Post: #26

Don't even bother. Just go to a bar and hang out if you're in the states. I say this as an American. Americans can't dance for shit. You'll just leave dissapointed. Watching Americans dance is as awkward, funny and strange as seeing a monkey fuck a donut.

If you want a dance, go to South America.

Post: #27

(06-07-2018 11:34 AM)kuqezi Wrote:  

(06-07-2018 01:00 AM)Sidney Crosby Wrote:  

(06-06-2018 10:58 PM)Crash_Bandicoot Wrote:  There was grinding back in 2011 - as far as I can remember when I was in college that's all we did. I loved grabbing some fine ass and getting dances without saying a single word.

But now it just doesn't happen.

It doesn't happen anymore because American girls think its "awkward" now and they have Tinder and online dating now so they much more options. It's also just not cool anymore and not socially acceptable.

Every club I've been to in Canada that has "top 40", rap music or whatever, there will be guys grinding on chicks. Maybe not to the extent as it was before but it's still there.

I've noticed that it is pretty uncommon with euros when I've been abroad, they seem to dance by themselves or in a circle of friends...... faggot shit.

I don't visit these types of places anymore but I guarantee you grinding is strong in Boston, NYC and major part of clubs in the east coast.

Sidney Crosby makes a good point there.

@Crash_Bandicoot : I agree it is not mainstream but it's far from dead.

I disagree that grinding is strong in NYC and Boston. I have been living in these areas my entire life.

What clubs in NYC and Boston have grinding? I'll have to check them out.

Post: #28

I assume OP is black and we are probably talking about black clubs. NY has a heavy grinding culture in black clubs but the ones in crown heights/flatbush most of you probably don’t even want to go there, those clubs are grimey as fuck.

Post: #29

In the US, I'd say Atlanta by far. Huge rap culture that permeates throughout the city. If the op is black, both hot white girls and hot black girls love rap in Atlanta and would love redpill black guys who know how to dance

Post: #30

I second the above re: Boston. Was there in November 2015. Went to a ghetto club not far from the bay. Climbed upstairs. I was the only Asian guy there. That didn't prevent me from grinding my way on some phat ass all night despite being skinny and having a white friend as a sidekick/wingman. Grinding is acceptable in some cultures, just make sure you don't overdo it and think that it is a thumbs-up for more.

Post: #31

Another vote for NO.

I've been to my fair share of American Cities. The ones I've actually partied in were LA, San Diego, Vegas, Dallas, Houston, Miami, Atlanta, NYC, DC, Charlotte....

NO easily takes the cake if it comes to dirty dancing and grinding. It was wild down there! It wasn't just black girls either. I was grinding on some hot Indian girls (like Mumbai, India type girls). Juvenile's back dat ass up came on and they were going wild... lmao

I think NO easily is the best city for partying but it's not my favorite city for partying. I can only drink, dance, and eat so much. It seem like that was the only thing to do there so everyone was doing it. Just a big ass party.

NYC has too much to offer. Although girls were partying, it wasn't as extreme. It was more lounge like (DC was too). Las Vegas was more of a party to be seen and hopefully catch a baller's attention type of vibe. Plus girls are there to see shows, eat, gamble, etc. Miami was similar to Vegas without the gambling and seeing shows part. They were there to be seen and meet a baller. Both LV and Mia were great with tons of grinding but the women were not as slutty. Atlanta was cool but kind of the typical thing you'll find in Houston, Charlotte, Dallas. By that I mean girls were approachable. You can dance/grind with them but they aren't as wild.

NO was the only place ppl were buck wild just to be buck wild and party. There's no other reasons that girls are walking around New Orleans but to drink, dance, and grind in clubs. They didn't strike me as the type that was there to be seen or do anything else but get f'd up. With that said, I'd still choose Vegas and Miami personally but that has more to do with my love for gambling and latin culture. I'm not a bad looking guy either and NO's quality is no where near Miami's and not close to Vegas on a good weekend.

Post: #32

miss those days for real! i am in Tampa and miami past few years.. tampa has a good college scene and clubs like DRYNK play hip hop and the girls will dance.. also to a degree Mcdinittons, I also wonder for those who have been to Miami if you found clubs that have this ? I mostly found that the clubs on south beach (people wanted VIP status celebrities) and downtown (wynwood) weren't that good but maybe I went out on the wrong nights and spots... Thanks