Post: #1

A woman I've been talking to on the internet for awhile is going to fly out to see me later and i don't really want to use the place I'm living at the moment. So, I want to get an Airbnb while she's here.

Now, I mentioned to her that she could stay with me in an apartment I'm getting. She was very receptive to the idea. I'm pretty sure she likes me since she's doing this but I feel like I have to ease into this by giving her a little room first. On the other hand, I'm worried I'm significantly lowering my chances of getting somewhere if we have separate rooms.

What would you guys advise?

Post: #2

Think of your intended outcome and backwards engineer it.

eg: You want to have sex with her

Can you have sex with her if you are in 2 different beds?

Can you have sex with her if you sleep in separate rooms?


As Chateau Heartiste says better to err on the side of boldness whenever you are unsure.


PS Women who are genuinely not interested in fucking someone, don't voluntarily end up in his bedroom.

Post: #3

FFS man.

Get the 1 bedroom, or even better a studio.

Post: #4

Imagine the life you want to live in and go and do it....

Don't ask us what you should do.

That's the only way you are going to enjoy the ride long term.

Post: #5

^ Co-signed.

What do you want? Do that and make everyone else accept it or move on. Personally, I"d get a one-bedder. You shouldn't be apologetic about wanting to fuck. I don't like beating around the bush. If she's staying with me, we're fucking. If she doesn't want to fuck she's not staying with me.

Post: #6

ONE BIG BED BABY

Post: #7

Ok guys. Thanks for helping me come to a decision. We'll see what happens

Post: #8