Post: #1

Last couple of weeks i've been heavily concentrating a spanish girl i work with.

Bad idea yeah, but fuck, i've been obsessing about her.

Anyway, on friday night everyone went out for a drink after work.
I distanced myself from the spaniard, as i want her to want me as much as i want her. And it semi worked.

She left early, but here's the minor fuck up; all the pretty foreign girls I work with are really quite interested in me. They were feeding me whisky all night.

Here's the major fuck up, there were 4 of us left and we went to a shitter of a bar, jsut drinking pints and smoking.

A 29 year old, married polish woman would not keep her hands off me.

One of my bosses noticed, but hes sound and nothing will happen.

Oooooft, here's to living life young boys

Post: #2

(02-05-2017 10:19 AM)jabbaworx Wrote:  She left early, but here's the minor fuck up; all the pretty foreign girls I work with are really quite interested in me. They were feeding me whisky all night.

Here's the major fuck up, there were 4 of us left and we went to a shitter of a bar, jsut drinking pints and smoking.

A 29 year old, married polish woman would not keep her hands off me.

One of my bosses noticed, but hes sound and nothing will happen.

Oooooft, here's to living life young boys

Don't understand:
What is the minor fuckup? that you were getting whisky?

Suggest spinning more plates, and not at work.
From my experience nothing good ever comes out of it.

Post: #3

Ya, be careful with dipping your pen in the company ink.

Also, watch yourself getting drunk with your boss.

Post: #4

Here's my two-cents:

1.) Don't shit where you eat.

Every guy thinks he'll be an exception to the rule, but the odds simply aren't in your favor. When (not if) shit goes south, you're risking your livelihood for a piece of ass. There are far too many girls to be found out there to jeopardize your income for a co-worker.

2.) You either have "oneitis" or are dangerously close to developing it.

You are focusing all your attention on this one chick. By doing that, you're essentially assigning her a value she hasn't earned and likely doesn't deserve. Start focusing on picking up girls outside the workplace.

3.) Getting drunk in front of co-workers (especially your boss) is just sloppy.

Don't blame it on the women making you drink, man. Are you not in control of yourself? It's just poor form to get shitty in front of the people you work with.

4.) Being pre-selected by other women seldom, if ever, hurts your chances of bagging one woman in particular except in cases where it just comes off trashy.

For example:

There's a world of difference between a girl seeing other girls be flirty and touch you while they're talking to you, and you getting plastered and making a public spectacle out of yourself. Girls, by and large, have a herd mentality-style thinking -- if you've acted in such a way your conduct has made you seem like a social pariah, she's not going to want to associate with you for fear of it having negative repercussions on her own reputation. She still may associate with you in private, but it's quite possible (dare I say likely) you've created more of an uphill battle for yourself.