Post: #76

(08-24-2011 10:10 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  Mixx, I think a good move for pulling these girls back to your pad is to tell them you have some rare absinthe that you can't get easily find and invite her back to try it. These chics are intrigued with it. Even Marilyn Manson had his own brand.

I admit I had no idea what this Absinthe stuff is. So I researched it, and am looking at several Youtube vids on it. Here's a cool one:





Mixx

Post: #77

(08-27-2011 08:08 AM)MiXX Wrote:  Texan, any style if dress you have to attract them? Or just weed and alternative rock?

I don't smoke weed; so I need some alternate ways to bang one without drugs.

Mixx

Personally, just a nice pair of jeans, long sleeve black shirt, some kind of neck band but cant strike out "i'm a poser", and i always wear my boots, not cowboy, just casual. Country Rock look so to speak, lets em know i'm down for the rock but with a country twang. I dont smoke pot either, but have had to call a buddy who i know who will smoke out anyone i'm with if i bring him a tall boy, then just head over to my pad. That's really the best advice i got on that, most of em in my experience are downers and have depression issues, this can create attachment issues, it's happend more than once to me.

Post: #78

I've always had a thing for goth girls, even after dating one... anyway, I come off as more of the 'rocker' type, so that's probably helped me. Often just saying I was in a punk band got me in the door. Somewhere around here you'll find some posts from me where I opened with a line asking if the girl was a lesbian. That girl was goth, and was a SNL. In fact, there's a lot of SNL potential in these girls, and yes most of them are freaky/aggressive. The tattoos, piercings and rainbow hair scream, "LOOK AT ME!" Yet most of them hate to be the center of attention. Speaking from experience, bang these girls once, twice if you're feeling lucky, and then run as fast as possible.

I digress though, I went to a 'goth club' years ago and it seemed like everyone knew everyone else there, and it would be tricky to run normal game. You can probably chance across one at most hipster or dive bars if you go enough times. I'd just play up your inner musician/artist and go from there. Most of these girls are huge fans of 'self-medicating' so it's pretty easy to either use G's favorite line, or just wait for them to get a little tipsy and throw themselves at you.

Above all else, when you bang one: wear a rubber.

Post: #79

Did once, and I`m not goth at all, nor did I really game her, it just ´´happened´´ back in school.

Keys to building attraction in my mind: I was smart, sarcastic, witty, and anti lots of things (we could hate on stuff together). We shared some key authors and bands and stuff, but I was also able to show her new shit that she really liked. I didn`t try to be goth or anything, no supplicating.

She was insecure as fuck, so having a rock solid personality is really attractive. In fact, she was very into just hearing me talk at length about things I felt strongly about. Many girls in fact have enjoyed hearing me talk about things they`re not really interested in, but this girl particularly so, just cause I sounded sure of myself and expressed confidence in my thoughts.

Once she was attracted she was very forward. Smooth sailing from there, and a total freak.

Post: #80

Well, anyone slay a vampire yet? I thought of this thread after just seeing Olga Kurylenko in Hitman.


Found this site for the rockstar look:

http://www.tattooapparel.com/


Good luck on the hunt.

Post: #81

there's a tattoo convention coming up AND some goth club event in a few weeks. i'll be attending both hunting down some gothic sluts.

Post: #82

Bumping this thread... Mixx and SFL cats, I think this may be a venue for you to check out if you still want to find some goth freaks. You don't have to go in goth/fetish gear, a good Halloween costume will suffice for this event. The venue even has a pool... but I've a feeling you're familiar with the spot, too.

Post: #83

Join a metal band and they'll flock to your dick like nothing else. Trust me.

Post: #84

A little like art school chicks and there does seem to be some cross-over. Just don't pander to them and you'll be OK.

Post: #85

I banged one around this time last year, i didnt necessarily meet her in her "scene" or anything like that. i met her at these tables all the cigarette smokers used to congregate at at my old junior college. She smoked.. A LOT, former drug habit i think. but she was actually pretty easy, we banged the first time i took her out, before we even went out. Really into Sarcasm like yall said, they all like nightmare before christmas and all that hot topic bullshit, liked emo punk rock goth type music and was into musicians. but very shy around other people for the most part

Post: #86

Look for the Edwardian Ball. In 2012 it's in two cities:

The January 20-22 in San Francisco (where its been longest running)
The Feb 4 in LA is the same thing, different city, less vendors, kinda an abbreviated version.

http://edwardianball.com/

Here's a video of 2011:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lSUries-U9w#!

Post: #87

Blackhawk...that looks like some very freaky shit!! I like it!

I don't think these girls are vampires, but I like the freakiness and weirdness they seem to have.


Mixx

Post: #88

Just noticed this thread. Ft Lauderdale's fetish scene is a fucking gold mine, I wish I hadn't been so beta when I lived there. I highly recommend checking out their anniversary party (usually Memorial Day weekend) as well as Halloween.

