Post: #1

When I was in Argentina last year *everyone* thought I was Brazilian either because my Spanish accent sounds Brazilian or because I was pretty arrogant and cocky (as my friends suggested). I'd come up to random girls and just ask random questions/neg and be very cocky. For instance, once at dinner outside a Palermo restaurant in Buenos Aires, I yelled "Hey girls come over here" in English to 3 girls that were passing by. My friends were very very embarrassed but in 3 mins the girls returned and asked what we wanted. We ended up having a great night.

Lately I've been thinking that it's really important to get your message across to a girl (ie, that you're looking to fuck her) even if it means you're coming along a bit sleazy instead of smooth/friendly. I'd rather err on the side of being direct/sleazy than on the friendly side.

So if you do make it clear that you mean business, the girl by the sheer virtue of agreeing to hang out with you, will be agreeing that sex is not out of the question and is a very possible outcome.

One thing that might/will happen is that the girl will be in disbelief and smile/roll her eyes/start shit-testing you. That's exactly what you want because you're effectively changing her reality into yours.

The point is that you have to make it unequivocally clear that you're interested in having sex with her. It can be anywhere from a small hint to a direct intent.

(after a pickup at a bar, we txt the next day)
<ME> too bad your friend (girl) had to drag you out of the bar early, would've been nice to finish what we started
<HER> yeah oh well
<ME> you'd have to make it up to me another time
<HER> so charitable of you
... next day ...
<ME> you know what you need - a study break and some Russian hospitality.
<HER> sounds enticing - what does it entail?
<ME> we walk around the historic Russian district, have some sweets at some Russian bakeries, then get a bottle of wine and finish it at my place
while enjoying my Russian art (i have 3 crappy $1 Ikea paintings), and make beautiful love.
<HER> sounds charming but I don't know about the last part, blah blah blah.

I think there's absolutely no doubt what will happen if she ever meets me on that day.

The corollary is that if I make my intention known and she rejects it, then I go home happy because I've done all I can as a man and she lost her chance to reproduce with desirable genes. There's really no rejection at all.

The second corollary is that you will never ever be in any friend zone with a girl. Friend zone is biggest bullshit there is. It's the anti-game and anti-masculine thing.

Sleaziness might be a negative word, but sleazy guys get laid alot more than nice guys.

Post: #2

totally agree.

Put your desire out there.

Cut through the bullshit and say whats on your mind.

Post: #3

Don't forget to add humour even in texts.

Post: #4

I do agree in letting her know you want to take things sexual. I do that by touching and not necessarily words. Same outcome.