Post: #26

If you want to fuck her, fuck her. We've all had girls we would fuck but would never be seen in public with, but don't grant her a position where she has a sense of entitlement. Make clear to her that she's nothing to you and she should consider it a lucky day the day you want to fuck her.

Post: #27

I caught feeling for some girl I shouldn't have. Was in a bad spot. Went out with some girls I knew and one sent me a message with her address as we were leaving all in different taxis. I fucked the hell out of her but I have no desire to be in a relationship with her. She cooked me an amazing meal afterwards. I feel a million times better about life because of it. We both were very upfront to each other that all we want to do is fuck and act like nothing happened to the other people we know.

I think as long as people are honest with eachother its fine. I would say this girl is maybe a 6 depending on your tastes. Maybe a 5 to others.

Passed the dick test, then makes me a great meal the next morning for brunch. Shes on the roster until further notice. I don't give a fuck what others say. =)

Post: #28

Didn't read your essay, but I have zero problem banging a 5 regularly if she's cool with just coming over to bang and then leaving. It's the second part that's usually the problem.

Post: #29

(04-20-2017 05:09 PM)YoungBlade Wrote:  Shivakamini Somakandarkram is an easy 8! How DARE you!

Agreed--that's Shiva-blast worthy

Post: #30

I think having a 5 to bang is essential if you're in a slump. I got out of a relationship with a hot chick then went through a period of self imposed celibacy for about a year which I mentioned in previous threads. Getting back into the game was really challenging and it seemed like I couldn't catch any breaks. Guys who haven't been through this don't understand just how much this messes with your mind. It seems like every interaction with a girl is oozing with desperation and in your mind, the stakes are life and death. It's really terrible and I don't wish this on anyone.

We talk about "abundance mentality" and it's probably one of the frames a man needs to hold to have success with women but it's difficult to have this frame when you are starving. Just make sure you treat the girl with respect, be honest, and ready to let her go when it's time to move on or if she wants more. I also don't recommend going any lower than a 5. It's pretty self traumatizing!