Post: #1

I'm 26 years old, and my sex drive is moving towards zero.
I don't have ED, I could get it up and fuck any girl, but it wouldn't make a shit of a diffrence if I did that.
How does one get In the state of "I want to fuck this girl", and be satisfied at that ?

Post: #2

Same age range and I’ve experienced the same shit. Best thing to do is really simple: hit the gym for increased testosterone production, stop watching porn or photos of hot girls on insta and social media, eat testosterone boosting foods but also eat what you enjoy and sleep well.

Honestly in a few weeks you’ll notice a big difference.

That takes care of most of the physical side, the other part is ofc your current mental state. Are you depressed, stressed, happy, etc..

Post: #3

I'm over a month into hitting the gym again. Making progress, steady.
Stil, I see (beta) guys drooling in my back.
I should feel like a king, a master doing what I do.
It doesn't.

Post: #4

I highly recommend,

1. Quitting porn

2. Cutting back masturbation

3. Start taking the 5 g's for big erections. This is a formula I found on PEGym, and documented my experiences in the NoFap thread:

/thread-12879...pid1460721

Original post:

https://www.pegym.com/forums/erectile-dy...tions.html

4. You're young, if none of this works, you have low test.

Either way, get your bloodwork done and see where you're at.

Post: #5

Hit the gym, stop jacking off, if you do it constantly. Have some confidence in yourself man, you're statement makes you sound like if you have a shit mindset. You're 26, whatever you're going through will pass, if you take action to correct yourself. As to getting in the mindset of fucking a girl, don't overthink the shit, it's not rocket science, dweeb.

Post: #6

Have your testosterone checked. Take zinc and vitamin d in the meanwhile.

Post: #7

I don’t think it’s low testosterone since you can obtain and maintain erections. I think maybe it’s psychological and you’re at a stage in your life where you’re not happy.

I just advised the to hit the gym, eat right, etc.. just incase.

Post: #8

Besides hitting gym, cutting porn and eating healthy, you should just fuck a girl once you have the opportunity.

As soon as I've been with a girl, I feel a much higher sex drive for the next days. One just has to begin and get used to.

Post: #9

Ok. I've got a major in steroids and test here...

Many people can still maintain erections even on low or crashed test. Erection quality is an indicator but it's not a fool proof way to troubleshoot your issue. Personally I can still get wood on zero test and a crashed natural production but I don't want to do anything with it.

Test has more to do with desire.

Before you jump on the NoFap (which I get the feeling you're not jacking off anyway) and zinc band wagon, get your bloodwork done and go from there. You could have a bigger health problem then what Dr. Broscience can help you with.

Post: #10

some good advice in this thread. some things to do if you have not already is get better sleep, reduce caffeine esp. after lunch, and take a melatonin before sleeping.

also, wear boxer type underwear instead of briefs.

Post: #11

do you use porn?

Post: #12

https://www.facebook.com/quantatxink/

Post: #13

When is the last time you had sex with a bad bitch?

Post: #14

I ruined my sex drive using fin for hairloss. What helped me get back on track was MACA powder - I highly recommend it.

Post: #15

I too think it's psychological. Aside from all the good advice already given here, go outside, and I mean a lot. If you've got a 9-5 job, get up early and stay out late. On weekends, spend as little time at home as possible. Just be in nature, or if that's not possible, go somewhere crowded. Find somewhere full of life, and be in it.

Post: #16

If you have lack of libido, I'd recommend Chyavanprash.
I tried it myself, and the effect is incredible.
I am actually taking it as an immune boosting agent, but a side-effect is increased stamina.
I am even thinking of reducing the dosage, not to be horny all the time.
Where I live, you can buy it in a pharmacy, but it's available on ebay.

http://community.omtimes.com/profiles/bl...and-adults
Sexual Function - Chyavanprash also revitalizes sexual vigor and stamina... thus helping with impotence and lack of libido for both men and women.

Post: #17

You could have pelvic floor dysfunction. It's what caused my ED

Here's some preliminary info on it:
http://malepelvicfloor.com/cpps.html

You can find a lot of info about it on PE gym as well

Post: #18

I'm quite happy when I have low sex drive, so I can spend my time doing intelligent things rather than fucking.

Post: #19

TL;dr - If you're not feeling passion for a woman, you might not be feeling passion for your life's purpose. Find and pursue the latter, and the former will come (but be selective).

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I'm going to take a slightly different tack in my answer and ask - besides wanting to feel more passion to fuck women, what ARE you passionate about in YOUR life?

