Post: #1

Much game writing consists of an approach mentality, as it well should. I'm curious to hear stories, however, of women who've tried to game you, rather than the other way around.

I'm no player, but I have had a fair number of women ask me for sex. Half were actually sexy. One still occupies my mind/dreams on the regular, though I was, and am, married to a unicorn, without compromise.

This is an aspect of game I've not yet seen fleshed out. I'm curious to see how you men have likewise attracted women to you in such a manner that they are the ones offering, rather than your having to suggest.

Post: #2

I don't think it is that surprising that if you're a halfway decent looking man who doesn't come across as desperate that a woman would want to have sex with you. It isn't like women are asexual creatures until a man games them. I'm decent looking (neither ugly, nor model looks) and have been in a number of circumstances where female friends have made their intentions clear in that regard. Sometimes girls just want sex, and you happen to be the guy they want it from.

Post: #3

I don't think women game for sex.

Post: #4

(02-06-2017 11:05 PM)BassPlayaYo Wrote:  I don't think women game for sex.

Of the women that have come after me with sex as a lead on, they often used it as a means of trying to hook a relationship out of me. Just a few of the total ones that have come after me, leading with sex, did so only for a one-night-stand and that was that. Yes, there are a few girls that wanted to get their lady rocks off. But most of them saw sex as something they wanted as a way of getting me to be their boyfriend. If a girl in your social circle makes it really easy for you to sleep with her, I'd say 8 or 9 times out of 10, it is because she wants you to be her boyfriend. That's at least my personal experience.

Post: #5

JMK, agreed. Once, a [surprisingly hot, though a single mother of three] blonde had me over to her place, and after watching me play well with her 2-year-old, asked me to stay overnight. In hindsight, it seems clear she was just looking for some empathetic beta bux.

(yes, I was beta af at the time)

Post: #6

I feel like a girls shit tests are their form of game tbh. Definitely works both ways. Women just got the mainstream behind them to the "pick and choose" mentality

Post: #7

Most girls that make it really easy for you, plus especially if they are in your social circle, they usually see sex as part of the relationship package.

I think if a girl makes it easy for you based off tinder or cold approaches, it is more likely to be about sex only.

Post: #8

They don't have to game for sex, just turn up and say yes.

But they do game like fuck for commitment and resources and control of you.....

Post: #9

(02-06-2017 11:05 PM)BassPlayaYo Wrote:  I don't think women game for sex.

I've been gamed in my life by a couple of women, so some of them indeed do.

I remember a not-so-attractive girl (read: butterface) who I banged in college: she was so-so looking but quite intelligent. I did not know it then, but now I can see that she used Game101 on me: negs, push-pull, kino and alcohol.
Would never have gamed or banged her on my own initiative, but I'm not particularly traumatized by the experience. Her body was pretty tight actually.

Post: #10

Hmm, negs and push-pull. Good point, Nick. I used to think of it as just "snark", which I actually enjoy, so long as there's eye contact.

Mind you, most memories I have in mind are from before marriage (15 years). Since then, the women have become much more direct, including "You should leave your wife" while standing too close to me, or "I want to have sex with you all night long, and I'm not ashamed to admit it!" (exclamation mark in the original).

It now makes me wonder if this is a sign of changing times or if it's always been this way for married/older men.

Post: #11

Because its not "game." In the way we men interpret game (see, open, escalate, seduce, sex) women don't do that and I honestly doubt they are capable of it.

Think about it...

We open a girl, we use touch, stories, games, small talk, teasing to create comfort and build sexual tension. Then our logistics have to be on point, we usually have some type of currency exchange (drinks, food, taxi, etc), and then we have to continue gaming her at her place to actually fuck her. We operate from a place of persuading a girl that we are a high quality male that she should fuck.

Women do not operate to persuade us that "I am a high quality female you should fuck" state of mind. Women don't approach, lead the interaction to make us more attracted to them, offer an exchange of currency, and then game us into fucking them. They know we want to fuck them. They never push an interaction to sex--they can only make themselves available for us to push the interaction to sex.

How many times have you had a girl push through your own LMR? In all instances of you banging a girl Im sure at some point you realized she wanted to fuck you and then you made a decision to go in for the kill.

A girl walking up to you and saying "hey lets fuck" is not solid game at all. Is someone that knows men want to fuck her and just putting it out there--no skill involved...

I define game as the skills used to satisfy the biological imperative: survival of the organism; survival of the species--this one pertains to the conversation at hand.
A man needs to spread his seed and have as many offspring as possible.
A woman needs to find a strong male to reproduce with and have stay around long enough (9 months) to protect her.

Our "game" is different from a womans "game".
Hers is to extract resources from us and ours is to impregnate them(or at least pretend to). A woman running game on us is attempting to persuade us into committing to them. A mans game is persuading them into fuck.

Can a woman have tight game. Yes
But not in the way/methods that we think about game. A woman cannot have man game because...why would they?



edit: Lesbians can have man game in theory but even that is WAYYYYYY different so I just call it lesbian game.

Post: #12

(02-06-2017 11:00 PM)Hoser Wrote:  I'm no player, but I have had a fair number of women ask me for sex. Half were actually sexy. One still occupies my mind/dreams on the regular, though I was, and am, married to a unicorn, without compromise.

How many of them did you bang? Ah, you're married, so none then? Gotcha.

Amusing how women all crawl out of the woodwork putting their bid in when they know you're spoken for, but make themselves real scarce when they find out you're single, even though maybe the relationship ended just five minutes ago and you're still exactly the same man you were, no difference whatsoever.

It's sorta like they often don't really have your best interests at heart...if they did they'd be doing the exact opposite.

(02-08-2017 01:01 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  How many times have you had a girl push through your own LMR? In all instances of you banging a girl Im sure at some point you realized she wanted to fuck you and then you made a decision to go in for the kill.

Depends on her weight class.

Post: #13

(02-08-2017 01:31 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(02-08-2017 01:01 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  How many times have you had a girl push through your own LMR? In all instances of you banging a girl Im sure at some point you realized she wanted to fuck you and then you made a decision to go in for the kill.

Depends on her weight class.

Honestly I was thinking about this fat chick I fucked and even then she was just making herself available probably hoping I wouldn't see past her titties and realize that she was fat. I was leading the whole time.

Post: #14

XPQ22, regarding the "how many did you bang" question, you are correct: after the wedding, the number is zero other than my bride. A small number of makeouts, yes, but there's a line I was never willing to cross. Keeping on this side of it has served me, and my marriage, well.

The "gotcha" went over my head. Explain?

Post: #15

(02-08-2017 01:31 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  Amusing how women all crawl out of the woodwork putting their bid in when they know you're spoken for, but make themselves real scarce when they find out you're single, even though maybe the relationship ended just five minutes ago and you're still exactly the same man you were, no difference whatsoever.