Post: #1

Sorry for posting multiple threads tonight, but I feel a lot of guys would be interested in this one.

Earlier tonight I met a few girls, as I was trying out new material (that's what Thursday is for). Anyway, one of the girls I spoke with kept insisting I buy her a shot, a beer, or anything with alcohol in it. Typical, right? Well, I kept refusing, and finally she cracked.

Her exact words were: "Wow, why aren't you as dumb as the other guys here, why did you have to be so smart?" I replied with a chuckle, "What?" (Yes, I already knew) And she continued, "At least 99% of the guys in here (as she pointed at random dudes) would buy me a drink, but no, you have to be different. You're smart."

At this point I tried to keep a mental note, as I realized this was valuable information most girls don't willingly give for nothing. She continued to ask for freebies as time elapsed, but I kept telling her no, and she kept saying she forgot how smart I was as she pushed her body closer into me. She went on to say how I was the smartest and most interesting guy in the bar. This is awesome because I've completely let my hair go to shit since starting my new job, yet can still elicit this reaction with solid game (another thing I'm testing).

She gave me her number, hopefully I bang her later this week (she's texting me now, argh) as logistics messed things up, but the important thing here is don't buy slutty girls drinks, ESPECIALLY AT DIVE BARS. These girls are already sluts, and by the end of the night, I got her to buy me a shot, her friend to 'accidentally' buy me a shot, and she gave me one of her beers!

Easy stuff fellas!

Post: #2

Great intell. From experience I've had the same results. Don't be a pussy around girls and they will go out of their way to be submissive. Great example in real time. Everyone needs to learn from this. Excellent example CJ.

Post: #3

I must have "easy mark" written on my forehead, chicks just get mad and leave when I don't comply with the drink buying.

Post: #4

I've tried a different approach. When a girl I'm talking to asks for a drink, I refuse. But then, when I finish my drink, I give her $20 and tell her to go to bar and bring ME a drink. So far in every case a girl brought two drinks, one for me and one for her (one even tried to pocket the change instead of leaving it as a tip, and got her balls busted for being such a cheapskate). So far it seems like a good move, because:

- It clearly puts you into the dominant position, you're the one making orders and she's the one following orders.
- While she's out you have time to review the progress and make necessary corrections, or even peek up your notes; very useful if you're still learning the material. You can also play with your cellphone, respond to SMS whatever.
- You'll get drink without leaving the table, eventually getting a free waiter service, and everyone around sees that.
- She's getting a drink, so the alcohol is kept flowing, but it is not done in a standard pattern, and I don't think it hurts your status in any way.
- Once she's back you can bust her balls for it taking so long, or being a cheapskate (if she didn't leave a tip). Optionally you can bust her balls for spending your money on herself without your permission, although it is sleazy topic and I haven't tried it yet.

What do you think guys?

Post: #5

(08-19-2011 05:15 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  I've tried a different approach. When a girl I'm talking to asks for a drink, I refuse. But then, when I finish my drink, I give her $20 and tell her to go to bar and bring ME a drink. So far in every case a girl brought two drinks, one for me and one for her (one even tried to pocket the change instead of leaving it as a tip, and got her balls busted for being such a cheapskate). So far it seems like a good move, because:

- It clearly puts you into the dominant position, you're the one making orders and she's the one following orders.
- While she's out you have time to review the progress and make necessary corrections, or even peek up your notes; very useful if you're still learning the material. You can also play with your cellphone, respond to SMS whatever.
- You'll get drink without leaving the table, eventually getting a free waiter service, and everyone around sees that.
- She's getting a drink, so the alcohol is kept flowing, but it is not done in a standard pattern, and I don't think it hurts your status in any way.
- Once she's back you can bust her balls for it taking so long, or being a cheapskate (if she didn't leave a tip). Optionally you can bust her balls for spending your money on herself without your permission, although it is sleazy topic and I haven't tried it yet.

What do you think guys?

and do you get laid after you buy "you" and her drinks? I never spend any money on whores in the states, period. These fuckholes are loaded already, what's the point?

Post: #6

I usually take the same approach as Pusscrook, although I can count on 1 hand the times a woman has suggested that I buy her a drink in the U.S. (its extremely rare).

At the same, I find Old Nemesis' approach very interesting.

Post: #7

(08-19-2011 05:25 PM)Pusscrook Wrote:  and do you get laid after you buy "you" and her drinks? I never spend any money on whores in the states, period. These fuckholes are loaded already, what's the point?

Well, we clearly have different priorities, so while I understand your position, I'm not going to use it.

Post: #8

When girls ask me to buy them a drink (subtly or otherwise) I just laugh or say "yeah right" or something to that extent. It only makes them want you more... then it's on.

I really do like Oldnemesis' approach, I've done it on accident a few times... but I would only attempt it after she's invested a significant (20+ min) amount of time talking to me.