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https://torontosun.com/news/local-news/m...er-patient



Men have no monopoly on being predatory sexual abusers with no conscience.

Within days of telling her patient the “life-altering” news that he had cancer, Dr. Theepa Sundaralingam was flirting, sexting and eventually having sex with him, in his home, her clinic and even his hospital bed.

And then at his most vulnerable, the oncologist told him she was in love with someone else. Sundaralingam dumped him and refused to see him.

“I was physically emaciated and emotionally exposed and the loss of a critical relationship defeated me,” he explained in his victim impact statement to the College of Physicians and Surgeons (CPSO) Wednesday. “What compounded this toll was her refusal to continue providing medical care at the same time.”

Now this slip of a woman with a tissue crushed in her hand pleads no contest before the disciplinary panel.

“Your actions are abhorrent and reprehensible,” Sundaralingam is told. “You crossed boundaries and ultimately sexually abused an extremely vulnerable patient suffering from a life-threatening illness.”

As they strip her of her medical licence, the 37-year-old betrays no emotion at all.

The patient — his name and age protected by a publication ban — was referred to Sundaralingam from the emergency room. The oncologist ordered bone marrow testing and delivered the bad news at his follow-up appointment: He had cancer.

The patient — his name and age protected by a publication ban — was referred to Sundaralingam from the emergency room. The oncologist ordered bone marrow testing and delivered the bad news at his follow-up appointment: He hThe next day, Sundaralingam gave him her personal contact information and Instagram ID. They began exchanging flirtatious messages and a few days later, met at the coffee shop outside her clinic. “Sundaralingam continued to breach appropriate boundaries with Patient A including by … holding hands with Patient A, hugging Patient A for long periods of time and kissing Patient A,” CPSO prosecutor Amy Block said, reading from the uncontested statement of facts.

“At the time, I was unable to see the ramifications of dating my treating oncologist,” the patient wrote in his victim impact statement. “I couldn’t see how vulnerable I was and how much power she had over me.”

She treated him 23 times between January and July 2015 and once in March 2016.

In March 2015, he was admitted to hospital for chemotherapy and Sundaralingam would visit for five to seven hours. “His entire family got to know her,” the prosecutor said. “During these visits, the discussions between Dr. Sundaralingam and Patient A became more sexually explicit, including discussions about the pornography they enjoy.”

During one visit, she crawled into bed with him where they “engaged in mutual sexual touching.”

After his release, she continued to treat him at her clinic where “Sundaralingam behaved in a physical, flirty and sexual manner toward Patient A.” She also came to the home he shared with his parents and spent hours with him in his bedroom.ad cancer.

In July 2015, when Patient A was admitted for a bone marrow transplant, Sundaralingam would sleep over. “They had sexual intercourse on two occasions while he was an inpatient,” Block said.

“This was not an isolated incident or momentary lapse of judgment, ” the disciplinary panel ruled. Sundaralingam knew sex with a patient is considered sexual abuse and carries a mandatory licence revocation. She repeatedly asked Patient A to delete their texts and keep their relationship a secret. She also asked him to scratch out her name on the hospital’s visitor log.

At the end of September 2015, Sundaralingam had intercourse with him one final time. Shen then told him she was in love with a colleague with whom she was having an affair.

And just like that, it was over. But not for him.

“It’s difficult for me to talk to anybody about it,” he wrote. “For me to say, ‘Hey, I dated my oncologist,’ I wouldn’t be a surprise for someone to say, ‘Cool.’ But that’s not cool. That’s not the case because I feel abused, and it’s very difficult as a male to come out and say that about a female. It’s usually the other way around.”

He will survive, he vowed. “Just as I fought through my cancer, I am fighting through this traumatic experience.”

As a physician, Sundaralingam had pledged to do no harm. What in the world was she thinking? All those years of study and training — a medical degree and oncology fellowship at UofT, finally hanging her shingle at a Toronto hospital in 2012 — and just over six years later, her career is over.

