Post: #26

In China, there's a lot of Gym milfs and they're THIRSTY.

I was talking to a trainer at the gym while his student was standing around. In front of her own trainer she looked me up and down and said in hilarious Chinglish "wow I'd like to learn training from you sometime."

The trainer didn't speak English so it didn't matter, but it was painfully obvious and telegraphed.

Honestly, with older chicks I think the key is to be aggressive. A lot of them don't feel very attractive after a certain point so if you turn up the heat they tend to reciprocate.

Post: #27

As a long time cub, the key is to make them feel young, sexy and actually wanted. At least 3/4s of my lays were 5 years or so older than me and those three things have always made me score. MILFs of color are easier especially when it comes to urban places since they will want that mentality of mounting a white guy.

Post: #28

As I'm in my mid-30s now and about the same age as what most people consider a MILF, the appeal of MILFs has diminished for me. A lot of 35 year old women already have kids for instance.

A MILF is just a mother. A 20 year old woman with a toddler is a MILF if she's attractive, but she wouldn't fit the association with a MILF. A 40 year old attractive, childless woman is not a MILF, though she would fit the classical definition of MILF.

There is something to be said for going for an 30-40 something MILF when you are 18-mid 20s just for the experience of it, but even at that age, the focus should be more on women close to your own age. Once I got to 25 and there was a substantial base of younger women, I lost interest in the MILF/Cougar type.

I also do not like hearing about child related excuses possibly interfering with a bang, so even dealing with that from a 20-25 year old with kids annoys me. I generally prefer childless women of all ages. Childlessness is near an all time high, so it's not tremendous difficult to find a childless woman 30+ in an urban area if that's what you are into. I want them as young as possible now, but I'm open to a 30+ something woman as long as I'm older.

Post: #29

While I do prefer older woman in my previous post. I know first hand that gaming MILFs and older women is something that will not age well and your game with women your age will suffer. That has been my biggest hurdle for love. I already can't connect with the millennials but the fact they have different ways to game really is what made me stagnate, especially since most MILFs while can be any age really, most of them are in their 30s and 40s and there's a huge overlap with cougars that you will be losing your touch as you age.