I smashed this model at a fetish convention in Tampa, shortly after I finished OCS in '08 (my Inner Game was through the roof then). Her top friend, "Ally Dansby", got fingerbanged on the dance floor by this short bald dude right in front of everybody. The four of us later ended up sharing their hotel bed (after I raw dogged Cara in their bathroom, sorry, no 4-way action).

The Halloween event that year was INSANE. It was held in a theater, and seriously was like the club scene from Blade 2. Blew my mind when walking in. Plus they had crazy cabaret shows, with this redhead from Denmark deepthroating giant black dildos while held on a leash by this dude in leather armor. I fingerbanged some Peruvian chick on the dancefloor but when the club closed I couldn't f-close her. Out of the club comes.....the bald dude from Tampa. I ask him where the after party is. The after party was essentially an orgy in a motel room. That's where I met this cougar dominatrix, who I smashed for the next month or so.

For these events, I typically went dressed like this:
   
Note: this slore isn't a goth. I invited her to a vampire party in Philly, intending to use her as a wing. She agreed. I took her to some fetish/bondage stores on South Street and she picked out a corset. When she came down the stairs dressed like this I abandoned all plans of opening totally unknown white chicks in favor of her. She blew me in my car after the party and I fucked her a week later.

My clothing: white dress shirt, black leather bracers, black PVC pants (great for showing off your dick), Harley Davidson boots.

Or like this:
   
This shot is here in Oki (obviously) and I didn't smash any of these slores (was chasing the one on the far right WAY too hard). What's important, though, is that if you are a solidly built or stocky guy, you can definitely rock leather pants and black wife beater, combine with slow & purposeful alpha body language, and half the women in a good sized fetish event will throw themselves at your feet. I've seen plenty of guys do it, but honestly I haven't pulled it off myself. Sometimes I rock the leather pants here in Oki as just a way to peacock, this place has no fetish scene (to my knowledge, although there IS a Japanese swinger's club).

Post: #89

(08-29-2011 09:58 PM)CJ Wrote:  I digress though, I went to a 'goth club' years ago and it seemed like everyone knew everyone else there, and it would be tricky to run normal game.

This is very true. Most cities have rather small goth communities that all hang out at 1-2 bars. It's a very tight-nit community and coming in as a stranger to snatch up the hot bitches can be an uphill battle. Avoid both DC and El Paso's goth clubs for this reason. Ft. Lauderdale (SNL), Miami (sucked on tits in the men's room), Tampa (SNL), and Los Angeles (*almost* an SNL, got swooped by a local dom) all seem large and healthy enough to make it worthwhile. Philadelphia is hit or miss, mostly miss.

Post: #90

I am a short drive to Fort Lauderdale, so I am going to start going to more of these parties and report back.

However, a Fetish party is different than goth/vampire and its more "Rubber/latex" oriented.

DamonH - how did you penetrate this scenen, because I notice these groups are tight-knit, and outsiders rarely get a chance to game these girls...

Alos, what are some of your approach tactics, and comfort techniques to escalate to sex with these specific type of girls?

I want those pale, slutty, Vampire chicks or girls with black crosses that dress like slutty nuns!!

Mixx

Post: #91

Fetish chicks are kind of odd. A lot of flaky and broken women, but if you double up on the alpha, get some decent goth threads, and have a "tall dark & handsome" appearance, they are very easy to get at night. I don't even need real game to pull 6s and 7s.

Post: #92

(11-19-2011 01:22 PM)MiXX Wrote:  However, a Fetish party is different than goth/vampire and its more "Rubber/latex" oriented.

True to an extent but there is very heavy overlap. I find most fetish folks are simply goth attention whores who like to get whipped/tied up in public.

Quote:DamonH - how did you penetrate this scenen, because I notice these groups are tight-knit, and outsiders rarely get a chance to game these girls...

Research the S&M community and terminology (top/bottom vs master/slave, TPE, etc.) online. When I took a buddy to his first party, we met this woman who had two people on dog leashes: a milquetoast looking guy and a cute blonde in a gas mask. I walked up to her and said, "Excuse me, are these your slaves? Nice." Speak the lingo and understand some of the dynamics within the couples you meet and people will assume you're already "in". This should definitely work in Florida because the community is large enough that while there are some regulars, people don't know *EVERYONE* right off the bat.

Quote:Alos, what are some of your approach tactics, and comfort techniques to escalate to sex with these specific type of girls?

In general I like commenting on a chick's wardrobe and accessories (this goes for non-fetish Game, as well). Some of them put a lot of effort into what they wear and that shit can get expensive. Next, get them near the little fetish sessions (hot candle wax dripping on chick's tits, asses getting whipped with a cat-of-nine-tails, girls who are on an X-shaped crucifixion/rack) and see what sorts of kinky shit piques her interest. This stuff sends their buying temp through the roof. Based on her IoI's, buying temp, and your perception of her overall slutiness, you can probably go heavy on the physically aggressive, dominating kino (hair pulling, pulling them close to you by the belt/pants, grabbing their ass, binding their wrists, etc.).