If you don't have something you really enjoy doing, are working toward mastering, that is making you a better man and earning a place in the world, you may not feel motivated to do much fucking. Your time and energy is spent just doing whatever day-to-day, falling into a routine, being part of someone else's plan:

"If you don't have a plan, you become part of someone else's plan." - is a quote I always keep in mind

A self-made man has a plan, is neither slave nor fool. Just being horny enough to fuck a woman can peter out once you're out of your teens and early/mid-20s. Eventually, ideas of life purpose and meaning start to take center stage. What is your campaign? as Roosh asks?

http://www.rooshv.com/what-is-your-campaign

I suggest that you get clearer on what your life is about (see my posts on 'finding your genius / life purpose', also check out David Deida's videos on Youtube, and his book 'Way of the Superior Man'). Spend some time by yourself, journal, meditate, walk, be in nature, and then talk with men you can trust whether family, friends, co-workers, or a cool bartender. When you focus time and energy on your goals, you're going to exude an energy that will draw women in. It's up to you to select for higher quality women as fucking any random one (i.e. a woman who doesn't have anything of value to contribute to your life) will drain your essence and vitality. I've been there, done that in my late 20's/early 30s. A lower quality woman is a sure-fire way to fuck your life up and you're getting to a point whether it's clearly not about just getting laid, but finding deeper meaning (at least I'm assuming that's a motivation).

I'll co-sign on (organic) Maca powder, the stuff is amazing. I also take 30 mg of L-Optizinc during lunch, typically eat about 4-6 raw eggs, ZMA (zinc magnesium vitamin 6) before bed, about 3,000 iu vit D3, ~400 mcg selenium, quality male multi-vitamin, etc. I'm BURNING with passion for what I'm creating in my life and when I look for a woman I'm selecting for those who dig me and my mission.

Desire for its own sake is fun but fleeting (hey, we all go through it!). Passion grows as a result of respect and admiration for your victories and is in a whole other league of intensity. As the saying also goes, 'most men lead lives of quiet desperation.' Don't be one of those men - stoke your fire, heat the iron of your purpose, and shape it by your sheer will and commitment into the life you want to create. You're here, we're your brothers, and we want you to succeed in your mission.





Your passion sustains and builds as long as you keep being a man of Quality, worth a woman's trust and desire. Sometimes, I can see a palpable shift in a woman's eyes when I'm sharing my story, my vision, and where I'm going. I don't depend on their desire, but it's nearly impossible for me to want to fuck a woman (at least more than once) if she doesn't get me at a deeper level. She is opening herself to me, in trust and from a truly feminine place that I've earned by being a man who deserves to open her. This is a power that you also need to respect, because breaking hearts is bad karma (had to learn that lesson a few times too).

Post: #20

You maybe getting gay

Post: #21

Where do you live? Life in a "Don't Bang"-level country can get depressing fast. Maybe a small vacation to Latin America would help you regain the inspiration.

Post: #22

(09-30-2017 10:52 PM)NKD Wrote:  I don’t think it’s low testosterone since you can obtain and maintain erections. I think maybe it’s psychological and you’re at a stage in your life where you’re not happy.

I just advised the to hit the gym, eat right, etc.. just incase.

I am not sure , but i think Testo level have nothing with ED problems

high testo is when your libido is high and the opposite .


Other thing , i notcied in myself. when i dont jerk off (could be FAP or sex ) i have higher libido , so i guess higher testo. the drawback is i once i had sex opportunity , it is always a PE problem.

So couldnt fix all ( either high testosterone so high libido and good erection vs PE problems )
or the opposite when i feel low sex drive , at least my PE problem is gone.

Post: #23

(11-05-2017 07:22 PM)fortysix Wrote:  I ruined my sex drive using fin for hairloss. What helped me get back on track was MACA powder - I highly recommend it.

I've been trying MACA powder for a couple of weeks now with no noticeable difference so the jury on it's effectiveness is still out for me.
I've got enough for 40 days so I'll see if I notice any difference at the end of that.

Post: #24

Roardog, are you getting enough cholesterol e.g. raw or softly cooked eggs? I find that Maca in the early or late morning as part of a shake helps kick things off. I also use a 50mg L-Optizinc so it's not just the Maca.

Post: #25

(11-05-2017 07:50 PM)YoungBlade Wrote:  I too think it's psychological. Aside from all the good advice already given here, go outside, and I mean a lot. If you've got a 9-5 job, get up early and stay out late. On weekends, spend as little time at home as possible. Just be in nature, or if that's not possible, go somewhere crowded. Find somewhere full of life, and be in it.

Correct.

Proverbs 4:23 Wrote:Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.

The heart is what the ancients knew as the junction between the soul (psyche) and the engine of the physical body.

A lot of the problems men experience with the heart can be fixed by cutting down on porn and alcohol. The force virile comes from the fusion of the psyche and the physical