Post: #1

Hello guys, I really need some advice on this. I took a girl to prom a week ago, but in the nervousness of the moment, I had no game, and all of prom night our interatcion was quite. We danced a lot, but we hardly talked at all. We are both in High School, I always see this girl, but since prom, she does not even say hi to me, probably because of the lack of chemistry on prom night. She used to have a crush on me, I doubt she does anymore. Can I do anything to make her attracted to me again? Any more advice on High School game?

PS: I'm a junior, she is a sophomore

Post: #2

does she make eye contact? give some more info on the current state of things between you two.

Post: #3

good old days... you should cherish them.

Post: #4

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Hello guys, I really need some advice on this. I took a girl to prom a week ago, but in the nervousness of the moment, I had no game, and all of prom night our interatcion was quite. We danced a lot, but we hardly talked at all. We are both in High School, I always see this girl, but since prom, she does not even say hi to me, probably because of the lack of chemistry on prom night. She used to have a crush on me, I doubt she does anymore. Can I do anything to make her attracted to me again? Any more advice on High School game?

PS: I'm a junior, she is a sophomore

Additional Info- makes eye contact, but not every time. She is usually quite unless you have gained her trust. Also, yesterday I was hottubbing with some friends in a random hotel and she showed up. She didn't say anything to me or the rest of the people in the hottub except for her three girl friends that were there. I didn't say anything to her that night, and we left our separate ways.

Post: #5

More Info:

Oops, I should mention she didn't go into the hottub, she didn't have her bathing suit, her friends happened to be there with me and a bunch of other people. She sat right behind me in a chaif, but neither she nor I spoke a word to each other. I was pretty quite in the hottub, probably not a good thing. She and her friends left about half an hour after she arrived, and me and my group left at the same time.

Pretty shitty

Post: #6

It probably feels weird talking to her after ignoring each other for a while, but some time you just have to do it. This is a part of becoming a man. You have to take the initiative, and you'll find that girls like that. You've already been to prom with each other so you know there is a level of interest, now you just have to push further and flirt a bit more.

Good luck, although you probably won't need it

Post: #7

Maybe she is dying thinking what the hell is this guy's game is? It's difficult for both guys and girls to begin flirting and getting into relationships at first, so chances are both of you are trying to figure out what to do. Find courage and confidence to approach her and ask her out, be calm and cool and offer her to go on a date with you. Behave like a man and she'll appreciate it.

P.S. I was quiet around girls too when I was in high school, made me feel stupid. I overcame that by dancing with a girl and kissing her at one of the parties, I just went for it without thinking of consequences. I'm not saying that this is what you need to do - there are many ways to overcome that initial barrier as long as you realize that there is really nothing to fear. It'll come to you sooner than you know it.

Post: #8

cool, any more opinions on what I should do?

Post: #9

Most likely she's not attracted to because of something she learned about you that night. By not talking to you that's her way of trying not to lead you on anymore because she doesn't feel like dealing with the aggravation.

Or.

We can live in the minds of our fantasy world and say she's harboring deeply rooted emotions but can't bring herself to do anything about it. (pfft)

Once a chick falls out of love she ain't never going back. Once a chick loses the attraction pretty much nothing can get that back. You want to know what's up just walk up to her and say sternly "I won't think any differently of you." and walk away.

She'll either stop you on the spot or call you a couple of days later.

Post: #10

man just enjoy being in school whether it be h/s or university while you can. Im not going to lie, its 100X easier to meet women while in school. I know sometimes its a pain in the ass as its a huge drama/popularity pit but one day you'll look back and wish you could go back and do it again so make the most of it while you can. Too impress high school chicks it doesnt take much...keep your appearance half-decent looking (shaving,nice clothes),workout,have a part-time job, act mature,and drive around your mom's car. Also, access to a fake-ID or somebody who can buy you booze helps out too lol. Put all that together and you will have NO problem having success with women in high school. After that women start to expect a whole lot more and you either need to be a mixture of successful and/or a good bullshitter.

Post: #11

(06-02-2009 12:43 PM)KCT0673 Wrote:  man just enjoy being in school whether it be h/s or university while you can. Im not going to lie, its 100X easier to meet women while in school. I know sometimes its a pain in the ass as its a huge drama/popularity pit but one day you'll look back and wish you could go back and do it again so make the most of it while you can. Too impress high school chicks it doesnt take much...keep your appearance half-decent looking (shaving,nice clothes),workout,have a part-time job, act mature,and drive around your mom's car. Also, access to a fake-ID or somebody who can buy you booze helps out too lol. Put all that together and you will have NO problem having success with women in high school. After that women start to expect a whole lot more and you either need to be a mixture of successful and/or a good bullshitter.

Word. Miss those times. I was pretty stupid myself, though.