Note: the chicks I tended to swoop weren't swooped with these methods (more conventional Game, plus heavy peacocking using my body), but then they weren't my primary "gothic slut" targets. More like the 2nd-teir "kinda kinky" sluts. But I definitely watched the most successful guys do this stuff to pull the top-tier crazy, Gother-than-thou, please-choke-and-cut-me bitches.

Post: #93

DamonHVictor (I''ll refer to you as DHVic), welcome to the forum! Great way to start contributing.

+1 rep point from me.


Mixx

Post: #94

(11-18-2011 12:26 PM)Blackhawk Wrote:  Look for the Edwardian Ball. In 2012 it's in two cities:

The January 20-22 in San Francisco (where its been longest running)

I'd have been disappointed if it was longest running anywhere else.

Post: #95

Hey guys, I saw this thread and thought I'd offer my two cents. I've actually had sex with a vampire (super sexy, dresses goth, surgically fanged teeth, drinks blood). Here's a pic of her.

I wrote a post before on how to find one... Hope this helps

How to Slay a Vampire

Post: #96

Back when I was younger (19) I pulled a chick that fit this description back when I visited England for the first time (2005). I guess she could be considered a goth, all black w/ a studded choker, platform black boots etc....

I was DJing for a hip hop night that she, and a friend had put on that evening (not sure why she dressed like that to a hip hop night). I only found out through my two partners that were performing, and asked me to spin for their sets. I have a weakness for mixed race women, and this young lady (aside from the dress) fit the exact type of woman that I find the most attractive tall, light-skinned, with big curly hair.

After we finished our set she invited us to her apartment to party. It was three of my friends and about 4 of her friends. I won't front, I really didn't get to game her at the bar, because I was in the DJ booth and I didn't get to speak with her while up there. I planned on making a move while at her place. Once there we all sort of congregated in her living room, and started drinking.

The whole time one of the guy friends that she has was hating on me so incredibly hard, it was unbelievable. I didn't even know the guy, but he always seemed to have something salty to say. I just played it cool, and kept things conversational with the whole party. I was having problems pulling her away from the group, so I just decided to wait it out.... Out of nowhere goth girl just comes over and sits on my lap in front of everyone! I really was at a loss, because I wasn't really gaming her up to that point and she just pretty much chose me. I just rolled with it, and shot the shit with her. Talked about her Marylyn Manson doll collection, and all the other things she has in her apartment.

I start rubbing on her thigh, and she starts kissing on me. I don't want to sound like a punk or anything, but I'm kinda shook to be doing this in front of a room of people who aren't really conversing they're just looking at us two at this point. The next thing that happens I'll never forget, and I still remember it to this day. Goth chick began to start telling me what she wanted to do with me upstairs.

She said she liked to be pissed on, punched, and choked....

Real Talk.

I can't sit here and lie to you guys, as fine as she was I just wasn't sexually mature enough to handle what she just said to me lol... She went on about how she liked being a "Slave bitch" and would do anything I told her to do, but she wanted me to punch her in the face and shit!?!? Mind you she is still in my lap in front of the party, and now everyone is looking at me like "what are you gonna do?"

I panicked. I didn't throw her out of my lap or anything, but I literally just sat there and thought "yo this chick is crazy". Subsequently I didn't get the booty from her, and to this day I regret not going upstairs with her and slapping her ass around a little bit.

Post: #97

Yo Mixx - are you still on the goth hunt, Man?

I've always been turned on by these kind of chicks too. I remember Algebra my freshman year in college there was a goth chick that used to sit next to me. Asian chick with a badass body and really cute face, looooooong freaky nails, dark reddish-purple dyed hair, and always wearing the black shit.

I wasn't even really into Asians at the time but this chick had me fiending. I used to flirt with her and try to make a little progress but she was dating some football player and didn't seem interested. bastard. I really wanted that girl's gnarly nails carving up my back.

My own experience based on a few interactions with these types of women is they are typically really withdrawn and quiet, thus a bit hard to get to know, or really sassy. And I dooo like em' sassy.

Let us know how it panned out.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #98

Goth's dig the rockstar vibe. Peacoking and eyeliner will go far. I used to hang with goth chicks in school. I think most goth girls are in highschool.

Check out The Cure, Depeche Mode, and other New-Wave bands as well as industrial bands like Wumpscut, Bauhaus, or Funker Vogt.

I think Mystery was goth.. but, be careful not to confuse Goths and Vampires though :
http://www.southparkstudios.com/full-epi...groundable

Post: #99

dated a ginger that was like that, they be freaks brah!

Post: #100

I might hit up a goth club tonight..