Post: #26

(02-07-2018 07:25 PM)Blancpain Wrote:  I can easily spot potential cheating hoes on social media, one of the biggest tell tale sign is when she has no or only very few pictures of her BF on her profile, while her BF's profile is loaded with her pictures. 90% of the time this is a Beta guy/Sidecock hunting girl combination. Same goes for married couples, if the women has no pictures of her husband on profile while her husband has plenty of her, that means she is hunting for side cock.

Don't take social media too seriously.

Women curate their facebook or instagram profiles as how they present themselves to their social circle. It doesn't necessarily show how the truth of their relationship. The most Alpha guy I know has a totally devoted wife with not 1 picture of him on her facebook, because he values his privacy a lot and hates people taking pictures of him.

If you see the couple together... look at how submissive the wife acts towards the husband. Watch for women that act dominant or independent towards their husbands.

Post: #27

(02-07-2018 04:12 PM)Blancpain Wrote:  The only part I disagree is the asian chicks part. They show no remorse for cheating at all. Nearly all the girls I hooked up with in bangkok from tinder had bfs. None of them showed any remorse whatsoever. The only difference between Asians and Western females is the asian hoe would probably cry when confronted, the western one would attack you and say its your fault that you didnt show her enough attention

Do you realize what an insignificant number of the thai female population is on Tinder, even in the most sexually liberated place in the country, Bangkok? And how obviously and starkly different they are from women you might observe outside of online meat markets and foreigner honeytraps? I can't think of many places in the world where your perception of women would be more skewed by fucking broads from Tinder.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #28

(02-07-2018 08:10 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

(02-07-2018 04:12 PM)Blancpain Wrote:  The only part I disagree is the asian chicks part. They show no remorse for cheating at all. Nearly all the girls I hooked up with in bangkok from tinder had bfs. None of them showed any remorse whatsoever. The only difference between Asians and Western females is the asian hoe would probably cry when confronted, the western one would attack you and say its your fault that you didnt show her enough attention

Do you realize what an insignificant number of the thai female population is on Tinder, even in the most sexually liberated place in the country, Bangkok? I can't think of many places in the world where your perception of women would be more skewed by fucking broads from Tinder.

Not only Tinder though, also Thaifriendly.

Post: #29

^ same thing, man. Thaifriendly is full of whores and gold diggers specifically targeting foreign men. It's also night and day compared to most of Thailand if you hang out past a week and get out of the farang venues.

I'm not hating on you. Countless foreign men make this mistake. But the fact you don't realize how dramatically you're skewing your own perceptions in a place where the dichotomies are really obvious, at least to those who pay attention, says a lot about why your observations are making you negative.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #30

(02-07-2018 08:17 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  ^ same thing, man. Thaifriendly is full of whores and gold diggers specifically targeting foreign men. It's also night and day compared to most of Thailand if you hang out past a week and get out of the farang venues.

I'm not hating on you. Countless foreign men make this mistake. But the fact you don't realize how dramatically you're skewing your own perceptions in a place where the dichotomies are really obvious, at least to those who pay attention, says a lot about why your observations are making you negative.

You are right about my perception being skewed in Asia because I hangout in farang hunter sites, but nearly all farang males who says how sweet asian chicks are they too usually found their partner from one of these sites. Very few put in the effort to learn the local language and penetrate into other circles.

Anyway what you guys are saying makes sense, online game might have fucked up my perception indeed. My notch count from offline game is only 4.

Sorry If I came out uptight acting like a veteran gamer when I clearly am not. Hopefully my perception will change.

Post: #31

If that's what you believe then you haven't met a proper slut. The type that you are out drinking with and she is telling you how she wants to get fucked by a big dick and she hits on every guy and comes right 3+ times a week with a different guy on a regular basis. They have ridiculous hormonal and sexual drives and are sociopaths to an extent where they don't care to pair bond.

You have nothing to gain by viewing women this way, it simply makes you bitter and insecure.

When they behave like sluts, you will just validate your opinions through confirmation bias.

When they don't, you will have cognitive dissonance and pedestalize them, assuming you ain't paranoid 24/7 that they are fucking other guys.

ksbms made a great post. kaotic touched upon it.

