Post: #1

If you've banged a girl and she moves away. But she might be coming back at some point, do you keep in touch every now and then to keep you in her mind, or do you let her come to you?

I haven't messaged a girl I banged on Friday, but she might be back in a month. It's only a might. We haven't agreed anything. When she left she said I'd never see her again trying to be cold.

Post: #2

Let her go pretend to be cold. The odds are that you letting her walk out the door and not chasing will drive her batshit and she'll reach out to you. Giving chase will just prove to her that she successfully earned your approval and that she doesn't have to work any harder to make you remember her and soon she will be bored with texting you. At 18, there's a whole section of her brain dedicated to learning how to keep a man's attention, so make her come to you... and send you nudes.

You go be warm inside somebody new. Form good habits about not wasting time. I've had lots of women, even women I never banged, reach out to me months or years later. (If she didn't bang, start with "Oh, who is this?") If she wants to bang, she'll come sniffing around.

Post: #3

I think it's important to try not to burn bridges. If you've hooked up with a girl in the past, you can almost always hook up with her again at some point (provided you didn't go nuclear on her on the way out). Always leave the door open a crack, and sometimes she'll come back around to you (especially when a relationship she's in fails).

But don't wait around for her, either. Go do your own thing, game other girls and if she comes back, great, if not, you've got other shit going on anyway.

Post: #4

If they don't have a problem keeping in touch, I don't either. Of course they most probably do it for hamster reasons of their own but since I know about it, all is good. At best it might lead to another bang, at worst that she's still thinking of me.

Now if she disengages completely it means that I never meant much to her in the first place so there's no reason to keep in touch.

Post: #5

She coldly said you're never going to see each other again, right?

That's probably a hint that she doesn't WANT to see you again.

Or it could be a way to protect herself because she liked you.

In either case you'll gain nothing by initiating conversation with her.

If she actually liked you and wants to see you again the ball is in her court and it's on her to get back in touch.

Post: #6

(04-23-2017 01:18 PM)VincentVinturi Wrote:  She coldly said you're never going to see each other again, right?

That's probably a hint that she doesn't WANT to see you again.

Or it could be a way to protect herself because she liked you.

At 18, I doubt she's mature enough for that. She probably thinks it's a game to make him waste his time playing kiss-chase instead of banging other women. His description of her indicated that she thinks she's some kind of badass, rather than a naive youth.

Don't cooperate, and she'll just be more desperate and submissive next time.

Post: #7

Me as well I just casually keep in touch via txt message. I just make sure to send a txt once every 3-4 days maybe... and never more in order to not scare the cat away. When I slay on CL though... I never fallow up as it hasn't worked for me at all.

Post: #8

To answer both of you.

She definitely thinks she's some sort of badass. Also she's very mature for her age. The night before the bang in the car I asked if she wanted to see me the next day, she said maybe. She knows the game already.

She also said thinks like if she ever did come down she'd prob have a bf by then, I said I'd have a gf, she said you'd be a bad bf then. She said bye, I said cya, she said no you won't.

She's been a bit of a head fuck the whole time, giving me a friend line when trying to go in for first kiss, the fucking me like a maniac for 3 hours.

My current thinking is to test the waters in 2 weeks with a feeler text, she if she's coming down 2 weeks after that. If she is, we're fucking for 4 days every day she's here.

Post: #9

I reckon its worth some tight text game to keep the door open on a possible quality re-bang.

Tight game - don't get friendzone/orbiter converted....

Post: #10

It's not worth it. If she isn't trying to meet you again after the first bang then leave it and move on to the next girl.

Be honest though, did you bang her well? Was she screaming your name while digging her nails into your back? Don't underestimate the importance of that first bang.

Post: #11

I didn't bang her as well as I would've liked. She was so tight I found it hard to get it in a lot of the time. And couldn't keep it hard for 3 hours straight. Did other stuff and made her cum 5-10 times. She said her pussy was burning afterwards. Banged her 20 mins out of the 3 hours

Post: #12

"..She was so tight.."

If i was in your shoes i would let go only after loosening that pussy.

Those are few and far between, as you will soon realize if you let her go now

Post: #13

Yeah I keep in touch with all of them unless they really do something bad. You can re-bang later, and besides, ghosting on a girl without any reason after the bang isn't cool.

Post: #14

(04-23-2017 01:37 PM)wonderer1 Wrote:  To answer both of you.

She definitely thinks she's some sort of badass. Also she's very mature for her age. The night before the bang in the car I asked if she wanted to see me the next day, she said maybe. She knows the game already.

She also said thinks like if she ever did come down she'd prob have a bf by then, I said I'd have a gf, she said you'd be a bad bf then. She said bye, I said cya, she said no you won't.

She's been a bit of a head fuck the whole time, giving me a friend line when trying to go in for first kiss, the fucking me like a maniac for 3 hours.

My current thinking is to test the waters in 2 weeks with a feeler text, she if she's coming down 2 weeks after that. If she is, we're fucking for 4 days every day she's here.

Seeing as she's an 18 year old girl pretending to be all coy and mysterious, I wouldn't take anything that she says at face value.

Just do the bare minimum: send out a feeler text in a couple weeks and see what's up then, maybe she'll even message you first before that, who knows. No point thinking about it too much so best to keep yourself busy with your life and setting up other prospects in the meantime.

Honestly this girl comes off as really annoying and bitchy, don't think you should be too mad if it doesn't work out.