Post: #26

(04-22-2019 08:30 PM)tremont Wrote:  

(04-22-2019 06:55 PM)Alpone Wrote:  Her attraction is fading because you're acting like a needy bitch. I'd say you literally need to bang out other women to save this marriage. You need to treat your wife like a plate and go find other plates.

I can't argue with this. The more I think about it, banging some other chicks seems like the only way to kill my neediness and get my mojo back.

I need to get out of this horrible mindset fast, and I don't know any other way to do it.

Not necessarily - some time alone can also be used to kill your neediness.

Being needy means that you require your life to be full of social connections, excitment (chasing new women), perhaps even drama (starting arguments).

If you are like me - you need to be more comfortable with being by yourself, not having anything going on, relaxing at home doing nothing or something simple like watching a movie, going for walks, reading a book.

I took a 6-9 months off after my big breakup and it was very helpful. I came face to face with that feeling of being by myself and could quesiton why there was discomfort with it.

12 months later I am back on the horse now but still thing I need another 6 months before anything serious.

Post: #27

If you can become happy and content with being alone, then when are together again (either her or someone new) you can handle the alone times easier (e.g. the personal space times, her going home for a holiday, etc).