Post: #1

That’s right.
I’ve arrived at the ripe old age of 36 and only now have I discovered that there is a pussy El Dorado virtually in every corner of the world that isn’t America.

Colombia, Slovenia, the Philippines, Montreal...

I’m just sad that I am starting late in life.

Still feel great and fuck like a champ. And I just had a hair transplant lol.

But still....

I hope to be one of those badass 60 year old “most interesting man in the world” types instead of a creep old arsehole!

Post: #2

you can do it man! it is all mindset make sure you look good and physically are attractive anyone can just lift weights eat healthy then also focus on the women ask open ended questions get her to connect with you child hood dreams, what brings her here, what is her dream vacation? close with her family, what did she do growing up sports, her passions, and take action, DON't Care what people think i only really approach women now if i have some sort of clue, eye contact something in day at night I will hang by the bar and if a women orders a drink or something I will look for a tattoo and or necklace and just say I like that tattoo or necklace my name whats yours then see the response, age doesnt matter it may to some women if your around college bars but other than that your good! as far as cities are concerned they are definitely easier than america I will say that colombia is a good one!

Post: #3

ha! thanks bro.
I don't have a problem getting laid- I just regret that it has taken me so long to realize that pussy-minded traveling is so much fun and that staying in New York City going through countless lame online dates is a waste of time

maybe I'll even fall in love with someone during my escapades, who knows. definitely won't leave that card off the table.

I'm in good shape. 6ft and 185lbs. Gonna start doing Cross Fit in 2 weeks to put some muscle on.

I just wonder how many more years I have before I go from "hot single guy who doesn't wanna settle down" to "sad sack who girls feel sorry for"

(10-20-2018 10:51 AM)FLGuy1988 Wrote:  you can do it man! it is all mindset make sure you look good and physically are attractive anyone can just lift weights eat healthy then also focus on the women ask open ended questions get her to connect with you child hood dreams, what brings her here, what is her dream vacation? close with her family, what did she do growing up sports, her passions, and take action, DON't Care what people think i only really approach women now if i have some sort of clue, eye contact something in day at night I will hang by the bar and if a women orders a drink or something I will look for a tattoo and or necklace and just say I like that tattoo or necklace my name whats yours then see the response, age doesnt matter it may to some women if your around college bars but other than that your good! as far as cities are concerned they are definitely easier than america I will say that colombia is a good one!

Post: #4

Eh don't sweat it. I'm in the same boat having discovered "travel game" in my early 30s (now in my mid-30s). I really regret not having done more of this sooner, and frankly I'm quite envious of the youngins on this board who in their early 20s have access to this vast wealth of information. Lookin back I can't imagine the damage I might've done had I gotten out sooner... but oh well, better late than never I guess!

I do look years younger which I guess is an advantage, and have been able even here in the US to date girls in their early-mid 20s so there's that...

There's quite a few members here in their 30s and even 40s though, and most PUAs if you haven't noticed tend to be in their 30s (or at least, late 20s and up).

A word of advice: if you haven't already, definitely pick up a foreign language or two. Spanish/Portuguese if you plan to spend more time in LatAm, Russian if you're keen on repeated trips to EE, etc. Sure you can get talent online but as you've no doubt already noticed in your travels, the real quality will become much more accessible once you speak the local language, know the culture, have some local friends etc. And get workin on setting something up that gives you greater location independence.

Post: #5

What do you think you'd be doing now if you discovered this in your 20s?

Post: #6

^ not sure if you're addressing that to me but if you are:

1) Travel much more extensively to try and find your niche (or at least, the place you like the most overall - for living, women, etc)
2) Learn a foreign language or two
3) Work like hell to become location independent if possible

Depending on your situation, 1) and 3) might be difficult and/or even impossible, but 2) is certainly doable and will have big pay offs

Post: #7

If you’re reading older threads/blogs from 2014 or earlier, know that things have changed considerably in the past four years.

Post: #8

(10-20-2018 01:06 PM)OnlySightseeing Wrote:  If you’re reading older threads/blogs from 2014 or earlier, know that things have changed considerably in the past four years.

Such as?

Post: #9

Post: #10

OP. Don’t worry about it. I’m in my mid 30s as well. Have I discovered this forum a decade ago, I would have made decisions (consciously or subconciously) that prioritized travel and pU$$y over career and finances. The aforementioned could be done, but it’s not for everyone. Not knowing the forum didn’t stop me from gaming when I was younger. And I believe my past experience and current finances (due to working my butt off when I was younger) just makes my new experiences now more enjoyable and natural because I don’t operate based on the so called PUA teachings etc. but rather from what I learned through a lot of trials and errors when I was younger. Now if I discovered this forum in my late 40s then it would have been a different story, but then you just play the cards that you’ve been dealt and make the most out of it. Just stay within reasonable fitness level. Try to look as young as you can. Don’t be too serious. Smile. Have positive thoughts. These so called p*ssy paradise are not really that easy nowadays anyway. But you can still create your own path if you’re willing to take a chance. Enjoy and safe travels.

Post: #11

So you’re saying we still have a chance?

Post: #12

Not only that we still have a chance. This is your best chance. In fact, I just finished banging a 21 year old student in between this and my last post. I wrote my last reply while waiting for her and hit the “Post Reply” button when she arrived and while we were going up the elevator. And now she’s taking a shower while I’m in bed. She was a bit too excited so I had to ask her not to bite me etc. Gotta be fresh and with no marks as I still have an evening date with a 22 year old and possibly a late afternoon quick meet up with a 19 year old if I could squeeze it in my schedule. Young girls love older guys like us. It’s all in your mind set.

Post: #13

Harry, kudos and welcome. I second the advice to learn a foreign language, in your case Spanish might be a good choice. Take some salsa / bachata classes. Have served me well, and would help you whether you game in SA or EE. Lots of Slavic girls love latin dance and men who have latin style/feel. Same with girls in the US but we know the greener less #metoo pastures are overseas.

I'd suggest caution on cross fit, perhaps starting strength 5x5 or just really take your body health seriously and be careful over taxing it. Lift smart, not hard. Adequate rest and recovery plus quality nutrition (and yes, supplementation) will help you build strength, flexibility, and vitality well into your next phase of life. Biological immortality is a great topic - look it up. Art de Vany has great insights into fitness and diet, especially as we age. I'm early 40s, dye my hair, and feel/look better than I did in my 30s before I committed to all this. Have loved the 20-somethings I've tapped as well!

Post: #14

Thanks fellas.
I speak 4 languages fluently so I’m good on that front... bachata and salsa on the other hand, I’ll need to take some classes
I guess I’m just wondering if it’s time to throw in the towel and be “serious” at this age or whether I should ride the lighting for another 8-10 years (till I’m, say, 45)