Post: #26

^Agree with Batman's post. I hooked up with ~25 women and mostly got it out of my system. Just got out of an LTR -- tons of sex, tons of good times, but the cost to my personal goals, development, etc was not worth it to me. I'm single right now, using Tinder on and off, but I don't really give a fuck. Hooking up and chasing girls is something that I'd do only if I had literally nothing else going on. I'd rather do martial arts, lift weights, go backpacking, learn more about business, meditate, read books, or do absolutely anything else.

Game and hooking up were pretty on and off for me. I had some great times and great memories. It's an awesome feeling to be asking a girl for directions on a Monday evening and then be banging her on a Thursday. Banging hot girls of every race and background, having an LTR let me live in her town house for months for free, same day lays, all of these things were great. But the whole time, I was completely enslaved to my desires for sex and validation. I wasn't myself, I was a machine completely driven by something society and biology were basically telling me to do. The happiest time of my life (last two months) came from me realizing I didn't need these things to be happy.

Post: #27

Bizarre this. Why you even doing it if you aren't happy. How old are you? You can't get hard with a horny beautiful girl who may only be after a nights excitement? Stop over analysing. Sex is fun. Doesn't always need an "emotional connection" you're missing the point in a big way.

Post: #28

I was a late bloomer sexually lost my unicorn status at 21. I'm 30 now and have had over the average of partners (which from what I remember is 6) and even that really burns men out. Hurts your ability to pair bond. When/if I'm ever able or ready to travel to another country I'm not gonna sex tour I'm gonna wife tour.

Post: #29

@parryfowl what country you in just out of interest

Post: #30

@BroodingSea USA. Never been out of the country, though I have been out of my homestate of Illinois (and I wish I moved out already)

Post: #31

(04-27-2019 05:38 PM)chvrches Wrote:  Do you ever feel empty after sleeping with a girl without having a connection with? [..]

I do not see where the problem is.
If you do not feel to sleeping with girls casually, just do not do it.
You will save time and money, have a clear feeling and help other single men out since they will have less competition.
A win-win-win-win situation
Just for the record, since I am almost 50 and I still want to (try to) bang girls casually, where do you live?
Girls seems to be quite easy where you live, maybe I can end up doing something myself, despite my age

Post: #32

I can relate to your problem mate. If you haven't done so already, try watching Roosh's interview with Michael E Jones. It may provide you with some of the answers you're searching for.

Post: #33

(04-27-2019 05:58 PM)lika91 Wrote:  Have you ever tried it with a man?

Why am I laughing so hard.

Post: #34

Do you have a focus, a purpose in your life outside of game? Is game the only thing that doesn’t bring you satisfaction?

Post: #35

This is an interesting thread to me. As a young man I had been taught to put the chicks on a pedestal. Once I realized that girls aren't all angels on earth and have desires same as men, I was spinning three plates at a time. But, I wasn't "happy" while doing it. It felt empty. Sex felt good for the exact time it lasted, then there was just awkwardness until the girl left. No connection beyond that physical part. So then (fast forwarding through the whole 'getting there' part) I got married. Beautiful Russian woman, that I found on my own after teaching myself conversational Russian and going over there. That lasted 16 years, total, and I do have a lovely young daughter and a step-daughter too.

Long story short: I agree with Klan_Killer wrt the fact that a LTR with the wrong type of woman will suck the life out of you, pull you from your own goals, guilt you in to putting yourself last in every situation, only to move on when you finally put your foot down and demand something for yourself.

The only ltr I'd ever consider again is with that unicorn type that so many of us would love to find: submissive, traditional, housewife material. And probably have to stay in their country instead of bringing them here to this fucking cultural cesspool that the US has turned in to.

Post: #36

“I banged four stunning girls in a month, but meh I don’t like it”.

Is this a humblebrag post?

