Post: #26

End the date and part ways in a very public place.

If you're at a bar or a restaurant, before you leave go over to the service staff and ask several of them if they have any medicine for a sick moose*. What they ask what you mean, tell them you have a sick moose at home and you were hoping they had some medicine. This way they will absolutely remember you if called to give evidence of your departure at a later date.

*If you live in Canada where moose ownership is common then you should substitute "moose" for something else equally implausible.

Post: #27

(04-14-2017 01:33 PM)SirTimothy Wrote:  If it were some girl that you had been with a very long time, and she confided that in you after building up a certain level of trust, that might be one thing.

Telling you about this on the very first date? Eject!

This is, I feel, the best, most compassionate and reasonable answer and is how I would react.

Assuming that the abuse really happened, that's an incredibly messed up thing to happen to somebody, but as a victim you can't be looking for some actual genuine connection with a person, if you are telling them that on a first date.

It would seem that person would be trying to frame the entire relationship as them being a victim.

- "Oh I cheated on you? Well I was abused you know"?
- "Oh you have boundaries? Well I was abused you know"?
- "Oh you want to leave me? Well I was abused you know"?

You have to understand also, that many modern BPD women all have these abuse stories, where they 'feel' that they were raped but actually the reality is nowhere close. If I viewed rape how modern BPD women view rape, I've been raped like at least 10 times in my life, kek.

Post: #28

Next - huge red flag