me: "How did you get that bruise?"
Her: "Had some rough sex"
Me: "Oh.."

Later that night, I was outside smoking a cigarette with two chicks in cop costumes

Me: "Did you notice that we all have handcuffs?"(I was a security guard)

Girl1:"yeah we could handcuff each other!"

Girl2:"And have a threesome!"

Me: "There's an empty room over there"

Both girls looked at each other, looked down then.
::Awkward silence::

I didn't bang any of those girls


Is it just an issue of not escalating enough? When this happens, is this when I take their hand and lead them to an empty room?


Now that I'm thinking about it I should have cuffed both of them and taken them to jail right then and there.

Post: #2

ON Girl 1, not fast enough, and on girls 2 with handcuffs...too fast.

Yeah, thsi shit is tricky.

Next time girls bring up sex, playfully tease them on it. ** They need to "feel" you get sex all the time, and it's no big deal to you.

Girl 1. Rough sex huh? Man, wait 'til you see my bruise on my (invent someplace she has to go digging for)...


Handcuff girls:

Threesome sounds cool, but my ex was a homicide cop (obvious lie and DHV), and I doubt you can live up to her wild side.....<grin>

**** The empty room over there would have probably worked after you built more comfort and playfulness with them actually!

Mixx

Post: #3

'yea, we wake up hand cuffed in awkward positions and no keys'

Post: #4

Yeah, you just don't want to let their words phase you. For the first one I'd probably have said something along the lines of "Yeah, I know how that is." and possibly changed the subject. For the second one maybe something like "Maybe if you buy me a drink and play your cards right". Basically something that doesn't make you seem nervious or shocked by what they said. Just play it off casually and continue the conversation and/or change the subject.

Post: #5

#2 Do what you normally do, ignore and continue talking to them.

Post: #6

Keep your cool and keep your sense of humor. If they wanna joke about sex, then joke about sex. It wouldn't hurt to get some touching going and try to get them isolated. When in doubt, play it cool and playful.

Post: #7

One option is to demure before they do. If some girl brings up her sex bruises, say something like, "and I thought you were a respectable girl." If two girls are joking about a threesome, make some comment about how you're a one-woman kind of guy. It should be playful enough that they think you're not serious, but ambiguous enough that they're not sure. The goal is to get them escalating you.