Post: #26

Check out Slub's thread on dating 9s:
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The reason most men get nervous around beautiful women is simply because they don't have enough experience with them. Men who date mostly 5s will have the same nervousness around a 7.

The advice you received is spot on. I believe it was Roosh who advised to treat this type of girl like your little sister. Tease her and be playful with her. We automatically have a tendency to play it safe with beautiful women because "we don't want to fuck up". This play it safe attitude makes makes us lose our boldness.

It is easier said then done, but try to have a good time. Make a concerted effort not to focus her physical beauty. Focus more on her personality and getting to know her. Ultimately, the abundance theory only works with hot women when we actually have the experience and options of being with them in reality. You can't trick your mind into believing you have others of the same quality when you don't. However, you can reframe your mindset so that you aren't captivated by her beauty. Focusing on her intrinsic qualities is a first step to this reframing. Let her prove to you that she has more to offer than just her physical qualities.

Good luck and keep us posted.

Dantes

Post: #27

All the advice given here is gold. I'd add to that by saying ,in my experience the 9's were way easier than the 7/8's ever where.

By easier I mean they where:

-way nicer

-when I approached ,they where open to what I had to say

Overall really pretty girls and really ugly girls share the same burden in that, no one wants to talk to them. In knowing that don't sell yourself short, that stunner that you see (a lot of times) may be easier than the adverage 7/8