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Am I Losing Her? (Backwards Momentum in Dating)
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RE: Am I Losing Her? (Backwards Momentum in Dating)
So I text this girl tonight - first contact made in two weeks. She never contacted me and I never contacted her in that span.

Quote:Me: I just met your twin
Her: Whaaat
Her: Send me a pic i wanna see haha
Me: shes gone now. youre def the bad twin tho. how've you been?
Her: What did i ever do to deserve that title im fine u?
Me: major writers block. got a sec?
Her: Okay

Called her up, chatted for about 20 minutes. Some light teasing, a funny travel story, and catching up with what's going on with our lives. Nothing overly flirty. Didn't attempt to ask her out - this was strictly a "reconnect after the freezeout" call.

There might still be some potential here as she responded right away to my texts and invested time in the phone call. I've a feeling that girls don't forget that you're a cool dude even if they flake initially.

I'm thinking of going no contact again for the remainder of this week. I'll call her up again on Wed/Thurs next week and maybe try to schedule for something the following weekend. Is this a sound strategy?
(This post was last modified: 10-25-2011 09:53 PM by Mace.)
10-25-2011 09:47 PM
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RE: Am I Losing Her? (Backwards Momentum in Dating)
Dude.. many mistakes, but you havent lost her yet bc she gives u chance after chance. when she hits u with the radio silence again go out and bang other chicks. she will text u and ask why u aren't chasing her anymore. play it cool.

stop answering all her questions. redirect the conversation.

match the time it takes her to reply or double it.

u got this one easy
07-04-2013 12:51 PM
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