Post: #1

What do you guys think is the best way to deal with being targeted for you player lifestyle. A lot of people don't get it and demonize it.

Trying to explain myself often leads to frustration so seems the best option is just to ignore and gas them of air. Most people are so self-absorbed and attention seeking that they will forget to target you if you don't give anything to work with for 24 hours to a week.

Sometimes I'll hit on the wrong girl or whatever. Then a friend or family member who hasn't met me and doesn't know the full story send me nasty instagram messages. It's a bit alarming since I don't intend to harm anyone but when you're working insane volume like I do it's easy to be misunderstood.

The kinda drama the Roosh and RSD Julien dealt with for example. Would rather not have that in my life. Seems that Roosh sort of relish's in it though and could possibly enjoy it a tad?

Comes with the territory I guess but it just hits too below the belt when people try to come after your wage, venues you frequent, banning you from dating apps (I've had all of these happen). I actually am socially intelligent though and probably top 0.1% sex life so what I do works.

Tim Ferriss Scam! Practical Tactics for Dealing with Haters is a good article about this.

Post: #2

If you are getting banned from dating apps and people are sending you nasty instagram messages your game stye is probably on the aggressive side. You probably get your results and success because of this tenacity and persistence but it probably offends some people.

Ive NEVER had those kinds of problems

Post: #3

Except for some Eastern European women I never had anyone ask for IG. Is it really a thing? Or how do they find yours?


But also remember some guys in the industry make their livelihood off negative publicity. Who knows if it is 100% truth but David Bond bragged about Asian media giving him free advertising (negative publicity) which caused a surge of subscribers and donations.

Post: #4

I've had to deal with being banned off dating apps because of an ex fuck buddy and her friends would report spam my account within days or hours of me making a new profile.
I just had to get better at cold approaching and day game in general.
I never looked back.
Online dating apps is weakening for your game.

Post: #5

(11-20-2018 10:10 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  I've had to deal with being banned off dating apps because of an ex fuck buddy and her friends would report spam my account within days or hours of me making a new profile.
I just had to get better at cold approaching and day game in general.
I never looked back.
Online dating apps is weakening for your game.

yeah dude. I feel like this is exactly what happening to me. Something along these lines. how did you find out it was an ex fuck buddy? Might not necessarily be a fuck buddy but maybe just a girl who doesn't like me.

Post: #6

I don't use dating apps or any online apps, period! Just go out there and cold approach.

Post: #7

Or you could find a Time Machine and become a Time Hater...

Post: #8

(01-25-2019 01:26 AM)jacknap Wrote:  

(11-20-2018 10:10 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  I've had to deal with being banned off dating apps because of an ex fuck buddy and her friends would report spam my account within days or hours of me making a new profile.
I just had to get better at cold approaching and day game in general.
I never looked back.
Online dating apps is weakening for your game.

yeah dude. I feel like this is exactly what happening to me. Something along these lines. how did you find out it was an ex fuck buddy? Might not necessarily be a fuck buddy but maybe just a girl who doesn't like me.

A few years later i ran into her and she outright told me she did and was very very bitter about me ending the fwb.
She wanted a relationship and i didn't.

I was kinda pissed at the time but i learned from it and adapted.