Post: #1

I'm struggling a lot with this issue with dating in Asia.

Today, I had a date scheduled at 2 pm and at 6 pm. The girl I scheduled at 2 PM showed up at 4 PM and we had coffee and then she came to my room , i tried to seal the deal , she looked interested but I couldn't seal the deal at that moment. I kept trying and trying ( But probably , I would have sealed the deal a bit later, If we would have gotten some dinner and then watching a movie). But here's the thing , that girl that I had a date with at 6 PM had arrived while that girl from 2 PM was still at my place and kept calling me and messaging like 4 or 5 times and made me nervous and it fucked up my game and I looked a bit lost. Then, I decided to kick out my current girl with an excuse ( I need to still prepare a PowerPoint presentation for tomorrow). Then I meet up with that girl from 6 PM and there was no vibe at all, and she had an annoying character and I ended up with nothing at the end of the day.

How do you guys manage this? I feel dissapointed because I kicked that first girl out ( I quite liked her) and I got now nothing at the end of the day.

The location is Bangkok

Post: #2

< Simple - if the first date runs well, then you postpone the second one to a later time or the next day.

You never know how the next one will go. So next time you take the time for the first - get the bang and worst case lose the second one.

You cannot fuck them all! Focus on fucking the first in line. (Unless the second one was your personal 10 and you were trying to bang a 6).

Post: #3

This was a problem for me too constantly. I have adapted my game and tastes in such a way that I try to game less girls but for hotter quality and stronger leads.

I avoid trying to schedule multiple dates at a day. I'd rather do a 1x 4-6pm date, if she flakes than I'll just do some nightgame and get new leads. That way I don't feel like I lose anything while still being flexible if she ends up "just being late and still wants to meet".

Another solution is to schedule 2 dates but give the other girl away to another PUA wing friend on standby for a test run and say "sorry, company emergency, I gotta go". She'll still want to meet you even after banging your wing. Yep, girls are slutty like that.

Post: #4

If it is going well if with Girl A I would flake on girl B. Tell girl B that something came up and you need to reschedule (girls are the master at this).

Remind yourself what is the outcome.

Had two dates set up last night, girl 1 was luke warm, sensed it was going nowhere. Messaged girl 2 who was down to meet at midnight. One drink later and we were back at mine.

Other times you could get lucky and bang two in one night but all things have to align. Depends how much you want to gamble.

Risk Vs Reward.

Post: #5

First thing - Don't be annoyed. Shit happens.
Second - Congratulate yourself. You learned the hard way that a girl in the hand is worth better than a girl on the tree.

If you can't seal the deal, wait. As long as she is there, it's on the table.
As per the second date - if you are at your place and it's after 17:00, message your next date that you are being delayed and that you'll ping her once you are available.

Post: #6

I don't have time or patience for two dates in a day.

You also learned you can hamstring yourself if a date is going well and leading to the bang.

One date a day rule.

Post: #7

Threesome.

Post: #8

Four hours is a bit tight unless you feel there is a high likelihood that at least of them is going to flake, especially when you are in a part of the world where punctuality is not really a thing. That being said, your phone should have been off while you were with the first girl, and then you should have turned it back on to cancel/postpone with the second girl if it looked like you were about to seal the deal with the first. However, this should not be a big deal, if you have two dates you can have two more tomorrow and your dick won't die in the meantime. Definitely a case where you just shrug and charge it to the game.

Post: #9

I would never have met the 2pm girl. 2 Hrs late? I give you 30min max, if you're a no show, on to the next one. You have to show her that your time is valuable by cancelling after that 30 min window.

Post: #10

The way I look at it, is sometimes I get bored of the same routine. Met girl at x bar, drinks, get em back...etc

So mix it up, plus you are working on your escalation skills, schedule dates within a few hours of each other. See how fast you can push it. You are working against the clock... get 2 bangs in one day... next try for 3 and so forth.