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Would perform a thorough examination of her with my sterile instrument.

Look at the crazy eyes though. She must have sucked his soul out through her pussy.

Post: #3

Yes I know it's a breach of professional ethics, and those codes are in place for a reason. But if I were a bed ridden patient, I'd be pretty happy about a passably attractive doctor climbing on to of my dick during her rounds. I can kind of understand that as a cancer patient he was in a vulnerable situation. But he should just be thankful to get some pussy at a time when pussy would be very scarce for most people.

Post: #4

It sounds more like this dude is using his cancer as a way to get people to take him whining about being dumped seriously.

Post: #5

When it says she broke it off and refused to see him, does that mean she refused to see him as a patient as well as romantically? If so, that's terrible.

also, lol @ the comments: https://www.ratemds.com/doctor-ratings/3...to-ON.html

Post: #6

Cancer game recognized. The story would of been better if he died at orgasm and we could of said "At least he went out with a bang".



That joke was so bad I had to roll my eyes at myself.

Post: #7

Quote:Within days of telling her patient the “life-altering” news that he had cancer, Dr. Theepa Sundaralingam was flirting, sexting and eventually having sex with him, in his home, her clinic and even his hospital bed.

That right there is a clear example of journalistic obsfucation in order to make the story more sensational. They have listed three actions - flirting, sexting and having sex, then three locations - home, her clinic and hospitable bed. Casually reading this leads you to believe she did all three things in all three locations, most shockingly that she had sex with him on his hospital bed. Perhaps I'm wrong, but is it really likely that they had sex in the hospital? I doubt it. Sexting and flirting, sure. But it's highly unlikely the sex occurred on a hospital bed in a ward with people coming and going... And the fact that a hospitalised cancer patient wouldn't be physically inclined for sex. The sex clearly occurred in his home, and maybe in her clinic. But that would sound quite as shocking would it?

Edit : Didn't read properly. They did bang in the hospital. Cancer game recognised.

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(01-24-2019 01:48 PM)Rakers Wrote:  In March 2015, he was admitted to hospital for chemotherapy and Sundaralingam would visit for five to seven hours. “His entire family got to know her,” the prosecutor said. “During these visits, the discussions between Dr. Sundaralingam and Patient A became more sexually explicit, including discussions about the pornography they enjoy.”

During one visit, she crawled into bed with him where they “engaged in mutual sexual touching.”

“It’s difficult for me to talk to anybody about it,” he wrote. “For me to say, ‘Hey, I dated my oncologist,’ I wouldn’t be a surprise for someone to say, ‘Cool.’ But that’s not cool. That’s not the case because I feel abused, and it’s very difficult as a male to come out and say that about a female. It’s usually the other way around.”

He will survive, he vowed. “Just as I fought through my cancer, I am fighting through this traumatic experience.”

WB this Indian Chick. On a serious note, how is this traumatic for him when the sexual favors were mutual ? Is this guy a hidden Beta with an inferiority complex ?

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(01-24-2019 02:18 PM)SaintLaurentJake Wrote:  WB this Indian Chick. On a serious note, how is this traumatic for him when the sexual favors were mutual ? Is this guy a hidden Beta with an inferiority complex ?

I think he dropped game, seduced her, banged, and is now looking for the lawsuit payout. If so...

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Knowing what I know about the average irt, I assumed it was a male Indian doc doing the deed after reading the title

edit, WB and would probably get her to lose her medical license afterwards. Fuck her.

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(01-24-2019 01:48 PM)Rakers Wrote:  In July 2015, when Patient A was admitted for a bone marrow transplant, Sundaralingam would sleep over. “

Accurate

Post: #12

To have sex with a good-looking female doctor is a classic men sexual fantasy. The same with women sexual fantasy.

But it seems to be illegal in some countries.

For me, the guy is a bastard to snitch the horny female doctor. Most of people overplaying the victim card and the legal systems are bastards.

