Post: #1

How would you respond? (Everything was said in Spanish and is translated)

Was doing some martial arts drills with a friend at our gym. Throwing kicks and punches, blocking and dodging. Chick comes up to my friend to greet him with a kiss on the cheek and as is customary here, I don't even acknowledge her. We continue for two minutes then the dude who works there says we have to stop. I basically ignore him and continue. Chick says you have two minutes to continue then you have to finish.

I smirk, then laugh, then continue nonchalantly. After five min this chick screams the instructor told you to stop in a high pitched banshee style.

I walk right up to her, towering over her and bang hard on the reception table. Looking her in the eye I ask her who the fuck do you think you are? Bitch holds her ground and says *full name* and I'm 37 you pendejo (little shit). And I'm going to call the owner and have them use their right to deny you access.

I was fuming and had to contain myself from kicking her jaw in. But I laughingly said alright Granny, you shouldn't be so Moody, those retirement checks are right around the corner.

The instructor doesn't say a word. Bitch goes off. I interrupt her and ask if she's a lawyer. She says no, that she's a psychologist.

I tell her it makes sense cause she's nuts. That I could diagnose her crazy ass without the DSM V.

She says some more stupid shit and I just turn around and tell my friend that we're going to resume our drill but he's not down to continue.

How do you guys think I handled it? What would you have done differently? Its the first time I've seen this filth at my gym but wouldn't be surprised to see her again, how would you behave in the future?

Post: #2

I don't think she was shit testing you. It sounds like you were being an asshole and she genuinely didn't like you. And she's very possibly a cunt on top of it.

What exactly were you trying to accomplish here, though? Why didn't you just stop when they told you to stop instead of for some reason trying to dominate everyone in the gym?

Post: #3

(07-07-2018 02:11 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  Why didn't you just stop when they told you to stop instead of for some reason trying to dominate everyone in the gym?

If he had stopped, the world would've been deprived of an opportunity where he describes how 'alpha' he'd been.

Post: #4

Wow, you were really an Alpha right there!

Post: #5

Best advice is if you are doing something the management doesn't like you should probably stop.
No need to escalate the situation at all. It could be possible that they have some kinda of rule against practicing martial arts there. Or possibly you got to close to somebody walking by.
Either way your ego got in your own way and made the situation much worse than it needed to be.

Post: #6

Classic newbie mistake.

A pivotal point in game is when you realize not every interaction with a female is a shit test.

Then you realize that shit tests arent even worth your time to engage in.

Post: #7

I didn't stop because I wasn't bothering anyone. Its not the first time ive done martial arts there. I didn't like how this cunt talked to me and I wasn't about to take an order from her.

Post: #8

I wouldn't have given a shit. I just would walk away and left her talking alone.

Whether she wants your attention or she wants to disrespectful you, thus she loses.

Post: #9

Ya but just walking away means I stop my excercise therefore she wins

Post: #10

Adding some excuse/statement:
(Rolling eyes) Oh, Im tired. Stupid people...
Or Environment here today sucks...
That while walking away or changing to another gym's área.

Taking it as discussing with a child.

Chances to demonstrate real alpha behavior will appear in better circunstances.

Post: #11

(07-07-2018 01:51 AM)Balls_Hang_Low Wrote:  How would you respond? (Everything was said in Spanish and is translated)

Was doing some martial arts drills with a friend at our gym. Throwing kicks and punches, blocking and dodging. Chick comes up to my friend to greet him with a kiss on the cheek and as is customary here, I don't even acknowledge her. We continue for two minutes then the dude who works there says we have to stop. I basically ignore him and continue. Chick says you have two minutes to continue then you have to finish.

I smirk, then laugh, then continue nonchalantly. After five min this chick screams the instructor told you to stop in a high pitched banshee style.

I walk right up to her, towering over her and bang hard on the reception table. Looking her in the eye I ask her who the fuck do you think you are?