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Dealing with idiots
Hey guys,

Forgive me for spelling I'm typing this on my phone at 2 am. I am on my birthright Israel trip and I need your help. It is the second day and I've already had several fights with dumb snowflakes. The majority of the people on this trip are low class left wing commies. They constantly pick fights with me and I obviously retaliate and put them in their place. Problem is I'm one dude and there thirty other idiots. Only a bunch of cool cats. I still have 9 days left of this shit and don't know how to handle it. I really thought the Jews we're more intelligent and conservative. The activities and outings are good but the people are unbearable. Theyre hostile cause im an open trump supporter and dont play into their shit tests. Theyre pissed because i picked up women from outside our group. They openly say im hot but i wont get too smash cause im too cocky, not that i want to fuck these dumb cunts. To add to the situation the dumbest girl (i think she has mild aspbergers or some othet cookoo shit) openly wants to fuck me and grabs my cock in front of people and gets angry when i reject her. I look like a bad guy for not wanting tk smash a retard and would look likr a bad guy if i fucked her. Pleaaaase help! I'm open to all suggestions please help.
12-27-2017 07:27 PM
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Some general rules of the road for your life:

1. You are responsible for your own decisions and actions.
2. You decide what is best for you and your life.
3. What other people (that you do not respect) think or say to you is irrelevant.

Now, specifically with this trip in mind:
1. Make a game of not becoming reactive when they attack you or try to draw you into an argument. Think of it as a test of your personal development and self discipline. Ultimately, you should not feel a need to challenge them or put them in their place. You want to spend less of your time and energy on these things as they detract from your trip.
2. Instead, focus your energy and time on the things you want to do or experience on your trip. If that means spending more time away from the group, so be it. If that means occasionally retreating into your own mind and ignoring some things, that is ok too. Take a more stoic perspective on things and focus your attention on the things you can control.
3. Game and hook up with the girls you want to hook up with.
4. Relax and enjoy your trip. Life is short and you want to make sure you enjoy the good stuff rather than getting bogged down in the stuff that doesn't matter.
12-27-2017 08:00 PM
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You're absolutely right man the thing I didn't mention is I have to be with the group 18/24 hrs a day. I'm forced to be with the group. I will however do as you suggest and report back
12-28-2017 12:46 AM
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(12-27-2017 07:27 PM)Balls_Hang_Low Wrote:  Hey guys,

Forgive me for spelling I'm typing this on my phone at 2 am. I am on my birthright Israel trip and I need your help. It is the second day and I've already had several fights with dumb snowflakes. The majority of the people on this trip are low class left wing commies. They constantly pick fights with me and I obviously retaliate and put them in their place. Problem is I'm one dude and there thirty other idiots. Only a bunch of cool cats. I still have 9 days left of this shit and don't know how to handle it. I really thought the Jews we're more intelligent and conservative. The activities and outings are good but the people are unbearable. Theyre hostile cause im an open trump supporter and dont play into their shit tests. Theyre pissed because i picked up women from outside our group. They openly say im hot but i wont get too smash cause im too cocky, not that i want to fuck these dumb cunts. To add to the situation the dumbest girl (i think she has mild aspbergers or some othet cookoo shit) openly wants to fuck me and grabs my cock in front of people and gets angry when i reject her. I look like a bad guy for not wanting tk smash a retard and would look likr a bad guy if i fucked her. Pleaaaase help! I'm open to all suggestions please help.

Serious? I'd relax man. I'd be all over Tel Aviv man... partying... I hear good things about the amount of fun you can have if you sneak away. Don't sweat the minor drama, enjoy the party atmosphere on this trip.
(This post was last modified: 12-28-2017 01:07 AM by Dragan.)
12-28-2017 01:05 AM
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(12-28-2017 12:46 AM)Balls_Hang_Low Wrote:  You're absolutely right man the thing I didn't mention is I have to be with the group 18/24 hrs a day. I'm forced to be with the group. I will however do as you suggest and report back

Secular Jews are probably the most liberal group in America.

Do not engage in politics anymore. If they begin to bring this stuff up or cause you problems, then turn it around on them. Understand that Liberals go through life assuming they are the good guys... even when they are raping people and doing evil shit. What they can't handle is being publicly cast as the bad person.

