Post: #1

Imagine the following scenario:

You're in a bar all by yourself. In one corner, two girls are surrounded by a group of guys. None of the guys seem to have strong game, they just opened the set half an hour before you showed up. One of the targets is giving you an IOI, she wants you to make a move. What do you do ? How do you disarm a group of thirsty guys while taking control of the set ?

Post: #2

A SET? I knew it was about pua tactics. Look if you are getting into pua stuff, dont over think and just chat with everyone to see how it goes.
This is not some science.

Post: #3

If they have no game girls will find a way to get rid of them. Just be patient, and when someone moves to the bar or toillet or whatever go talk to the girl who was giving IOI.

Post: #4

You have to do an RSD boot camp to learn these techniques.

Post: #5

Go up to her and say "Don't I know you from somewhere?" with a bit of a smirk and a cool vibe. If she genuinely wants you to move in she will let you even if she doesn't get it. If she's perceptive enough she'll probably even lie and say yes.

Post: #6

(06-04-2017 03:38 AM)The Catalyst Wrote:  Go up to her and say "Don't I know you from somewhere?" with a bit of a smirk and a cool vibe. If she genuinely wants you to move in she will let you even if she doesn't get it. If she's perceptive enough she'll probably even lie and say yes.

"I'm really sorry. I can never remember if you're Cathy or Cathy's sister. You both look so much alike."

By the time the guys figure out it doesn't make any sense it will be too late.

Post: #7

If a girl is really feeling you, and giving you IOIs, one trick I've used is to make eye contact with her, smile coquettishly, and then motion her over with a smile. If she tries to get you to come to her, smile, but stand your ground and wait. Even if she doesn't come right away, if she's feeling you, she'll find a way over. Keep yourself busy in the meantime. You'll give the girl an excuse to bail if she's not feeling the guys she's with, and that alone will help your case, especially if she's into you.

Post: #8

(06-04-2017 12:14 AM)Sebastian Wrote:  A SET? I knew it was about pua tactics. Look if you are getting into pua stuff, dont over think and just chat with everyone to see how it goes.
This is not some science.

Would you prefer that I replace set with group ?

(06-04-2017 02:39 AM)Rocha Wrote:  If they have no game girls will find a way to get rid of them. Just be patient, and when someone moves to the bar or toillet or whatever go talk to the girl who was giving IOI.

That's what I also thought but in most cases none of them move. The guys are scared of taking a piss and the girls just leave after finishing their drinks. It's not uncommon for the guys to follow them like flies.

(06-04-2017 03:38 AM)The Catalyst Wrote:  Go up to her and say "Don't I know you from somewhere?" with a bit of a smirk and a cool vibe. If she genuinely wants you to move in she will let you even if she doesn't get it. If she's perceptive enough she'll probably even lie and say yes.

That would work to break the ice but what next ? How do you tell the guys to fuck off in a polite manner ?
I haven't tried to make a sign for her to come over, that may be a good approach but I don't think most girls are so bold. I am usually the one who has to put in the effort.

Post: #9

^ Well, I have did that, last summer I banged a wonderful Croatian ass that was speaking with two french guys. Not even IOI's involved, I just figured out she might be slavic and went to her and ask her for a lighter in russian, after a very brief chit-chat I took her hand to next bar for a shot, the guys where simply disarmed by my boldness and where left speechless wondering how I swooped the girl from them.
But, I did this in my comfort zone, in my city, and in a zone where I know all the barmens, bouncers and some nightgoers. Would I have done this in Poland in a place where I did not knew no one? Probably not...except if crazy drunk )))

Most important thing is to feel the pulse of the place, and then of the guys who are talking to the girls, if they seem to have a weak frame and not capable of physical confrontation, or if you feel they are not a match (swedish, german, belgium or french Macron/Merkel voters and hipsters for example are good targets) for you in case things go the wrong way, then go for the girl and fuck them, they wont, and dont deserve to bang the girls anyway. If it is some Polish or Ukrainian jacked up dudes I would not risk my health. Or even some chav Brits who are used to bar fights. Latin guys (Spanish, Italian, Portuguese) are very loudmouthed and things can escalate, if not phisically then at least verbally. we are the kind of guys that if we don't bang then the other guy also wont.

But beware because one who sees faces do not see hearts.

It all depends on the confidence you have in yourself in that moment, the confidence in the surroundings, and the guys who you are about to AMOG, that is much more important than the girl you want, that is secondary, after you AMOG them she is halfway yours.

Post: #10

(06-04-2017 10:53 AM)Pointer Wrote:  

(06-04-2017 03:38 AM)The Catalyst Wrote:  Go up to her and say "Don't I know you from somewhere?" with a bit of a smirk and a cool vibe. If she genuinely wants you to move in she will let you even if she doesn't get it. If she's perceptive enough she'll probably even lie and say yes.

That would work to break the ice but what next ? How do you tell the guys to fuck off in a polite manner ?
I haven't tried to make a sign for her to come over, that may be a good approach but I don't think most girls are so bold. I am usually the one who has to put in the effort.

Easy.

"I know this cool bar/whatever we can go to"(ignore the guys)
"Can you leave us alone?"(If you want to be more direct)

Post: #11

You go and talk to her. No need to overthink--open her, see what happens. If she's receptive/wants to leave the group to hang out with you, she will.

Post: #12

The theoretical way for me when i have an ioi like that is to go talk to her right then and there. If the guys are hitting on her, its very rare that theyd escalate since they have no claim on the girl ajd for all they know she might know you/be with you etc...

Now whether i/you will have the courage to do so is another issue

Post: #13

I thought I would be getting some tips here on how to steal a set in the gym, when all the squat racks are full or something lol..

Anyways, I'd do the same thing as Investment Bro. I'd tell her (them) with body language to come over, I like that way better than when I go up to them, since when they come to me I have absolute control and they are the ones looking for a positive response.

Ps.
If you have good ideas on how to steal sets in the squat rack in the gym, pm me.