Post: #13

Hate to be the contrarian-but this bitch is a fucking horrible person and a stain on the medical profession.

1) You do not start fucking a person with a possibly fatal malignancy when you are the oncologist treating them.
2) What kind of BPD bitch starts fucking their patient (who they are treating for CANCER), then fucking dumps him- That is terrible for his health. To take a man already suffering from cancer, and remove a significant relationship from his life, by way of brutal rejection in favor of another man-that is heartless. Jesus, this is even worse because she is a medical professional and well aware of the consequences of her actions on his physical well being-she is disgusting.
3)She was acutely aware of what she was doing , and how it was wrong-she did it anyway-and took steps to cover her wrongdoing. She is 37, she is too old for this behavior.

I pray this patient recovers and I am happy this medical sexual predator is no longer a danger to the public. If you are going to be a psycho cunt and take sexual/emotional advantage of vulnerable patients under your care , at least have the decency (if that is possible in your evil BDP addled mind) to not dump them during treatment. This lady is a dick, and she fucked her patient royally.

WB

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(01-24-2019 02:46 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  Hate to be the contrarian-but this bitch is a fucking horrible person and a stain on the medical profession...

WB

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(01-24-2019 02:46 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  This lady is a dick, and she fucked her patient royally.

She sure did.

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Her name, Sundaralingam, means "beautiful penis" in sanskrit, guess she must be genetically addicted to dick...

Post: #17

Lol why would you snitch her out...? She did you a favour!

Post: #18

(01-24-2019 05:35 PM)Screemingdead Wrote:  Lol why would you snitch her out...? She did you a favour!

It's not clear becaues of the patient's name and age being protected, but seeing as it was bone marrow testing that revealed his cancer - suggesting leukemia, and that the lived at home with his parents, the patient might not have been much outside of being a minor at the time.

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(01-24-2019 05:35 PM)Screemingdead Wrote:  Lol why would you snitch her out...? She did you a favour!

Uh no, you don’t do shit like that to a cancer patient. You ever been around a not elderly person who gets cancer? They go a little crazy because the stress and fear is unrelenting and overwhelming. Some even develop PTSD. They divide their lives into the period before cancer, and the one after. You think she did him a favor by treating him, then fucking him, and finally dumping him and refusing to provide further treatment?

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Atlanta Man is 100% correct and the medical board saw it the exact same way. Patients are always in a vulnerable position relative to the treating doctor and getting involved romantically with a patient can seriously compromise both the doctor's treatment and the patient's emotional and physical well being. Even treating family members is generally advised against for some of these very same reasons. Really not sure what was going through this doc's head but having sex with him in his hospital room? She fully deserved to lose her licence, it's pretty cut and dry. When I treat patients, I'm as beta and non-sexual as I can possibly be. I've had plenty of situations where I could have asked out some of my nicer looking female patients, where I was getting IOIs galore but it is not worth it at all. This chick should have known better.

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Lol when I examine young, female patients....

Female chaperone is mandatory .

Well, I make sure it is.

TDK

Post: #22

It was good up until the point where she dumped him. She could have at least waited until he died. Seems like she may be one of those psycho women who likes finding vulnerable guys and building them up so that she can break them down as soon as they become comfortable and feed off their sadness. WB before reporting to the board.

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(01-24-2019 02:46 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  This lady is a dick, and she fucked her patient royally.

Fun fact: her last name contains the words "sundara" (सुन्दर) and "lingam" (लिङ्गम्) which mean "beautiful" and "phallus/penis" in Sanskrit.

Her last name is literally "Beautiful Dick."


Edit: Dammit, 911 beat me to it.

Post: #24

^^^
There was a Sri Lankan with the last name Panchalingam in my university. It means five dicks. I never did ask her if she was into gang bangs...

Post: #25

This is the story of the year.

A female professional in a relationship who found someone else actually broke up with a man she was fucking when there was virtually no possibility the two men would find out about each other.