So, having been in your situation I will tell you what works for me. If they say something bad about me I immediately call them out for being a "bully". I get very vocal and very emotional. To Liberals bullies are bad people... if they are forced to see themselves as bullies it ruins their internal narrative. Don't engage in actual political discussions... just loudly point out that they are using their numbers as a group to bully you. Point out that they are trying to hurt your feelings.... and that makes them bad people!!
12-28-2017 01:10 AM
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Ends expect that's hilarious. Guys I get what all of you are saying but understand it's impossible to sneak out, there's an armed private guard at the door. The fun you can have really depends on the group and the madrijim which are the coordinators. They are strict ASF. Were not engagin in political discussion they just dislike me because I embody what they hate. I'm just going to chill with the cool people and don't direct my word to the others andbe unengaged if they try talking to me. Going to Jerusalem today, very excited about the religious aspect of going there.
12-28-2017 01:48 AM
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(12-27-2017 07:27 PM)Balls_Hang_Low Wrote:  I still have 9 days left of this shit and don't know how to handle it.

Life is too short to have this attitude, you would benefit from actively deciding to keep a better mindset.

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Also, a large part of being socially adept is adapting to your environment and tuning what you say to your audience. Have you considered that being completely open about your ideas on certain issues might actually be hindering your relationships with people? I'm Not suggesting you change yourself inside, but you can absolutely make more friends, avoid confrontations, and click better with people by intentionally playing up and down different parts of yourself depending on your audience.
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01-02-2018 06:51 AM
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(12-27-2017 07:27 PM)Balls_Hang_Low Wrote:  Hey guys,

Forgive me for spelling I'm typing this on my phone at 2 am. I am on my birthright Israel trip and I need your help. It is the second day and I've already had several fights with dumb snowflakes. The majority of the people on this trip are low class left wing commies. They constantly pick fights with me and I obviously retaliate and put them in their place. Problem is I'm one dude and there thirty other idiots.
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Thirty, you say?

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Have you tried telling them to go home?
01-02-2018 08:39 AM
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Long live little dark
01-06-2018 03:03 AM
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(12-27-2017 08:00 PM)TIOT12 Wrote:  1. Make a game of not becoming reactive when they attack you or try to draw you into an argument. Think of it as a test of your personal development and self discipline. Ultimately, you should not feel a need to challenge them or put them in their place. You want to spend less of your time and energy on these things as they detract from your trip.

In the Southern U.S., we have a saying, "Bless his heart." I'll use this in context so you can understand.

A clueless person cuts you off. A Yankee will say "Hey fucking idiot, get out of my way!" A Southerner will realize the person is clueless and say "Bless his heart."

It sounds like kindness or a compliment, but its highly derogatory and insulting. Its how Southerners politely mock others.

Not saying that you should adopt this verbatim, but the non-reactive mindset is what is important.

Also, I would take a look in the mirror and see if you are being arrogant. Young guys often confuse arrogance and confrontation with boldness.

I know personally Trump's campaign chair in the state where I live. Guy is probably worth $500 million, maybe more. He is a philanthropist and there is a college football stadium with his name on it and another college with a large research building named after him. This guy drives used cars. He doesn't have a "birth right" or expect anything from anyone.

Often, the bold play is to be humble or kind, even when the situation does not warrant it. The judgment to see this, and the ability to actually do it, come with practice and age.

A final thought. Its great to support Trump, but its not necessarily a dating tactic. If you went to Pittsburgh, it would be a good idea to not advertise that you support the New England Patriots. Talk about something else instead. It sounds like you are being unnecessarily confrontational and don't understand why people are upset.
01-06-2018 06:31 AM
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Wow hypno. I really appreciate the post. Very insightful. I probably am being a little arrogant.

I finished the trip and extended my stay in israel, I will be here for another ten days. I managed to capture the israeli flag. I will be going into the negev desert tomorrow for quasi military training during for days with hopefully like minded individuals.

You, along with one of the previous posts are very right when it comes to not talking about topics that should probably be kept on the down low, however sometimes it i-a very tough when the people beside you are constantly spewing BS at a very radical level.

The group eventually came around after 5+ days and I began having better relations with them. Most realized that the few left wing individuals we're toxic and began respecting me more and turning their backs on them. They even gave me a platform to recite the speech I gave at my university justifying why Trump should build the wall. It was a huge success and they filmed it.

I had a great time during the trip and am sure the next ten days will be better too. I will be travelling the North of the country solo after the desert and anyone is welcome to join me to hunt for more kosher pussy
01-06-2018 09:08 AM
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