Post: #176

(02-19-2019 01:12 PM)Savonarola Wrote:  Funny thing is, it started when my main girl kept accusing me of cheating on her, even when I hadn't done that. (This occurred while I was faithful to her, for about a year and a half at the beginning.)

After the third time she accused me, I blew my top. I said to her, "You know what? I'm fucking tired of getting accused of cheating that I haven't done. So I'm going to find another woman -- and you're NEVER going to know about it."

My overall attitude was goddamnit, if I'm gonna keep getting accused, at least I should get to enjoy it.

Anyways, she thought I was kidding. I wasn't kidding. A month later, I banged two women while I was on vacation. (One was really gorgeous and she found me on Facebook a year later, so she's still thinking of me too.) A few months after that, I found a beautiful bubble-butt 21-yr-old who lives about 90 miles away, and I started a 7-month affair with her. (That's petered out, but she'll probably boomerang at some point.) I've had a couple more ONS as well.

So to women lurking in this forum: Be careful what you say. If you let your insecurities get the best of you, and if you accuse a faithful man of cheating enough times, you're opening Pandora's Box. Some of us DGAF and if you open that door we absolutely will walk through it.

Funny - this is exactly how I started cheating for the first time in a relationship, too. I was dating a girl who I was in a very happy long term relationship with, but who would accuse me of cheating whenever I was drinking alcohol without her. Whenever I went on a night out with my mates, or went on a weekend away with them, or anything else. And not just casually accuse, but actually get into fights with me over it.

Eventually one night I just figured fuck it, I'm getting all the blame despite not doing this, I might as well give it a try. And its very much like Pringles, once you pop you don't stop.