Post: #37

(05-05-2019 03:05 PM)Solitaire Wrote:  This is an interesting thread to me. As a young man I had been taught to put the chicks on a pedestal. Once I realized that girls aren't all angels on earth and have desires same as men, I was spinning three plates at a time. But, I wasn't "happy" while doing it. It felt empty. Sex felt good for the exact time it lasted, then there was just awkwardness until the girl left. No connection beyond that physical part. So then (fast forwarding through the whole 'getting there' part) I got married. Beautiful Russian woman, that I found on my own after teaching myself conversational Russian and going over there. That lasted 16 years, total, and I do have a lovely young daughter and a step-daughter too.

Long story short: I agree with Klan_Killer wrt the fact that a LTR with the wrong type of woman will suck the life out of you, pull you from your own goals, guilt you in to putting yourself last in every situation, only to move on when you finally put your foot down and demand something for yourself.

The only ltr I'd ever consider again is with that unicorn type that so many of us would love to find: submissive, traditional, housewife material. And probably have to stay in their country instead of bringing them here to this fucking cultural cesspool that the US has turned in to.

Hi Solitaire,
can I ask you how was that you found your Russian wife?
I had a few relationships with Russians in y country but they turned out to be gold diggers
I have heard that there are quite a few nice Russian ladies around, but I cant find them.

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As a side note, sorry for asking here, does anyone know why I cant start new threads?

Post: #38

(05-05-2019 03:05 PM)Solitaire Wrote:  This is an interesting thread to me. As a young man I had been taught to put the chicks on a pedestal. Once I realized that girls aren't all angels on earth and have desires same as men, I was spinning three plates at a time. But, I wasn't "happy" while doing it. It felt empty. Sex felt good for the exact time it lasted, then there was just awkwardness until the girl left. No connection beyond that physical part. So then (fast forwarding through the whole 'getting there' part) I got married. Beautiful Russian woman, that I found on my own after teaching myself conversational Russian and going over there. That lasted 16 years, total, and I do have a lovely young daughter and a step-daughter too.

Long story short: I agree with Klan_Killer wrt the fact that a LTR with the wrong type of woman will suck the life out of you, pull you from your own goals, guilt you in to putting yourself last in every situation, only to move on when you finally put your foot down and demand something for yourself.

The only ltr I'd ever consider again is with that unicorn type that so many of us would love to find: submissive, traditional, housewife material. And probably have to stay in their country instead of bringing them here to this fucking cultural cesspool that the US has turned in to.

I think you misread me a little, my point was just that having sex for the sick of it gets old very, very quick. When it comes to life and women, I'd rather do these two things:

1) Be 90% focused on my own life, my own career, my own goals, and my friends/family. Be mostly self-sustaining how you enjoy your own life.

2) Actually date girls instead of going straight for the kill. My usual modus operandi was the "zero date bang" where I'd invite them straight over, smoke some weed, and try to smash. This works to an extent, but is both crude and doesn't filter for personality at all. This Friday, though, I took a girl out to a bar, had a real conversation, and made out with her afterward. That was honestly more enjoyable to me than many of my "zero date bangs".

I don't think you need to leave the USA or do anything like that. The whole "western women are broken" is honestly bullshit, taking the behaviors of inebriated club rats and extrapolating that to all women is stupid. There are plenty of cool, attractive women in my neck of the woods, and I'm in a suburb that isn't even good for game.

Game is meant to help you enjoy another person's company and leave them emotionally and sexually satisfied. If you use it as a way to fast track yourself into soulless casual sex with no connection, you're really just playing yourself.

Post: #39

The reason men have a midlife crisis is b/c their soul is crying out for them to wake up. Once their main needs are taken care there is only so long they can continue distracting themselves with things that are mere stimulation of the senses, or a temporary emotional stimulation. Some people have this existential crisis at an earlier point in their life.

Perhaps this dissatisfaction is a wake up call from your soul calling for a deeper exploration, and then integration, of spirituality in your life?