Post: #1

I've been using this line a lot lately at the end off coffee dates. I say it with a cocky confident smile on my face while nodding my chin upwards .I've used it at least 6 times recently and every girl went for it. I noticed that 3 got little cold after in communication..one even said.."it was too soon for me". Like she got scared off.I eventually moved on from all 3.

What are your thoughts on this? Too aggressive? Wrong venue? I usually get more repeat buisness .

Post: #2

Good for you. Tell them who is in charge. A good woman loves that. A feminist would be offended. That's how you weed them out.

Post: #3

I like it. That "its too soon for me" sounds like complete horse shit. If they are saying that and actually going cold on you you're probably not making your date sexual enough with body language, kino, innuendos.

Post: #4

You might be right about the ineuandos. on two of those I wasn't on it enouph, too vanilla until the end . But they do get to it every time I use the line.

Post: #5

Eh, I'd rather just go for it myself than put the ball in their court. But hey, if it's working for you...

Post: #6

Agree that the man should initiate the kiss, but that is a solid move, especially if you deliver it how you say you do. I don't necessarily see it leading to a bang given your doing it on coffee dates but it does display confidence. Wouldn't recommend it for everyone but if you can pull it off we'll worth a shot.

Post: #7

I generally just kiss girls when I think they're receptive to it and when I want to.

In recent experience (the last 4-5 years?) only one girl has rejected it and turned her cheek. That said, I take my sweet time deciding if and when I want to kiss a girl. If you find a girl close to your face and wondering what the hell she's looking at, she's ready to kiss you.

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Post: #8

Come to think of it, those three did have the feminist vibe going for them.
It did lead to a morning bang though. The girl was a former model/actress from LA ( yeah right..she was in a music video and infomercial). She was probably a 10 ten years ago. Great body but hit the wall. We had maybe a 45 minute convo..I pulled the kiss me move and then went back to her place and I hulk smashed . He'll, I probably didn't have to say much at all really. I never called her again.

I do have to learn to play at my audience better , that's an area of my game I need to improve on . The feminist thing makes total sense.

Post: #9

I feel like it's smoother to simply go for the kiss yourself.

Post: #10

I used to say "gimme kiss" (sic) in a similar way to your line, bad grammar and all. Used to get lots of laughs because the caveman vibe of it was so different from my usual egghead demeanor.

But as others have mentioned, it usually ends up giving them more outs than not. Now I end up just going for it.

Post: #11

its more dominant to go for the kiss yourself. Neil Straus in game explains very well how to do this. move in close, focus on her left eye, then her right eye, then her lips. you make a triangle. An even more dominant thing is to do the close in triangle and then NOT kiss her, its akin a rejection or neg. But at the same time you are escalating.

what you are doing is good but in comparison is much more noncommital.

Post: #12

Yeah I always just go for it without saying a word. I give her a hug, then look at her and just move in and take what's mine.

I haven't been slapped yet.

Post: #13

Saying kiss me to a girl is just straight up weak behaviour, I say if your going to kiss them then just go for it, be the man and lead. What your doing is asking for permission to act even though your saying it to her, I'd feel like a chump doing this

Post: #14

Let us all go and try it out and return with the field reports.

Post: #15

You've been talking to a girl for a while but cant seem to find an opportunity to kiss her. You're flirting and really hitting it off.

Want to know the perfect word to kiss her at ANYTIME?

Well here it is... 'wait'

Say this magical word and pull her in.

Post: #16

(02-03-2017 10:11 AM)Steve McQueen Wrote:  Saying kiss me to a girl is just straight up weak behaviour, I say if your going to kiss them then just go for it, be the man and lead. What your doing is asking for permission to act even though your saying it to her, I'd feel like a chump doing this

I dunno man. I read somewhere that "kiss me" when used at night game is pretty effective. I wanna say it was on here but I don't remember as it was a while ago.

OP walk us through how you get to this point. Its only weak if his frame up to that point is weak and then the delivery.

Post: #17

(02-02-2017 10:00 PM)MVPnis Wrote:  What are your thoughts on this? Too aggressive? Wrong venue? I usually get more repeat buisness .

You're asking the wrong questions.

Your success with girls should be measured by how quickly and often you can bang them, not kiss them.

Post: #18

There is a place and time for everything. Depends on how she's feeling you in general. Using it as a default "move" at the end of every date is not a way to go about it.

Post: #19

I don't know. I feel more like being in control of the wheel drive, and not to hear objections. I tried once in Ukraine, I remember, and the girld said "What? C'mon"... I had to kiss her and be more agresive to recover from that and get the bang

Post: #20

Ok. These are coffee dates.. most of the time it works well, actually it worked everytime.It's a new move I've been trying. The feminist girls seemed to get cold feet the next day. I did get a day bang from it. But I'm a cocky asshole most of the time and extremely confident. I like telling her what to do right off the bat and her submitting to it...especially with a first incident of intimacy. I think it's most effective with a certain type of girl. Depending on the girl, it might be best to tone down and wait or like others said, just go for it.

It would be cool if some others tried this and posted results.