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RE: I couldn't GET IT UP please HELP
There are so many things that can stop you from getting hard so don't let it it get to you unless it becomes a consistent problem and if that happens, go and see a Doctor.

Alcohol, drugs (legal and illegal), your mood, energy level, your interaction with the girl, etc can all lead to having trouble getting it up.

As was said before, it is a myth that guys can just get it up on demand and that all you have to do is show us a vagina and we're good to go.
Girls know this and the reason they get so upset when you can't do it is because they take it as a rejection of them. So they get upset and lash out at you to cover up the fact that they feel like they weren't enough to turn you on.
Sometimes this is the case and other times you've just had too much to drink or some drug is inhibiting you.

For me personally if the girl turns me off then I really struggle. A couple of times I've gone through with hooking up with girls I wasn't really into and my dick just went "nope".
If my interest in a girl wanes my desire for her is the first thing to go because it's the one thing I can't consciously control.
11-21-2017 12:40 AM
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RE: I couldn't GET IT UP please HELP
If ever a bitch is evil enough to have a go at you for not getting wood, or even joke about it....

Tell her you had no problems with a hot 18 year old a few days ago, it must be you honey.

She deserves it.
11-21-2017 05:04 PM
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RE: I couldn't GET IT UP please HELP
If she couldn't get it up for you I'm not sure I can help.
11-22-2017 12:55 PM
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RE: I couldn't GET IT UP please HELP
I don´t consider this to be big thing.

I think everybody sometimes go through this. Nervousness, alcohol, exhaustion, stress... whatever can cause it. The worst thing you can do is to think about it.

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11-22-2017 01:18 PM
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RE: I couldn't GET IT UP please HELP
Lol at everyone giving sensible responses, the OP guy is obviously trolling, writing as a caricature of the type of weirdo this forum sometimes attracts
11-22-2017 01:44 PM
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RE: I couldn't GET IT UP please HELP
(11-22-2017 01:44 PM)MediumRare Wrote:  Lol at everyone giving sensible responses, the OP guy is obviously trolling, writing as a caricature of the type of weirdo this forum sometimes attracts

It's a forum. Responses aren't for OP alone but anybody else the info might be of interest to.
11-22-2017 03:44 PM
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Thanks everyone for answering my questions. I really appreciate it.
11-23-2017 11:16 AM
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Use viagra over cialis. And definitely go no fap for the next year.

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11-23-2017 11:42 PM
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If a girl's pussy isn't wet, whose fault is it?

Unless there is something medically wrong with her or she's 90 (you shouldn't be banging 90 year olds), then it's your fault. You didn't do enough to turn her on.

So flip that to us guys. When our dick doesn't get hard, whose fault is it? Why do guys get the blame on that too? It's a double standard.

I've heard girls talk and laugh about guys who "couldn't get their dick to work". Obviously blaming the guy and taking no accountability for their failure to actually, you know...turn the guy on. Like Roardog mentioned, we can't just get it up on demand. Girls actually have to do a little work sometimes. How much work just depends on what turns you on about her.

So next time you have trouble getting it to work, make it clear to the female that she just will have to work a little harder at it. It's your job to get her pussy wet, and it's her job to get your dick hard.

Bitches shouldn't get yet another pass on accountability.

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11-24-2017 10:08 AM
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11-29-2017 01:11 PM
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Anxiety and booze.... Bad combo for boner town.

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11-29-2017 01:21 PM
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RE: I couldn't GET IT UP please HELP
I would suggest taking cialis any time there is a chance of getting laid, so that you'll always have rock solid erections no matter what and won't have to worry about performing.

I order mine from an Indian pharmacy, it's legitimate and works great.

https://www.alldaychemist.com/ceebis.html
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11-30-2017 10:45 AM
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RE: I couldn't GET IT UP please HELP
Get cialis. Will change your life especially if you are mid thirty or older. Cut back on the booze as well before its go time. Viagra isn't as good and you won't feel as much.

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11-30-2017 06:03 PM
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RE: I couldn't GET IT UP please HELP
Do you go to the gym?
11-30-2017 11:06 PM
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RE: I couldn't GET IT UP please HELP
1. Nofap for 2 days before hook ups
2. Alcohol will cause problems for most Men starting around age 25. You're there. I don't have problems getting it up with LIGHT alcohol (2 or 3 servings) but the sensitivity is markedly lower and I get Whiskey Dick Type-II which means you can get it up but can't cum.
3. The most important factor: She wasn't hot enough, you didn't have strong enough chemistry.

I have been hung over and ejaculated 3 times the night before, I encountered a girl I have been wanting to fuck for a long time and guess what I got an erection and LOADS of semen magically shot out of my balls.

If you don't listen to anything Roosh has to say his point about the hotness of the girl affecting your libido and pleasure is spot on. It will over-ride anything else. Think about it, in ancient times you maybe lived until age 30 and died of some disease or in combat. So genetically a Man is programmed to pour every ounce of his electrons into impregnating a Woman that will surely lead to improved genetic fitness which translates into the brain as attraction.

The reality is she SHOULD feel bad because she wasn't in that top 10% tier for you. Otherwise you would have had virtually no issues no matter what was going on in most cases. Unless there was some strong sedative or drugs at play which should have cleared your body by the time this event happened.
12-06-2017 01:40 PM
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