Post: #26

(07-05-2017 09:12 AM)RUGby1345 Wrote:  I've found the closest thing to a unicorn I can imagine finding.

That's the closest anyone can get, she's theoretically open to you having a threesome with her and another girl. Now if this is some kind of ideal situation is another matter.

If the whole thing was strictly sexual and you asked how to convince a girl to have a threesome with you or something like that, the answers would be completely different.

But the fact is that threesomes and actual LTRs just don't go together.

Friend, unless she is using you and you don't realise it, she's the one being used and as soon as she realises, if she hasn't already, she will resent you for it*.

I mean for her it's something of a deal, "OK, honey, we'll have a threesome, after I move to your place". What's to say that after she moves in she won't postpone that threesome until after you two get married? And if you suddenly say something like "Wait a minute, I don't do threesomes with my wife", check *.

You talk about her like she's the sweetest girl in the world but the fact is that either you don't care enough about her ("love") or she is willing to share you with another person (you don't mean that much to her => unworthy of your "love") or she is too desperate to defend her dignity (she is willing to do a sexual favor in exchange for housing => unworthy of your "love").

*"If in a poker game you can't tell who the sucker is, you 're the sucker".

Post: #27

Do as you will, OP, but for the love of God tie an emotional lifeline to the world outside of this relationship.

Post: #28

I don't understand why I am being called white knight.

"We recently discussed me getting to have sex outside the relationship (with and without LTR) in exchange for some steps towards stability for her (moving in together and such)."

People don't take each other seriously anymore. LTRs are for building a family, for God's sake. Anything else, spin those damn plates.

And fuck Hollywood. That was the point I tried to make earlier with Americans and their lives.