Post: #1

Hey forum,

How would you handle an apology from a girl in an alpha way?

The situation is that I have been sort of seeing this girl since March this year but have not seen her since June because I went to college (military school). We talked over the summer and I told her that I don't expect her to be loyal to me (she doesn't expect me to be loyal either). Still, right before I went to military school she sent a me a long message saying how she misses me, she loves me, and she will stay loyal to me until I tell her not to be. (I have never said I love you to her by the way).

What happened was that I talked her when she was online, but she didn't reply (I waited 10 minutes). This has happened before, but normally I just didn't mention anything and ignored her for a desired amount of days (which usually gets her hamster spinning*). This time I got tired of it and let her know my displeasure.

I'm not sure how to "forgive" her tomorrow. I could just say I was angry, I'm not now, I'll forgive you, don't do it again (I haven't completely figured it out yet). But I'm sure there has to be a better way. I don't want to make a huge deal about it which would not reflect on me well.

Here's the exchange (on Facebook

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Oct 10 2011

6 hours ago - Me

Still curious?
This is unacceptable.

6 hours ago - Her
sorry someone came to my room and i had to leave
im keep giving u reasons to punish me today, i will have to make up for it soon

4 hours ago - Her
are you angry with me? if so i am very sorry, i will indeed find a way to make it up to you, quite quickly too

2 hours ago - Her
talking about me trying to not get womanly, it can be very hard to do at times
oh well, before i let my brain assume stuff, i will tell you i love you and goodnight, hope you have a great day tomorrow and sweet dreams, i hope to send your mail tomorrow afterschool
take care xx

about an hour ago - Her
i dont like giving excuses in normal, but i felt the need to point out, it was a peer support moment where i didnt have time to write it out to you, i had quite a hard night tonight, and im not looking for peer support from you, but i just felt the need to write to u i am not feeling my best and i did not intentionally ignore you
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Okay I admit this isn't a real big deal, but I'm curious about what you guys would say anyway (esp. Mixx, Roosh, GMac, Samseau, Athlone, Kona, Tuthmosis, Tenderman).

Wald

Edit: Change format so the post is easier to read.

*The conversation was getting boring so I didn't talk to her for a week. She not only thought I was mad at her but seeing other girls on the side.

Post: #2

(10-10-2011 07:30 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:  Hey forum,

How would you handle an apology from a girl in an alpha way?

The situation is that I have been sort of seeing this girl since March this year but have not seen her since June because I went to college (military school). We talked over the summer and I told her that I don't expect her to be loyal to me (she doesn't expect me to be loyal either). Still, right before I went to military school she sent a me a long message saying how she misses me, she loves me, and she will stay loyal to me until I tell her not to be. (I have never said I love you to her by the way).

What happened was that I talked her when she was online, but she didn't reply (I waited 10 minutes). This has happened before, but normally I just didn't mention anything and ignored her for a desired amount of days (which usually gets her hamster spinning*). This time I got tired of it and let her know my displeasure.

I'm not sure how to "forgive" her tomorrow. I could just say I was angry, I'm not now, I'll forgive you, don't do it again (I haven't completely figured it out yet). But I'm sure there has to be a better way. I don't want to make a huge deal about it which would not reflect on me well.

Here's the exchange (on Facebook

____________________________________________________
Oct 10 2011

6 hours ago - Me

Still curious?
This is unacceptable.

6 hours ago - Her
sorry someone came to my room and i had to leave
im keep giving u reasons to punish me today, i will have to make up for it soon

4 hours ago - Her
are you angry with me? if so i am very sorry, i will indeed find a way to make it up to you, quite quickly too

2 hours ago - Her
talking about me trying to not get womanly, it can be very hard to do at times
oh well, before i let my brain assume stuff, i will tell you i love you and goodnight, hope you have a great day tomorrow and sweet dreams, i hope to send your mail tomorrow afterschool
take care xx

about an hour ago - Her
i dont like giving excuses in normal, but i felt the need to point out, it was a peer support moment where i didnt have time to write it out to you, i had quite a hard night tonight, and im not looking for peer support from you, but i just felt the need to write to u i am not feeling my best and i did not intentionally ignore you
_____________________________________________________

Okay I admit this isn't a real big deal, but I'm curious about what you guys would say anyway (esp. Mixx, Roosh, GMac, Samseau, Athlone, Kona, Tuthmosis, Tenderman).

Wald

Edit: Change format so the post is easier to read.

*The conversation was getting boring so I didn't talk to her for a week. She not only thought I was mad at her but seeing other girls on the side.

"Don't be so dramatic".

I find this line has given me quite the edge in various situations.