Post: #1

Hi,

Guess the topic says it all - I am just too shy to even say hi to any girl either average or mindblowing.

Even if I get smiles and signs, I still do not approach them. I guess it could be because I have had bad experiences with girls when I was in my teens. I pretty much hate myself when it comes to this part of life.

I am considering to pool out some money each month to pay girls to have sex and get the GFE experience.

Anyone else who feels this way please share your experience and maybe we can help each other out.

Thanks.

Post: #2

You should go to a mall and ask everyone for the time or directions...... thats a little exercise to start getting over shyness, after that you can go farther.

Post: #3

Good advise from Riker.

Keep it simple.

Baby steps.

btw. where do you live? paying for decent pussy in the US would be pretty expensive id imagine.

Now that I think of it. A good way to help build your confidence with women is to roll to Latin America and do the p4p spots.

Obviously I normally dont recommend guys under 60 to be paying for sex but in your extreme case it could actually help build your confidence and at the very least give you some practice in the sack. The girls will give you alot of attention and it should be an overall good experience for you. Not sure how you look but if your ugly or have zero style or swagg than the attention will be fake. Not that it matters in ur case......

Post: #4

May I recommend getting a copy of Bang and reading it?.....you can do it man.....you just got to start with baby steps.....

Post: #5

what are p4p spots?

Also why would you mention latin america? Are girls there easier to score?

Thanks.

Post: #6

(09-13-2011 12:13 PM)SGTmeth Wrote:  what are p4p spots?

Also why would you mention latin america? Are girls there easier to score?

Thanks.

p4p = pay for play

if you are not old, stylish, white and are atleast a 5 than yes south america is alot easier to score.

Post: #7

I know what you mean, I get that feeling to a lesser extent sometimes, and I'm also pretty new at all this. The other day I was annoyed with myself because I was going to ask this girl out that I knew, and I'm pretty certain she's into me, but it took me like 10-15 minutes of stalling before I was able to. It was pretty sad.

I'm going to go ahead and take a guess that you don't or haven't worked in a customer service position before...? I say this because I worked for years (and still currently do) in a part time, customer service job which I think has really helped my overall social skills. The only way to get better with any social issues you may have is to just do it enough. Like anything, once you've practiced any skill enough it becomes second nature, and is no longer foreign to you.

I know Roosh mentioned in BANG that you shouldn't start slow, and you just need to jump in and shock your system by going for girls with all you have, but I think Riker has very good advice too. Just put yourself in situations like that, find reasons and excuses to talk to random people, just for practice. Make conversation with people around you, ask people questions, etc. If you're a social person in your everyday life then making the jump to being that way with girls is much easier. I also think talking to random girls when you're out and about, even if you're not into them and just for practice is a good idea. If you're the kind of guy who stays in all day and plays video games then stop it, go out and socialize.

When you go to the store, go to school or work, or go out to get gas or do anything outside of your house, make a goal to talk to x amount of people casually. When you're more comfortable with that, start doing it with girls, then attractive girls, then work up to working the whole game process and actually trying to hit on girls, get their number, or whatever you want to do. Make these goal and force yourself to do them. Don't give yourself the option of backing out.

Hope this helps at all, hope I didn't ramble too much. Good luck man.

Post: #8

Fuck baby steps man, just rip that bandaid off. You don't want to make this process take longer than need be, by wasting time in the simple beginning stages.

Focus on becoming more conversational with everyone you come across, male/female, ugly/pretty, you get the idea. This will translate to your ability to hold a conversation when you do meet a girl you want to bang.

Post: #9

I think you guys missed the point. He's a virgin, and wants to get it over with. Do it. Pay someone, and get it over with.

Listen brah, it never gets easy with chicks. No matter how skilled you become, they will always fuck with you.

Post: #10

Thanks for all the input, i aint a virgin but its just that I have never had a proper fling where I was in command. However, last night I scored a girl by bitching about european girls lol

Post: #11

and how come i got -1 rep?

Post: #12

(09-16-2011 09:47 AM)SGTmeth Wrote:  and how come i got -1 rep?

Get a job at a bar/grille type place in a college town. Work as a bar-back or dishwasher if you have to. Go there and drink and party on your nights off. You will get to know everyone and all of the chicks (usually hot at a place like that) and before you know it, you'll be invited to late night get togethers where everyone's getting high and you won't even give a shit about social anxiety after a while. God I fucking miss the job I had like that.

Post: #13

(09-19-2011 09:04 PM)BetaNoob Wrote:  Get a job at a bar/grille type place in a college town. Work as a bar-back or dishwasher if you have to. Go there and drink and party on your nights off. You will get to know everyone and all of the chicks (usually hot at a place like that) and before you know it, you'll be invited to late night get togethers where everyone's getting high and you won't even give a shit about social anxiety after a while. God I fucking miss the job I had like that.

Also, look into some Zoloft or Paxil or something, srsly.

Post: #14

(09-20-2011 06:19 PM)Prowl Wrote:  

(09-19-2011 09:04 PM)BetaNoob Wrote:  Get a job at a bar/grille type place in a college town. Work as a bar-back or dishwasher if you have to. Go there and drink and party on your nights off. You will get to know everyone and all of the chicks (usually hot at a place like that) and before you know it, you'll be invited to late night get togethers where everyone's getting high and you won't even give a shit about social anxiety after a while. God I fucking miss the job I had like that.

Also, look into some Zoloft or Paxil or something, srsly.

I would steer clear of the Paxil. One of the worst things I've ever done to myself.