Post: #26

(04-03-2018 10:20 AM)zoom Wrote:  I can't trust anyone who faked videos.

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Seems like he took down the fake video in question, but he lied about faking it when forum members were calling him out.

Chris would be one of the few where a thing like that actually would be forgivable, in my opinion. Seems like that was most probably faked from my perspective as well even though I never got to see the videos in question but I think you must consider the amount of value he has given to people and young guys.

His articles on screening helped me to a great extent when first starting to figure this shit out. And if I consider all the other value he's given me from his articles, podcast and videos, then he has more than repayed for any hit to his reputation made by creating a faked video (in order to create a bigger audience and money or something).

Sure it's a stupid thing to do but I think he learned his lesson. What it comes down to is that he has put out more value in the world and it would be to nitpick to just focus on that and forget everything else great he has done.

This with being super aggressive and doing the caveman game has worked wonders for me in night clubs and helped my confidence, self-esteem and improved me as a person.

If I try to be objective here, I'd say:

+ Lots of value in terms of making money and banging girls. The screening articles are awesome, bit of a no bullshit approach to game stuff which is easy to relate to if you got a bit of a physique and like to try caveman game in night clubs and he's just a likeable down-to-earth guy.

- Too obsessed with kratom, faked a video, bandanas and flanell shirt and a bit degenerate with this bathmate stuff.

Post: #27

(04-03-2018 08:46 AM)Alpha Wrote:  

(04-03-2018 08:00 AM)PondScum Wrote:  

(04-03-2018 06:45 AM)Alpha Wrote:  

(04-03-2018 02:57 AM)Mr.WHORES Wrote:  Fuck marriage. Playa for life. Kudos to you tho.

Yo so I got married a few years ago and let me tell you: This is the correct answer.

From your blog:

Quote:And “banging sluts” isn’t real purpose.

My wife showed me that. I owe her a debt for showing me that being a real man, being good at being a man, means more than being cocky at a bar and having quips.

Would you care to elaborate, if you haven't already elsewhere?

You juxtaposed these two sentences as though they were at odds, but they aren't.

I elaborate in that post. The entire post is literally an elaboration on that point.

But in short: If your entire goal for your entire life is to "Bang Sluts" you're probably going to feel pretty empty after a while.

I never say that marriage is the answer. I say that purpose is.

I point out that having "game" doesn't make you a man, and that it doesn't always build lasting character. Something that I realized under the scrutiny of marriage.

When you're with someone day in and day out they will see you at low-status, low-value times. They will see weakness, they will watch your failures.

I thought I had everything going on until my wife pointed out that I really didn't. I hope I can point that out to other men before they get wrapped up in a marriage. Encourage some introspection.

I still advise against marriage because, in this day and age, someone seeing you at your weakest is grounds for divorce.

Marriage is not easy, and these days it gets harder as traditions are bucked and conventional expectations are cast off. Add to that fact that marriage will often take a lot of energy away from pursuing a purpose, and it just isn't something I'd recommend.

I'm not against banging sluts, I'm just against making it the be-all, end-all purpose of your life.

I read "playa for life" as "stay single", not "make your life's mission to slam as many hoes as possible."

I really enjoyed this post, very deep insight into the 'reality' of today's problems plaguing men, of which there are many.
The media has brainwashed and indoctrinated us to no understandable end, that hedonism is the true path of joy.

When in truth, yes, degeneracy can be enjoyable - for a while.
However the most deeply felt happiness I have ever experienced was surprisingly NOT while getting a blowjob, a tit job, the first time I pounded a women anally or when experimenting with all varieties of drugs as a young man.

These are simply fleeting moments of enjoyment, sometimes even resulting in long-term regret.

Things that have made a lasting imprint of bliss in my mind:
1) Watching my son win his first wrestling match.
2) Seeing my daughter excel at Shrimping, the Lockdown and the Rear Naked Choke in Kids Brazilian Jiu Jitsu class.
3) When I finally saved up enough money to purchase my first English Bulldog - which I had been wanting my whole life.
4) My Wife breaking the mold, she does all of the cooking and cleaning in our household.
This alone has taken so much stress off my life and I'm pretty sure most women now a days don't know how to make a PB&J sandwich.

However, just like Alpha, in good conscience - I cannot recommend Marriage to today's Single man.
I just don't want to see my brothers getting bent-over by the horribly lopsided legal system.
Too many good bros have committed suicide because of that predicament.

Post: #28

Chris is probably one of the most influential people in my life - in the most positive way possible - even though I have never met him in person. I was close to the perfect candidate to read his advice around 3 years ago since I already was an attractive guy who hung out with cool people but just had problems initiating conversations with, and approaching girls. When I found his site I literally spent an entire day reading through everything there because his perspectives fit be perfectly. I took his advice to heart and worked at the specific drills that his programs included and now I can talk to girls very directly (screen them) in basically any situation (within reason). I also went from a good looking, tall guy with underwhelming sex appeal to upgrading my wardrobe based on his recommendations and wearing an edgy/current style that helps a ton with how girls have responded to me. I've gone out alone in new cities now and been able to have fun and get laid with really hot girls. If not for discovering Chris and GLL then I would not be where I am today. Dude is 100% legit and wish him the best going forward with the next stages of his life.

Post: #29

His transparency, perspective and honesty specifically in body recomposition and sexual health transformed my life 4 years ago and even though I could have still taken the same steps from reading the forum I don't think I would have quite understood the difference aesthetically between being a little chubby but nondescript with clothes on versus getting really fucking lean. It bothered me when I discovered his blog 5 years ago that being good looking mattered that much as I had the idea in my head that it doesn't matter what you look like as long as your game is tight but he snapped me out of it and now a good part of my life is being lived on easy mode after realizing my physical flaws and working on them! And his extensive documentation of his experiments with improving his work in the bedroom are absolute gold and have also helped me get to where I wanted to go in that respect. Hope nothing but the best for him and I hope he lives the life he wants to!