Every woman has the potential to be one, it's generally circumstantial and environmental.

You add the right variables and various women become sluttier.

You put them in certain scenarios they become slutty.

You turn them on, they become slutty.

You give them emotional insecurity and their only way of gaining self esteem is via the sexual desirability they feel? They become slutty!

Slutty behaviour =/= slut

I bet you think that all Dobermanns/Pitbulls are aggressive dogs too.

This is one of those things on paper that seem 'cool' and 'useful' but rarely are in practice.

Post: #32

No doubt that a guy is going to have a bad perspective on girls if all his experience is with Tinder girls.

The two themes in the manosphere seem to be bang sluts or find a good girl for marriage and kids. I don't think the transition from banging sluts to relationships with good girls is as quick or easy as guys think. I think most guys will need a transition period where they will have to put effort into meeting different girls in different ways and having some type of relationship with those girls that is more than a one night stand or fuck buddies but maybe not a very serious LTR.

Post: #33

(02-09-2018 03:04 PM)birthday cat Wrote:  The two themes in the manosphere seem to be bang sluts or find a good girl for marriage and kids. I don't think the transition from banging sluts to relationships with good girls is as quick or easy as guys think. I think most guys will need a transition period where they will have to put effort into meeting different girls in different ways and having some type of relationship with those girls that is more than a one night stand or fuck buddies but maybe not a very serious LTR.

I've always liked your writings Birthday Cat.

I can hands down say the transition from banging sluts to finding a "good" girl can be a struggle.

Dudes have hypergamy also, banging so much pussy will do that too you, you're always looking for that next time dime piece to bang or lock down for awhile (until you get bored).

Dating apps don't help, social circle does, especially when it comes to finding decent girls.

This is why outside my guy friends, I don't brag much about my escapades (except a few in my close circle).

I've struggled with this because 1) I typically have a main "GF" and 2) I'm still spinning plates on the side.

Emotionally - I only have "feelings" for the main, while the plates are fun and we just fuck and have fun - occasionally going out to drink.


At this point I don't know if I ever can be faithful to some chick I really like - the goddamn temptation is too easy.

Post: #34

(02-09-2018 04:01 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(02-09-2018 03:04 PM)birthday cat Wrote:  The two themes in the manosphere seem to be bang sluts or find a good girl for marriage and kids. I don't think the transition from banging sluts to relationships with good girls is as quick or easy as guys think. I think most guys will need a transition period where they will have to put effort into meeting different girls in different ways and having some type of relationship with those girls that is more than a one night stand or fuck buddies but maybe not a very serious LTR.

I've always liked your writings Birthday Cat.

I can hands down say the transition from banging sluts to finding a "good" girl can be a struggle.

Dudes have hypergamy also, banging so much pussy will do that too you, you're always looking for that next time dime piece to bang or lock down for awhile (until you get bored).

Dating apps don't help, social circle does, especially when it comes to finding decent girls.

This is why outside my guy friends, I don't brag much about my escapades (except a few in my close circle).

I've struggled with this because 1) I typically have a main "GF" and 2) I'm still spinning plates on the side.

Emotionally - I only have "feelings" for the main, while the plates are fun and we just fuck and have fun - occasionally going out to drink.


At this point I don't know if I ever can be faithful to some chick I really like - the goddamn temptation is too easy.

You are doomed. Welcome the club

yo soy un perro enfermo

Post: #35

I also have difficulty adjusting to "good girls". In the US where I grew up I learned quick that you have to strike while the iron is hot, moving even faster than I'm comfortable at times. (I mean, sometimes I like to relax not have to constantly calculate my next move.) The adjustment from that to a multiple date dating model is slow and I lose girls in the long process. It's also impossible to not be tempted to that backpacker tourist girl who is alone and trying your luck for a quick bang. It's hot but it becomes hollow and so the desire for "good girls" creeps in, but it's a lot more difficult than I thought. I thought I would just have to do logistics texts and listen to her shit. Repeat x3-x5, then bring her home as normal. It's disorienting to put so much effort into one girl. I'm used to quicker fails and quicker wins. I feel like my transition period might be a long one if I do make it. Anyway great post birthday cat, summarized what I'm feeling at the moment.